Real Life Man

About Real Life Man

Becoming good at being a man – real conversations, real transformation. The Real Life Men Podcast is a space for men who are tired of shallow talk and ready to face the real stuff—identity, masculinity, emotional wounds, purpose, and the tension between strength and vulnerability. Whether you’re wrestling with who you are, navigating same-sex attraction, healing from the past, or simply trying to grow into the man you were created to be, this podcast is for you. Hosted by men who’ve walked the road themselves, each episode dives into honest conversations, practical wisdom, and faith-based insights—without fluff or religious clichés. We talk about what most men won’t, but should. This is a place for men who want to grow with courage, truth, and integrity. Let’s redefine what it means to be a man—together.

Publisher

Marc

Category

religion & spirituality · society & culture

Language

en

Explicit

No

First episode

25 Jun 2025

Latest episode

12 Nov 2025

Latest episodes

17 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   12 Nov 2025

   17 - Feelings and Urges

   Feelings and Urges: Untangling What’s Really Going On Summary: In this episode, Marc and Justin have an honest and raw conversation about the connection between our feelings, urges, and behavior. They talk about how men often act out of legitimate feelings—loneliness, inadequacy, boredom, pain—but in unhealthy ways like pornography, fantasy, or overachievement. The conversation dives into how healing starts when we stop masking our pain, have compassion for ourselves, and invite God to meet us there. They share personal stories around same-sex attraction, shame, and healing from abuse, showing that God’s goal isn’t just to make us “better men,” but to restore us completely. It’s a real look at how courage, vulnerability, and community are essential to breaking free from destructive cycles. 💬 Key Takeaways: Your feelings aren’t the enemy. They’re signals pointing to deeper needs—connection, validation, belonging—that God wants to meet. Compassion breaks shame. You can’t heal what you hate. When you look at yourself through Christ’s eyes, you stop seeing only the sin and start seeing the son He loves. Patterns can be retrained. Acting out is often a learned response to pain. Creating new “paths” of response takes intentional practice and grace. Community is God’s design for healing. When we risk being known by other men of faith, God uses those relationships to reshape how we see ourselves. Your story has power. Sharing your testimony brings light to dark places—the enemy loses power when truth is spoken out loud. 🔥 Real Quotes for Reflection: “Christ had compassion for the sinner—and if we’re reflecting Him, we need to have compassion for ourselves too.” “I trained myself to treat loneliness or boredom with pornography. Now I’m learning to train my heart to turn to God instead.” “We can’t just slap a band-aid over our pain. God doesn’t want you to just survive—He wants to deliver you.” “Reality is truth. Feelings are real, but they’re not always true.” “Your testimony doesn’t fix everything—but it drags the devil into the light.” 🙏 For the Listener: This episode invites you to pause and ask: What am I really feeling beneath my urges? Whether it’s loneliness, shame, or fear—you’re not alone in that process. God’s love isn’t scared of your mess. He’s ready to meet you there and bring freedom through honesty, community, and grace.

2. 

   29 Oct 2025

   16 - Finding Strength in Life’s Shifts

   📄 Episode Summary Life is full of transitions—new jobs, marriage, fatherhood, loss, or seasons of uncertainty. In this episode, Marc unpacks the reality of change and why it often feels uncomfortable, disorienting, or even threatening to our identity as men. Rather than resisting transition, he invites listeners to see it as a space where God does some of His deepest work. With encouragement and practical wisdom, this conversation reminds men that transitions are not roadblocks but invitations to grow, mature, and step into new strength. 🧭 Key Topics Covered Why transitions often feel uncomfortable and overwhelming The role of identity and faith during seasons of change Common mistakes men make when facing life transitions How to embrace transition as an opportunity for growth Practical encouragement for trusting God in the unknown 🌐 fahrenheitmentoring.org (http://fahrenheitmentoring.org) 📩 Contact: Contact@fahrenheitmentoring.org (mailto:Contact@fahrenheitmentoring.org)

3. 

