We're all just trying to figure it out, so let's figure it out together. I want to help you navigate what we call life by sharing what I've learned from experience, from others, and being vulnerable. Helping you elevate your mindset and perspective to be more abundant and open-minded in your business journey and in life. Let's get uncomfortable talking about the most common situations that most don't like to talk about. You'll be able to learn from guests on the podcast on topics like fears, challenges in building businesses, restarting, and reinventing themselves. This podcast is a platform to bring everybody together on the highs and lows of life so you don't have to feel alone. We're all in it together!
Real and Raw with Ruby
Claim This Podcastby Ruby Mendez
5.0(26 reviews)
12 episodes
Updated Daily
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Podcast Overview
We're all just trying to figure it out, so let's figure it out together. I want to help you navigate what we call life by sharing what I've learned from experience, from others, and being vulnerable. Helping you elevate your mindset and perspective to be more abundant and open-minded in your business journey and in life. Let's get uncomfortable talking about the most common situations that most don't like to talk about. You'll be able to learn from guests on the podcast on topics like fears, challenges in building businesses, restarting, and reinventing themselves. This podcast is a platform to bring everybody together on the highs and lows of life so you don't have to feel alone. We're all in it together!
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Publishing Since
8/18/2020
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Recent Episodes
April 30, 2021
Becoming a Magnet of Attracting What You Deserve with Anna "La Chiri"
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Anna “La Chiri” is on the podcast and we’re talking about all things relationships, including the relationship you have with yourself and attracting what you are truly deserving of in life! Anna shares lessons from her childhood, having her daughter young, and how that gave her perspective on the relationships she wanted to attract into her life! From friendships, to career and attracting that perfect partner into your life, we dive into it all! </span></p> <p> </p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">02:30 Meet Anna, aka “La Chiri”!</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">04:00 Lessons from being an immigrant and working hard from a young age?</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">07:15 How did having your daughter at 20 change your life?</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">10:00 What was it like dealing with judgment from others when you were younger?</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">12:40 How did you approach relationships differently as a single mom?</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">14:50 As a woman, how do you get out of survival mode, heal, and thrive?</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">17:00 What relationships do you attract when you show up in your masculine energy?</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">21:15 The power of setting boundaries!</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">25:00 How did you delay gratification and focus on long-term growth?</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">30:30 What state of mind were you in when you met your husband?</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">33:00 How did you meet your husband? </span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">36:15 Do you feel like men need stability in certain areas to be ready for a relationship?</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">39:00 How do you not self-sabotage when the right man does come along?</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">41:40 What makes your relationship so healthy and how do you focus on that?</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">45:00 The power of stepping into your feminine energy!</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">47:15 How do you not lose yourself in a long-term relationship?</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">49:00 What you focus on is what you will bring more of into your life?</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">53:00 What is the one thing you hope listeners will take away from this episode?</span></p> <p> </p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Follow Anna on Instagram |</span> <a href= "https://www.instagram.com/chiriblissliving/?hl=en"><span style= "font-weight: 400;">@chiriblissliving</span></a></p> <p> </p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">………………………………..</span></p> <p> </p> <p><strong>Connect with Ruby on Instagram |</strong> <a href= "https://www.instagram.com/rubyecom/?hl=en"><span style= "font-weight: 400;">@rubyecom</span></a></p> <p><br /> <br /></p> <p><strong>Find out more and work with Ruby |</strong> <a href= "https://lnk.bio/rubyecom"><span style= "font-weight: 400;">https://lnk.bio/rubyecom</span></a></p>
April 30, 2021
How Our Childhood Upbringings Affected our Adulthood Dating with My Sister Gabby
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">This episode is all about dating and relationships! Ruby and co-host/sister, Gabby, discuss their childhood relationships with their parents in today’s podcast! How much did their individual childhood experiences with love shape who they are today, and has that affected their present-day dating life for better or worse? This episode explores the reasons behind their abandonment issues, trust issues, and the compulsion to become the “fixer” in their relationships. But there’s always a positive side as Ruby and Gabby dive into how you can grow and discover yourself after a breakup, prioritize yourself, and improve your future relationships. Between sharing stories of being ghosted and interpreting confusing dating labels, today we’re talking about spreading love and, most importantly, loving yourself!</span></p> <p><br /> <br /></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">1:00 Welcoming back Gabby!</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">1:45 Gabby’s childhood with Ruby.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">3:20 How have their individual experiences with their parents’ love affected their dating life now?</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">7:10 Gabby’s first serious relationship.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">8:10 How has the relationship with your father affected you?