Queerly Divine is a podcast about becoming yourself after a lifetime of suppression.
Hosted by an AuDHD lesbian, it blends trauma healing, attachment styles, parts work (IFS), and shadow work with spirituality.
For anyone navigating identity, relationships, and the parts of themselves they had to hide to feel safe. Nothing about you is random.
How Your Childhood Shapes Who You Become When You Lose Control
I didn't first understand my "parts" just through therapy — I learned them through my own journey with alcoholism… and the damage it caused in my relationships, including the one I had with myself.
When I drank, I thought I was becoming a completely different person. But in reality, alcohol was revealing the suppressed parts of myself that I had learned to hide growing up.
In this episode, I walk through how my childhood shaped the way I show up in relationships — from growing up in an unpredictable environment, to becoming the "strong one," to learning how to suppress parts of myself just to feel safe and loved.
We then connect that to:
why you act like a different person when you're drunk
how alcohol lowers your emotional filter
parts work (IFS) and fragmentation
attachment styles and relationship patterns
Carl Jung's concept of shadow work and the unconscious mind
inner child healing and emotional suppression
why the parts of you you reject don't disappear — they come out when you can't control them
Through my own experience, I realized alcohol didn't create a different version of me — it revealed the parts of me that never felt safe to exist.
If you've ever wondered:
"Why do I act like a different person sometimes?"
"Why do I lose control of my emotions?"
"Why do I overgive, shut down, or push people away?"
"Where do these patterns come from?"
This episode will help you understand that nothing about you is random — your patterns, your reactions, and even your "out of control" moments all have roots.
🌿 All my links → https://bio.site/queerlydivine
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Timestamps:
00:00 Intro - Why You Act Different When You're Drunk
00:52 Personal Story & How I Learned My Patterns
00:52:20 Childhood Background & Family Dynamics
07:39:18 Understanding Attachment Styles
09:19:00 Covert Incest & Emotional Parentification
10:31:03 Soul Fragmentation, Alcohol & Parts Work
22:32:00 Types of Drunk Personalities & What They Mean
26:15:08 Questions for Healing & Self-Reflection
34:57:08 Outro
9 Apr 2026
What Healing from Trauma Actually Looks Like
Season 1, Episode 4
In this episode of Queerly Divine, I talk about what healing from trauma actually looks like — not the aesthetic version, but the real, body-based experience.
After stepping back into stand-up comedy, my body went into survival mode. I experienced dissociation, overwhelm, and a nervous system response that reminded me healing isn't about pushing through — it's about listening.
We talk about:
how trauma is stored in the body
dissociation and survival responses
why forcing yourself before you're ready can backfire
nervous system regulation and safety
taking smaller, safer steps toward healing
This episode is for anyone navigating trauma, anxiety, or the feeling of "I thought I was healed… so why does this still hurt?"
🌿 All my links → bio.site/queerlydivine (bio.site/queerlydivine)
29 Mar 2026
My Metamorphosis — Leaving My Hometown, Losing Everything & Starting Over | Episode 3
This episode is my story of what it actually looked like to leave my hometown and rebuild my life from the ground up.
Not the polished version — the real one.
I talk about the moments that pushed me to walk away from everything I knew… from burnout, illness, and toxic environments, to my spiritual awakening and finally coming into my identity — from seeking help through Out Memphis to ultimately moving to Chattanooga and starting over.
This episode covers:
• Leaving Memphis and moving to Chattanooga
• Seeking support through Out Memphis and navigating identity
• Hitting rock bottom physically and emotionally
• My spiritual awakening and healing journey
• Navigating family, identity, and coming out
• Outgrowing environments that no longer aligned
• Learning to trust myself and start over
This is the kind of transformation people don’t talk about — the messy, uncomfortable, in-between phase where nothing feels certain.
If you’ve ever felt stuck, disconnected, or like you’re meant for something more… this episode is for you.
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🎙️ Queerly Divine is a space where queerness, fear, healing, and becoming are all allowed — and nothing has to be figured out right away.
🔗 Connect with me, support the podcast, and find all my links here:
https://bio.site/queerlydivine (https://bio.site/queerlydivine)
19 Mar 2026
Why Queer People Lose Their Sense of Self
If you’ve ever felt like you don’t fully know who you are, or like you had to become someone else just to survive—this episode is for you.
In this episode of Queerly Divine, we explore the psychological roots of identity loss growing up queer. We talk about self-rejection, dissociation, masking, internal family systems (IFS), and even concepts like soul loss and integration—bridging both Western psychology and spiritual frameworks.
This episode is about understanding that there are real, valid reasons behind why you may feel disconnected from yourself—and that healing isn’t about becoming someone new, but returning to who you’ve always been.
Socials/Community/Support the Podcast: bio.site/queerlydivine (https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=channel_header&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbXo5RDNQdlRpRjk4NEY5R1dpUFotUUNyZkNDZ3xBQ3Jtc0tub0JweS1SMzhFOGlLWjhPSFJ4WGFEVDJ5dkE3bHpFLWVqZkREblJuQ2FEWnJXVmpjUldNRHVGaTB6YXYxWnpoLTRTZHhLUmUwUVJOX2VWY3huTURBT1lXZmw5eDlObUVQcHJmY3lsb2lXQ2lCQm11WQ&q=https%3A%2F%2Fbio.site%2Fqueerlydivine)
Receipts/Links:
• Meyer, I. H. (2003). Prejudice, social stress, and mental health in lesbian, gay, and bisexual populations: Conceptual issues and research evidence. Psychological Bulletin, 129(5), 674–697. https://doi.org/10.1037/0033-2909.129.5.674 (https://doi.org/10.1037/0033-2909.129.5.674)
• The Beginners Guide to Shamanic Journeying by Sandra Ingerman: http://tiny.cc/e4k0101 (http://tiny.cc/e4k0101)
18 Mar 2026
Growing Up Gay in the Bible Belt | Fear, Shame, and Healing
In this episode of Queerly Divine, I share what it was like growing up gay in the Bible Belt and how internalized homophobia, fear, and shame shaped my identity.
This episode explores queer identity, masking, nervous system freeze, and what it means to become yourself after years of not feeling safe.
I talk about growing up in the South, knowing I was gay from a young age, and how survival and fear impacted the way I moved through the world.
We also get into family dynamics, religion, trauma, healing, and finding your identity after years of hiding.
If you've ever felt like you had to shrink yourself to stay safe, this episode is for you.
Welcome to Queerly Divine - a space where queerness, fear, and becoming are all allowed, and nothing has to be figured out right away.
18 Mar 2026
Queerly Divine - Queerness, Identity, and Becoming Yourself
This is the introduction to Queerly Divine - a podcast about queerness, spirituality, identity, and what it actually means to become yourself.
Hosted by an AuDHD lesbian navigating unmasking, nervous system regulation, and rebuilding life from the ground up, this is a space for honest conversations - without dogma, gurus, or spiritual bypassing.
We talk about the messy parts.
The in-between phases.
The identity shifts, the grief, and the humor in all of it.
This is for the cycle breakers.
The black sheep.
The ones who always felt like they were too much, not enough, or somewhere in between.
If you've ever felt like you didn't fully belong anywhere…
you might belong here.
Queerness is sacred.
Curiosity is welcome.
Nothing is required.
Take what resonates. Leave what doesn't.
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