You’re Doing Better Than You Think: Stop Comparing and Start Watering Your Own Grass
In this episode of Real Talk with Ben and Kimi, we dive into a reminder we all need from time to time — you’re doing better than you think.
It’s easy to scroll social media and feel like everyone else has it all together — nicer homes, better vacations, bigger successes. But what if the truth is, you already have more than you realize?
Ben and Kimi talk about how gratitude, stewardship, and faith can completely change your perspective. From the story behind their new favorite tradition, “Steaksgiving,” to a reminder to “water your own grass,” this episode will help you refocus on what truly matters — your faith, your family, and the blessings right in front of you.
They also share:
💬 The dangers of comparison on social media (and how to stop it)
🙌 Why gratitude is the antidote to envy
🏡 How to invest in your own marriage, fitness, and faith instead of wishing for someone else’s life
💡 A faith-based reminder: contentment isn’t about having everything you want — it’s about trusting God with what you have
🥩 Plus, why the Barkers ditched turkey for Steaksgiving
By the end, you’ll be encouraged to slow down, look around, and realize: “Who’s richer than us?”
9 Oct 2025TRANSCRIPT
When Blessings Become Excuses: Why Comfort Can Keep You from God
In this episode of Real Talk with Ben and Kimi, we’re diving into a powerful message from our pastor: “Blessings can become curses when they turn into excuses.”
As Christian parents, it’s easy to let good things—like kids, work, or even church livestreams—become reasons we stop showing up for God. Ben and Kimi share personal stories about how comfort and convenience crept into their faith life, from skipping church after COVID to juggling serving and parenting on Sundays.
Listen in for real talk about:
How blessings can quietly become spiritual distractions
The importance of physically showing up in community (Hebrews 10:25)
Encouragement for tired moms and dads trying to make it to church
Why modeling faithfulness for your kids matters more than perfection
This episode is for anyone who loves Jesus but sometimes struggles to stay consistent when life gets busy. Tune in, be encouraged, and let’s get back to showing up for what matters most.
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2 Oct 2025TRANSCRIPT
Faith, Marriage & Hot Topics in 2025: Disney, Halloween, Fitness, Screens & Money
In this episode of Real Talk with Ben and Kimi, we dive into five hot-button topics for Christian families in 2025—faith, marriage, parenting, and even fitness. From debating Disney’s direction and how Christian parents should approach Halloween, to tackling the tension of screens and Sabbath, this conversation is raw, real, and practical.
We also unpack why fitness matters for marriage (hint: it’s about more than looks), and discuss the real-life question every couple faces: how much money can you spend without asking your spouse first?
Whether you’re a parent trying to raise strong kids, a couple looking to strengthen your marriage, or a believer wrestling with culture in 2025, this episode will encourage you to think deeply, laugh often, and keep Christ at the center of family life.
👉 Topics We Cover:
Fitness as a marriage builder (why it matters more than you think)
Screens, Sabbath, and family rest in a digital world
Disney in 2025: harmless fun or too far gone?
Halloween as Christians: celebrate, separate, or redeem?
Marriage & money: when do you need to ask before spending?
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You’re Doing Better Than You Think: Stop Comparing and Start Watering Your Own Grass
Published 15 Oct 2025 · Transcript excerpt
[…] And even how active they become. Plus an incredible story about how elephants make it all click. We'll get there in a minute. And fellas, I do have to touch on this. If you're listening to this podcast, you are probably physically present in your home. Right, you're a father. But just being there physically does not count. Right, you have to be present in your kids' life, making an impact. Just like physically being there and like patting them on the head and then going to work, going and golfing for three hours after work or spending all of your time in the deerwoods. Just because you're providing for your family does not mean that you are necessarily being a strong engaged present father. […]
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