   15 Oct 2025

   15 - Father Wounds & the Making of John Kelsey (Part 2)

   📄 Episode Summary In this follow-up conversation, Marc continues his discussion with John Kelsey, diving deeper into the challenges men face when it comes to identity, honesty, and walking in integrity. John opens up about his own story of brokenness and healing, and together they highlight how bringing struggles into the light allows men to experience freedom. This episode is a powerful reminder that growth comes not from perfection but from courage, vulnerability, and faith in God’s redeeming love. 🧭 Key Topics Covered Why hiding struggles keeps men trapped in shame The freedom that comes from honesty and vulnerability How faith reframes identity and restores hope The importance of community and mentorship in a man’s journey Practical steps toward living with integrity and wholeness 🌐 fahrenheitmentoring.org (http://fahrenheitmentoring.org) 📩 Contact: Contact@fahrenheitmentoring.org (mailto:Contact@fahrenheitmentoring.org)

4. 

   1 Oct 2025

   14 - Father Wounds & the Making of John Kelsey (Part 1)

   📄 Episode Summary In this powerful conversation, Marc sits down with John Kelsey to explore his journey of healing, identity, and transformation. John shares vulnerably about growing up without his father, wrestling with masculinity, and how unresolved pain shaped his relationships and sense of self. Through Scripture, mentorship, and God’s redemptive work, John discovered a deeper understanding of what it means to be a man made in God's image. This episode offers a heartfelt blend of personal story and spiritual insight—an invitation for men to confront their past and embrace their God-given identity. 🧭 Key Topics Covered Growing up without a father and the impact of father wounds The link between masculinity, identity, and emotional pain God’s design for men: from performance to presence The power of confession, community, and spiritual fathering Encouragement for men to find healing through Christ 🌐 fahrenheitmentoring.org (http://fahrenheitmentoring.org) 📩 Contact: Contact@fahrenheitmentoring.org (mailto:Contact@fahrenheitmentoring.org)

5. 

   17 Sept 2025

   13 - The Father Wound: Where the Journey Begins

   📄 Episode Summary In this honest and foundational conversation, Marc and Chris unpack the concept of the father wound—how the absence, silence, or brokenness of a father shapes a man’s identity, choices, and relationships. This episode lays the groundwork for understanding why so many men feel stuck, angry, or uncertain about who they are. With biblical insight and personal reflection, they invite listeners to begin recognizing and naming their wounds, not to dwell in pain, but to move toward restoration and wholeness. 🧭 Key Topics Covered What is the father wound and where does it begin? Emotional consequences of father absence or neglect How unhealed wounds manifest in adulthood God as a healing Father: identity through sonship Laying the foundation for mentorship and spiritual reparenting 🌐 fahrenheitmentoring.org (http://fahrenheitmentoring.org) 📩 Contact: Contact@fahrenheitmentoring.org (mailto:Contact@fahrenheitmentoring.org)

6. 

   3 Sept 2025

   12 - OCD, Identity, and the Daily Decision to Live in Truth – A Conversation with Guy Kinnear

   📄 Episode Summary In this powerful and unflinchingly honest episode of Real Life Men, Marc, Chris, and Justin sit down with artist and teacher Guy Kinnear, a man whose daily life is a testament to grace, grit, and the healing power of truth. From living off the grid in California to navigating life with obsessive-compulsive disorder, Guy opens up about faith, mental illness, artistic vocation, and the lifelong challenge of deciding who defines us—our pain or our Creator. This conversation isn’t just about mental health. It’s about spiritual courage, the cost of authenticity, and the necessity of confession—not for shame, but for healing. If you've ever felt alone in your internal battles, this episode offers companionship and clarity. 🧭 Key Topics Covered Guy’s calling as an artist and his connection to biblical craftsmanship The role of art and creativity in evangelism and cultural engagement Living with OCD: a raw and personal description of internal struggle The daily practice of choosing truth over intrusive thoughts Confession, vulnerability, and the necessity of community among men Discerning the difference between what feels real and what is true How worship, Scripture, and brotherhood help renew the mind https://www.fahrenheitmentoring.org/ (https://www.fahrenheitmentoring.org/) Contact@fahrenheitmentoring.org (mailto:Contact@fahrenheitmentoring.org) https://www.guykinnear.com/ (https://www.guykinnear.com/)

7. 

