Reality Testing Podcast

About Reality Testing Podcast

Join two psychologists as they dive deep into the wild world of reality TV! On Reality Testing Podcast, we break down the relationship dynamics, psychological themes, and behind-the-scenes emotions playing out in your favorite shows like Real Housewives, 90 Day Fiancé, and Sister Wives. Whether you’re a devoted fan or just pop culture curious, we bring a unique blend of expertise and humor to each episode, exploring what’s really happening beneath the drama. Why just watch when you can understand? Discover how the minds of reality TV stars tick, gain new insights into human behavior, and laugh along with us as we untangle the messy, complicated, and often relatable dynamics on screen. Subscribe now to dive into the psychology of your favorite reality TV moments and never miss an episode. Ready to go beyond the surface? Hit that follow button and join the conversation today! You can find more in our shownotes at realitytestingpod.com/episodes or find us each on social media at @drmeganjohnson and @drquincee.

Publisher

Quincee Gideon & Megan Johnson

Category

society & culture · tv & film

Language

en

Explicit

Yes

First episode

22 Oct 2024

Latest episode

17 Jan 2025

Latest episodes

13 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   17 Jan 2025

   Sisterwives II - Cults, Lies, & Bad Hair

   In this episode of the Reality Testing Podcast, we dive deep into the fascinating and messy world of Sister Wives. Join us, Dr. Megan Johnson and Dr. Quincee Gideon as we unravel the complex dynamics of Cody Brown’s relationships, the wives’ individual journeys, and the emotional toll of plural marriage. What You'll Hear: Mary’s Story: Infertility struggles, emotional loneliness, and the heartbreaking journey of seeking connection. Janelle’s Next Steps: From financial backbone to starting anew, Janelle’s challenges post-separation will surprise you. Christine’s Triumph: Breaking free from Cody and stepping into a brighter future with love and hope. Robin’s Role: Cody’s favorite wife and the controversy surrounding her polarizing position in the family. The Kids’ Perspective: Growing up in a plural family and navigating the legacy of estrangement and loss. Key Themes: Religious trauma and how faith shaped the lives of the Browns. Financial struggles and the fallout from poor decisions. The resilience and redemption of Christine and Janelle as they move forward. Why Listen: Discover the psychology behind the family’s choices, the enduring strength of the women, and how they’re redefining their lives post-Cody. Whether you’re a fan of Sister Wives or fascinated by family dynamics, this episode has something for everyone. Connect With Us: Follow Dr. Megan Johnson: @DrMeganJohnson Follow Dr. Quincee Gideon: @DrQuincee Subscribe now to not miss an episode. Don’t forget to rate, review, and share this episode with your fellow reality TV fans!

2. 

   10 Jan 2025

   Iconic "RHONY" Moments: Prosthetic Legs, Scary Island, and Cabaret Dreams

   Ready to relive the most jaw-dropping moments from The Real Housewives of New York City? Join psychologists Dr. Megan Johnson and Dr. Quincee as they dive into the iconic drama, exploring the psychological layers behind RHONY’s most unforgettable scenes. In this episode of the Reality Testing Podcast, we unpack: Aviva Drescher’s infamous prosthetic leg throw—spontaneous or planned? Kelly Bensimon’s Scary Island breakdown: What happened, and what are the ethical implications of airing mental health crises on reality TV? Luann de Lesseps’ cabaret dreams: Confidence, delusion, or both? How trauma, loss, and substance use shaped the narratives of RHONY’s most beloved (and chaotic) cast members. We also discuss what we’re missing from the OG cast, the refreshing tone of the rebooted series, and who truly needs a dose of reality in our "Reality Testing" segment. If you love RHONY and want to explore the deeper psychological themes behind the glitz and drama, this episode is for you. Tune in now for an insightful and entertaining take on why RHONY remains a reality TV classic. Connect with Us: Dr. Megan Johnson: @DrMeganJohnson Dr. Quincee: @DrQuincee Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and review the Reality Testing Podcast!