</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">11:30 The difference between internal vs external confidence.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">14:20 How did the relationship between their mother and father influence them as children?</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">15:35 Gabby’s trust issues.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">17:50 How has Ruby’s insecurities affected her relationships?</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">21:30 Why Gabby became a “fixer”.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">23:30 What can you discover about yourself after your relationship?</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">25:20 How can parents set a good example for their children with their relationship?</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">29:00 How do you try to improve your relationships now?</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">30:20 What is going to be different and better in the next relationship you’re in?</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">36:35 What is it like being “ghosted?”</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">41:55 Interpreting confusing relationship labels and knowing when to become “exclusive”</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">48:30 What does “going with the flow” mean in a relationship?</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">49:50 How divorce and dating can intersect.</span></p> <p><br /> <br /></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">………………………………..</span></p> <p> </p> <p><strong>Connect with Ruby on Instagram |</strong> <a href= "https://www.instagram.com/rubyecom/?hl=en"><span style= "font-weight: 400;">@rubyecom</span></a></p> <p><br /> <br /></p> <p><strong>Find out more and work with Ruby |</strong> <a href= "https://lnk.bio/rubyecom"><span style= "font-weight: 400;">https://lnk.bio/rubyecom</span></a></p> <p> </p>
December 11, 2020
Becoming the Person You Seek: A Male Perspective with Kyree Oliver
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">We’re talking about relationships again on the podcast! Not only about the perfect relationship with a partner you want to manifest in your life, but THE MOST important relationship you’ll ever have. The one with yourself! Our host Ruby is joined by Kyree Oliver, an entrepreneur in his work in marketing and life coaching. Kyree doesn’t hold back as he talks about why we build up walls, and how to break the negative cycles we find ourselves in. It’s all about honest examination of why we show up in relationships the way we do, and how reaching the point of being tired of your own bullshit can become the biggest breakthrough! Tune in to find out how you can find fulfillment within yourself, success in business, and of course manifest the perfect partner for you. </span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">01:00 Meet Kyree!</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">04:20 How help men and women navigate through challenges?</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">05:40 How can men embrace their soft heart?</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">09:05 What is your inner child? How does that show up in our lives?</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">13:20 How do become aware of childhood beliefs and see what is no longer serving you?</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">16:00 What you need to do BEFORE you start working with a life coach.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">19:50 What advice would you give to strong women looking to find a partner?</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">24:40 Ask yourself, what do you think about when you lay awake at night?</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">29:00 How do you work through taking your walls down and being vulnerable after being hurt?</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">33:10 Do you think it’s possible to find a partner while working on yourself, or do you need to work on yourself first?</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">36:40 How to know if you’re ready for your “perfect” partner.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">38:15 How can people break from survival mode into feeling like they’re thriving?</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">42:15 How have you found fulfillment?</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">45:45 What can we do right now to become the person we want to be?</span></p> <p> </p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Follow Kyree on Facebook and Instagram</span> <a href= "https://www.instagram.com/kyree/?hl=en"><span style= "font-weight: 400;">@kyree</span></a></p> <p> </p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Check out these books mentioned in the podcast!</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Never Eat Alone by Keith Ferrazzi & Tahl Raz</span></p> <p><a href= "https://www.amazon.com/Never-Eat-Alone-Expanded-Updated/dp/0385346654"> <span style= "font-weight: 400;">https://www.amazon.com/Never-Eat-Alone-Expanded-Updated/dp/0385346654</span></a></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">A Man’s Search for Meaning by Viktor Frankl</span></p> <p><a href= "https://www.amazon.com/Mans-Search-Meaning-Viktor-Frankl/dp/0807000000/ref=asc_df_0807000000/?tag=hyprod-20&linkCode=df0&hvadid=312734685832&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=16608063926413758048&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=c&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=9029976&hvtargid=pla-572474067015&psc=1"> <span style= "font-weight: 400;">https://www.amazon.com/Mans-Search-Meaning-Viktor-Frankl/dp/0807000000/ref=asc_df_0807000000/?tag=hyprod-20&linkCode=df0&hvadid=312734685832&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=16608063926413758048&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=c&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=9029976&hvtargid=pla-572474067015&psc=1</span></a></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">………………………………..</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Get in touch with Ruby on Instagram: @rubyecom</span></p> <p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/rubyecom/?hl=en"><span style= "font-weight: 400;">https://www.instagram.com/rubyecom/?hl=en</span></a></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Find out more and work with Ruby:</span></p> <p><a href="https://lnk.bio/rubyecom"><span style= "font-weight: 400;">https://lnk.bio/rubyecom</span></a></p>
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