   20 Aug 2025

   11 - Danny Bryant: Honesty, Calling, and the Heart of Ministry

   📄 Episode Summary In this heartfelt episode, Marc and Chris sit down with pastor and storyteller Danny Bryant. With depth and authenticity, Danny shares about his spiritual journey, his passion for community, and the tension between personal calling and pastoral responsibility. From moments of brokenness to deep theological insight, this conversation is a must-listen for anyone navigating faith, leadership, or the weight of vocation. 🧭 Key Topics Covered Danny’s journey into ministry and calling The beauty and burden of pastoral work Wrestling with doubt, identity, and authenticity How to remain rooted in community and grace The role of vulnerability in spiritual leadership https://www.fahrenheitmentoring.org/ (https://www.fahrenheitmentoring.org/) Contact@fahrenheitmentoring.org (mailto:Contact@fahrenheitmentoring.org) https://ethnos360.org/missionaries/dan-and-ginny-bryant (https://ethnos360.org/missionaries/dan-and-ginny-bryant)

8. 

   13 Aug 2025

   10 - Mentor Woody Lewis: A Legacy of Wisdom

   📄 Episode Summary In this inspiring episode, Marc and Justin sit down with Woody Lewis, a man whose life has been marked by deep faith, consistent leadership, and investment in others. Woody shares stories from decades of ministry and mentorship, reflecting on the lessons that shaped him and the principles that still guide him today. It’s a powerful conversation about legacy, humility, and what it means to finish well. 🧭 Key Topics Covered The formative experiences that shaped Woody’s leadership Wisdom gained through decades of mentoring Lessons on faithfulness, discipline, and perseverance How to invest in others and leave a lasting impact Practical encouragement for men seeking spiritual maturity https://www.fahrenheitmentoring.org/ (https://www.fahrenheitmentoring.org/) Contact@fahrenheitmentoring.org (mailto:Contact@fahrenheitmentoring.org)

9. 

   6 Aug 2025

   9 - Biblical Manhood & Womanhood

   📄 Episode Summary In this thoughtful episode, Marc and Justin unpack what Scripture says about manhood and womanhood. They explore God’s design for gender, identity, and calling, challenging cultural narratives and encouraging a return to biblical foundations. The conversation strikes a balance between theological depth and pastoral care, offering listeners clarity and grace on one of today’s most debated topics. 🧭 Key Topics Covered Biblical definitions of masculinity and femininity The impact of culture on gender identity Complementarian vs. egalitarian perspectives How the Church can disciple men and women well Personal stories of discovering identity through faith https://www.fahrenheitmentoring.org/ (https://www.fahrenheitmentoring.org/) Contact@fahrenheitmentoring.org (mailto:Contact@fahrenheitmentoring.org)

10. 

    30 Jul 2025

    8 - Chris's Testimony

    📄 Episode Summary In this deeply honest and extended episode, Chris shares his powerful testimony of transformation—from early struggles with identity and shame to a profound encounter with grace and truth. Through raw storytelling and spiritual insight, Chris invites listeners into a journey marked by brokenness, redemption, and renewed purpose. Whether you’re questioning your place in the world or seeking hope in faith, this conversation offers a safe space for reflection and encouragement. 🧭 Key Topics Covered Early life experiences and personal battles Wrestling with shame, identity, and spiritual doubt The transformative power of grace The role of faith, mentorship, and community Embracing vulnerability and living with purpose https://www.fahrenheitmentoring.org/ (https://www.fahrenheitmentoring.org/) Contact@fahrenheitmentoring.org

11. 

    23 Jul 2025

    7 - Vulnerability

    📄 Episode Summary In this raw and reflective episode, hosts Marc, Chris, and Justin talk with Tom Nearing explore the concept of vulnerability—what it means, why it’s difficult, and how it can transform relationships and faith. They share personal stories and practical insights about letting down our guard and being fully known. This is a conversation about courage, authenticity, and the unexpected strength in being open. 🧭 Key Topics Covered What true vulnerability looks like Cultural barriers to emotional openness The role of vulnerability in spiritual growth Vulnerability in leadership and community How to create safe spaces for honesty https://www.fahrenheitmentoring.org/ (https://www.fahrenheitmentoring.org/) Contact@fahrenheitmentoring.org (mailto:Contact@fahrenheitmentoring.org)

12. 

    16 Jul 2025

    6 - Marc & Justin on Fatherhood, SSA, and the Church

    📄 Episode Summary In this vulnerable and faith-driven conversation, Marc and Justin explore the intersections of fatherhood, same-sex attraction (SSA), and the Church. They offer honest reflections on parenting, the importance of spiritual and emotional support, and the role the Church can play in creating spaces of grace. Through personal experience and thoughtful dialogue, they aim to encourage a more compassionate and informed approach to complex issues of identity and faith. 🧭 Key Topics Covered The joys and struggles of fatherhood Living with SSA and navigating faith Misconceptions within Christian communities The Church’s role in support and discipleship Building empathy and intentional relationships https://www.fahrenheitmentoring.org/ (https://www.fahrenheitmentoring.org/) Contact@fahrenheitmentoring.org (mailto:Contact@fahrenheitmentoring.org)

13. 