3. 

   3 Jan 2025

   Real Housewives of New York: Subways, Trauma, and Pigeons

   This week on Reality Testing Podcast, we’re diving into the rebooted world of The Real Housewives of New York City Season 2 (New Cast). Join Dr. Quincee Gideon and Dr. Megan Johnson as we bring our psychological expertise to the latest drama, humor, and secrets unfolding on and off the screen. Progress Notes: James Kennedy's Arrest: We break down the shocking domestic violence allegations, the cyclical nature of abusive relationships, and why this is (sadly) not surprising behavior. We'll also dive into Megan's personal run-in with Kennedy in an elevator. High Body Count Hair: The iconic moment from Real Housewives of Salt Lake City that has everyone talking. Is Angie justified, or did Brittany start it? Southern Charm Returns: Why this show is becoming one of our favorites, Madison’s growth arc, and JT’s cringe-worthy but endearing attempts at connection. Beverly Hills Buzz: Kyle’s messy dynamic with Dorit, Garcelle’s fiery resurgence, and the curious case of Teddy Mellencamp’s horse trainer drama. What You’ll Hear in This Episode: Jaisal’s Redemption Arc: How postpartum struggles and dry humor have turned her into a standout this season. Sai’s Growth Story: Trauma, truth-telling, and the delicate balance of being relatable. Jenna Lyons’ Guarded Approach: What’s behind her reluctance to share personal details on reality TV? Bryn’s Flirty Defense Mechanisms: When charm becomes a distraction from accountability. Erin’s Classic Vibes: Is her "old money" energy enough to keep her likable? Ubah’s Over-the-Top Antics: Are pigeons and drama masking her real personality? Raquel’s Unique Perspective: Exploring authenticity in a late-life transformation. Rebecca Minkoff’s Scientology Connection: What does this mean for RHONY and its cast dynamics? We also break down our signature segments: Intake of the Week: Why off-camera drama is making it hard to follow the storyline. Dose of Reality: Who needs to step up their game, and who’s exceeding expectations this season? Dying to Discuss: Rebecca Minkoff’s ties to Scientology—how will this shape the show? If you love fresh insights, deep dives, and a psychological spin on your favorite reality TV shows, this episode is for you. Follow and Subscribe: Never miss an episode—subscribe to Reality Testing Podcast on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you listen to your favorite shows. Let’s Connect: Dr. Megan Johnson: Instagram & TikTok @DrMeganJohnson Dr. Quincee Gideon: Instagram & TikTok @DrQuincee We’d Love to Hear From You: Leave a review and share your thoughts! What do you think about RHONY’s new cast? Do you agree with our takes? Let us know!

4. 

   27 Dec 2024

   Real Housewives of Beverly Hills

   In this episode of Reality Testing Podcast, we’re unpacking the drama, relationships, and hidden traumas behind The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills. Join us as we explore the psychological depth of the cast and their chaotic yet compelling lives. Episode Description: ✨ Kyle Richards: Navigating people-pleasing, family dysfunction, and the fallout from her surprising separation from Mauricio. ✨ Dorit Kemsley: A raw and relatable depiction of PTSD and its ripple effects on her life and relationships. ✨ Sutton Stracke: Examining the cringe-worthy dating moments, financial complexities, and unresolved grief from her father’s suicide. ✨ Garcelle Beauvais: Balancing grounded realism with the challenges of standing out in a chaotic cast. ✨ Erika Jayne: Wrestling with public scrutiny over legal scandals, opulent lifestyles, and the struggle to show empathy. ✨ Lisa Rinna: Reflecting on her dramatic legacy as one of the most polarizing figures on RHOBH. We also revisit the contributions of former cast members Crystal Kung Minkoff and Lisa Vanderpump while diving into the recurring psychological themes of codependency, narcissistic family systems, and trauma. Reality Check Segment: Who’s in need of a reality check this week? We analyze Erica’s legal woes and Sutton’s moments of self-awareness—or lack thereof. Intake Forms: Our impressions of Denise Richards and Lisa Vanderpump—why their stories captivate and where they left us wanting more. What We’re Dying to Discuss: We’re gearing up to explore the new Martha Stewart documentary soon, from her perfectionism to her unexpected partnership with Snoop Dogg. Stay tuned for more! Follow the Hosts: Dr. Megan Johnson: Instagram & TikTok @DrMeganJohnson Dr. Quincee: Instagram & TikTok @DrQuincee Rate, review, and follow the Reality Testing Podcast for more insights into your favorite reality TV moments. Let us know who you think deserves a reality check this week!

5. 

   20 Dec 2024

   Case Review: Lindsay Hubbard

   In this episode of Reality Testing Podcast, we kick off our Case Review series with none other than Lindsay Hubbard from Summer House! Whether you love her or love to hate her, Lindsay’s journey is a fascinating exploration of relationships, trauma, and emotional growth. Resident couples therapist Lauryn Lucido joins us as we break down Lindsay’s rapid relationship cycles, emotional dysregulation, and how her "mother wound" continues to shape her life. We also dive into her friendships, struggles with control, and the impact of her impending motherhood on her personal growth. Plus, we discuss: Her entire relationship timeline: Everett, Steven, Jason, Carl, and beyond Clinical insights into trauma dynamics, vulnerability avoidance, and relational triggers The deeper psychology behind her behavior and relationships Tune in for expert analysis, empathetic discussion, and our usual Bravo-loving banter. It’s a must-listen for Summer House fans and reality TV enthusiasts! Subscribe, rate, and leave a review – and let us know who you want us to deep-dive into next!

6. 

   13 Dec 2024

   Progress Notes: Addiction, Scientology, and Relationship Rumors

   In this episode, we’re diving into the latest Bravo universe drama, dissecting the juiciest moments, and sharing expert insights into what’s really going on behind the scenes. Whether you’re here for the tea or the psychology, we’ve got you covered. What We’re Covering Today: Mary Crosby: Addiction revelations with her son that left us shocked and heartbroken. A surprising character transformation that might just change how you see her. Her ties to cult-like behavior—and what that says about her. Dorit Kemsley and Mauricio Umansky: Are they just friends, or is there something more? We’re breaking down the rumors. How late-night connections and ongoing drama could be fueling the fire. Erica Jayne: Why she’s the comeback queen of the season. From fabulous sweaters to honest conversations, she’s winning us over. Kyle Richards: Marriage struggles, BravoCon drama, and a deeper look at her emotional journey. The Roni Cast: A tasteless pregnancy joke that hit a nerve... Jenna Lyons and Scientology: What’s fact, what’s spin? Love is Blind Cast: Why this season fell flat and what we’re hoping for next. Psychologist Insights: As two psychologists, we bring a unique perspective to reality TV. This week, we’re analyzing: - Addiction and family dynamics. - Emotional connections that blur boundaries. - How reality TV shapes—and mirrors—real-life relationships. Subscribe: Hit that subscribe button so you never miss an episode filled with Bravo breakdowns and expert analysis. Follow Us: Stay connected on Instagram @RealityTestingPod for behind-the-scenes updates and more juicy takes. Special Shoutout: A big thanks to Lauryn Lucido, our guest for this episode, who shared incredible insights into relationships and dynamics. If you’re in California and need a couples therapist, she’s your go-to. You can reach her at lauryn@gideonpsych.com.

7. 