    9 Jul 2025

    5 - Identity

    📄 Episode Summary In this episode, Marc and Justin reflect on the topic of identity—how it’s formed, shaped, and sometimes challenged. They explore the influence of culture, faith, and life experience on our understanding of who we are. Through honest dialogue and thoughtful perspectives, the conversation offers a grounding look at how to navigate identity in today’s world. 🧭 Key Topics Covered The foundational elements of identity How external influences shape our sense of self Identity in the context of faith and belief Challenges in reconciling internal and external identities Tools for personal reflection and growth https://www.fahrenheitmentoring.org/ (https://www.fahrenheitmentoring.org/) Contact@fahrenheitmentoring.org (mailto:Contact@fahrenheitmentoring.org)

14. 

    2 Jul 2025

    4 - Justin's Testimony

    📄 Episode Summary In this episode, Justin shares his testimony—a powerful story of faith, struggle, and redemption. Through honest reflections on hardship, moments of doubt, and transformative experiences, he reveals how grace and belief have shaped his journey. This episode is a testament to the strength found in vulnerability and the enduring hope that faith brings. 🧭 Key Topics Covered Early challenges and formative experiences Moments of spiritual doubt and renewal The role of community and personal accountability Finding purpose through faith The ongoing journey of healing and growth https://www.fahrenheitmentoring.org/ (https://www.fahrenheitmentoring.org/) Contact@fahrenheitmentoring.org (mailto:Contact@fahrenheitmentoring.org)

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    25 Jun 2025

    3 - What It Means to be a Man

    📄 Episode Summary Hosts Chris, Marc, and Justin explore the evolving concept of masculinity in a world where traditional roles are being redefined. They examine emotional vulnerability, the expectations placed on men, and how those norms are changing. Through personal stories and cultural reflections, the conversation provides an honest and thought-provoking look at modern manhood. 🧭 Key Topics Covered Traditional vs. modern views on masculinity Emotional expression and male vulnerability The impact of societal expectations on men's mental health Rethinking strength, leadership, and identity Personal journeys of growth and self-awareness https://www.fahrenheitmentoring.org/ (https://www.fahrenheitmentoring.org/) Contact@fahrenheitmentoring.org (mailto:Contact@fahrenheitmentoring.org)

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    25 Jun 2025

    2 - It’s Not Just You: Marc and Chris on Being an Authentic Man

    🧠 In This Episode: Marc and Chris dive into a candid conversation about the quiet pressure so many men feel to perform, provide, and suppress. From the lingering weight of childhood wounds to the habits we build to cope, they explore the everyday struggle to feel like “enough.” This episode is raw, unscripted, and deeply relatable—two men telling the truth about the gap between who they are and who they thought they had to be. 💥 Key Topics: Growing up with invisible pain The cost of hiding behind performance Addictions, shame, and survival mechanisms The power of honest male friendships Why most men feel like they’re faking it https://www.fahrenheitmentoring.org/ (https://www.fahrenheitmentoring.org/) Contact@fahrenheitmentoring.org (mailto:Contact@fahrenheitmentoring.org)

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    25 Jun 2025

    1 - Introduction to the Real Man Podcast - Why did we choose to do this podcast

    🎙️ Episode Summary: In this kickoff episode, hosts Chris, Marc, and Justin open up about why they started Real Life Men. They reflect on the hidden struggles men face—father wounds, addiction, shame, insecurity—and how those experiences shaped their own journeys. With honesty and vulnerability, they lay the groundwork for what this podcast is all about: creating a space where men can tell the truth, do the work, and grow into who they were meant to be. Whether you're navigating marriage, recovering from trauma, or just feeling stuck—this episode is the start of a conversation you've probably needed for a long time. 🧠 In This Episode: What "Real Life Men" actually means Why performance and image are hollow goals How trauma, addiction, and early family dynamics shape men The power of owning your story What to expect from future episodes https://www.fahrenheitmentoring.org/ (https://www.fahrenheitmentoring.org/) Contact@fahrenheitmentoring.org (mailto:Contact@fahrenheitmentoring.org)

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