   5 Dec 2024

   Sister Wives: Polygamy, Narcissism, and Favorite Wives

   Sister Wives: Breaking Down the Drama, Relationships, and FLDS Culture | Reality Testing Podcast In this episode of the Reality Testing Podcast, we’re diving into TLC’s wildly popular and long-running reality series, Sister Wives. If you’ve missed the latest drama or need a refresher, here’s the scoop: The show follows Kody Brown, a member of the FLDS church in Utah, along with his four wives and a brood of kids. Over the years, we’ve seen them navigate polygamy, relocate multiple times, and deal with shifting family dynamics. Now, with all the wives having left Kody, it’s a whole new chapter. Join us as we unpack the fascinating layers of this show through a psychological lens. Here’s what we cover: A Quick Recap of the Brown Family’s JourneyFrom Utah to Arizona, this family has been on the move, often due to their controversial polygamous lifestyle. We explore how their constant uprooting has impacted family dynamics. The Blended Family and Financial ChaosFrom the infamous "My Sisterwife’s Closet" business to selling their Vegas homes to move to Arizona, we discuss the financial missteps and questionable decision-making. Relationship Alliances and DramaRobyn and Meri vs. Janelle and Christine—alliances have shaped the family dynamics. We dive into how these rifts mirror the show’s evolving storylines. Religious Themes and the FLDS ChurchQuincee asks the big question: Is this a cult? We analyze the religious undertones of Sister Wives and how the FLDS church influences the family’s choices. Kody Brown’s TransformationKody starts out quirky but becomes insufferable as the seasons progress. We discuss his narcissistic tendencies, his deep connection with Robyn, and how COVID became a turning point in his relationships with the other wives. Toxic Dynamics and LGBTQI+ RepresentationWe explore the toxic relationship dynamics and the challenges faced by the family’s LGBTQI+ kids growing up in this unique environment. Why You Should Listen If you’re a fan of Sister Wives, curious about the psychology of polygamy, or interested in the intersections of religion and toxic relationships, this episode is for you. We bring fresh insights into the dynamics of this unconventional family and their unraveling storylines. Hit subscribe and leave a review to join us on our journey through the psychology of reality TV’s most fascinating shows! You can read more about it at our shownotes at realitytestingpod.com/episodes Keywords: Sister Wives, TLC, reality TV, FLDS church, polygamy, psychology, religious themes, family dynamics

8. 

   22 Nov 2024

   Real Housewives of Orange County: Cancer Scams, FBI and Autism

   In this episode of Reality Testing Podcast, we’re diving headfirst into the drama-packed world of The Real Housewives of Orange County (RHOC). As the oldest Housewives franchise, RHOC has seen it all—from detached storylines to unforgettable moments that define reality TV history. Join us as we unpack the latest season’s biggest storylines, exploring the psychology behind the cast’s behaviors and relationships: Tamra Judge: Is her recent “autism” diagnosis genuine, or another dramatic ploy? Megan doesn’t hold back. Jen Armstrong: Honest and tragic, but her relationship with Ryan raises major red flags. We explore themes of financial feminism and accountability. Shannon Beador: A redemptive yet messy season as Shannon faces struggles with alcohol and conflict. Is redemption really on the table? Heather Dubrow: Overproduced and out of touch. Can Heather ever connect with the cast on a real level? Emily Simpson: Grounded and relatable, Emily’s health journey adds depth to her storyline. Gina Kirschenheiter: Sobriety, resilience, and relationship intrigue. We’ve got thoughts on Gina’s evolving story. Katie Hamilton: Refreshing yet questioned by the cast. Is Katie misunderstood, or is there more to the story? Episode Segments: Reality Testing: Who needs a reality check? Megan picks Tamra, while Quincee calls out Heather. The Intake: Megan revisits the unforgettable “Jesus Jugs” era, while Quincee can’t stop questioning Jen’s relationship with Ryan. Dying to Discuss: Megan tackles the Brooks and Vicki fake cancer scandal, while Quincee dissects Tamra’s “autism” diagnosis. If you’re a fan of RHOC or curious about the psychology of reality TV, this episode is for you. Subscribe and leave a review to stay up to date with our deep dives into the world’s favorite reality shows! Keywords: Real Housewives of Orange County, RHOC, reality TV, pop culture, psychology

9. 

   15 Nov 2024

   The Marriages of #MomTok: Secret Lives of Mormon Wives Part Two

   In this episode of the Reality Testing Podcast, we’re diving into Secret Lives of Mormon Wives, a series that reveals the often hidden struggles and intense drama in a tight-knit religious community. Join us as we explore the complex themes of religious trauma, repressed sexuality, and shifting power dynamics within patriarchal relationships. From teenage pregnancies and controlling relationships to secret swinging and church denial, this show touches on issues that go far beyond reality TV. We’ll discuss Mikayla’s controversial teenage marriage, Demi and Bret’s unsettling age gap, and Mayci’s story of loss and early motherhood. Plus, we’ll look at the impact of religious beliefs on relationship dynamics, as breadwinning wives like Jenn challenge traditional gender roles. Through a psychological lens, we’ll explore how the characters navigate their identity, relationships, and personal traumas within a culture that emphasizes control and conformity. Segments in This Episode: Reality Testing: Who needs a dose of reality on Secret Lives of Mormon Wives? Megan picks Zac, while Quincee highlights Dakota’s questionable choices. The Intake: Megan explores the theme of identity development within the show, while Quincee notes the youth of the cast and their journey of self-discovery. Dying to Discuss: Megan dives into the fascination with parasocial relationships with TikTok personalities, and Quincee discusses the exciting renewal of Secret Lives of Mormon Wives for a second season. Whether you’re fascinated by the layers of religious trauma or just curious about the dynamics in Secret Lives of Mormon Wives, this episode has insights for you. Hit subscribe and leave a review to keep up with our explorations into reality TV’s most captivating stories! Keywords: Secret Lives of Mormon Wives, reality TV, pop culture, psychology, religious trauma

10. 

    8 Nov 2024

    Real Housewives of Salt Lake City: Prison, Tequila, and Hot Dog Couture

    In this Reality Testing Podcast episode, we're turning our psychologist’s lens on the intriguing cast of Real Housewives of Salt Lake City. Join us as we dissect the characters, their complex relationship dynamics, and the unique pressures of sharing intimate details while navigating life in a close-knit Mormon community on reality TV. As two psychologists, we break down the behaviors, motivations, and portrayals of each housewife, examining how the high-stakes world of reality TV influences their personal choices, conflicts, and connections. From the psychological effects of the spotlight to the impact of cultural expectations, we explore what it really means to live life unfiltered. If you’re captivated by reality TV, interested in pop culture, or simply curious about the psychology behind human behavior, this episode is a must-listen. You’ll gain insights that go beyond the screen, offering a deeper understanding of your favorite characters and the world of reality TV. Hit subscribe and join us for an insightful journey into the minds of the Real Housewives! New episodes drop every Friday Keywords: Real Housewives of Salt Lake City, reality TV, pop culture, psychology

11. 

    1 Nov 2024

    Why Do Mormon Wives Need Secret Lives?: The Psychology of #MomTok

    Let’s chat about the new popular reality show: Secret Lives of Mormon Wives.

12. 

    23 Oct 2024

    Why are we so obsessed with reality TV?

    Do you have a fascination with reality TV? So do we! We are breaking down our reality TV fan psychology in today’s episode.  Whether you watch reality TV for a kind of escapism from the stress of life or because it’s a socially acceptable voyeurism, reality TV offers something that we want! We talk about social dynamics on the shows, the relationship drama of the characters, and the addictive ways we get validation from watching our favorite shows. This is why we love reality TV. You can read more about our discussion in our shownotes at: https://realitytestingpod.com/understanding-reality-tv-psychology/ You can follow along with us Instagram and TikTok: Megan is @drmeganjohnson and Quincee is @drquincee

13. 

    22 Oct 2024

    Reality Testing Podcast Trailer

    Welcome to the show where two shrinks analyze your favorite reality TV.  Buckle up and join us for the ride.

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