Reclaiming Your Identity

About Reclaiming Your Identity

Are you married to an addict or living with an addict — battling alcohol, drugs, or other destructive behaviors — and slowly losing yourself in the process? Reclaiming Your Identity is the podcast specifically for spouses of addicts and partners of addicts who are exhausted, emotionally drained, and ready to stop surviving and start healing. Whether you're the spouse of an addict or the partner of an addict, this show was built for exactly where you are. Each episode tackles the real questions you're afraid to ask out loud — Why can't I leave? Why do I feel responsible for their addiction? Why don't I even recognize myself anymore? — with honest, faith-based conversation rooted in who God says you really are. You'll find practical tools for breaking codependent patterns, real support for children of addicts navigating the impact at home, and biblical truth about your worth and identity in Christ. If you're searching for faith based marriage healing that starts with you — not with fixing your spouse — you're in the right place. This isn't a show about fixing your spouse. It's about reclaiming yourself. If you are married to an addict, living with an addict, or loving someone through addiction and losing yourself in the process — this show was made for you. New episodes every Tuesday and Friday. Subscribe now and take the first step toward the life God created you for. Learn more at https://partnersofaddicts.com (https://partnersofaddicts.com/)

Publisher

Steve Rotermund | Christian Identity & Healing Coach

Category

education · health & fitness · religion & spirituality

Language

en

Explicit

No

First episode

7 Mar 2026

Latest episode

20 Oct 2026

Latest episodes

43 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   20 Oct 2026

   Spouse of an Addict: Standing While They Crumble

   Send us Fan Mail Married to an addict and feeling up when they’re up and wrecked when they relapse? That’s codependency, and you don’t have to go down with them. In the final episode of the Fishing for Pain series, I share the season my family was falling apart. The house felt tense and lonely, yet I found confidence I hadn’t felt in years. The addiction didn’t improve. My focus shifted from managing them to reclaiming me. We talk about the hidden cost of fishing for pain, and I get honest ab...

2. 

   14 Oct 2026

   Spouse of an Addict: Do You Love Them, or Love Fixing Them?

   Send us Fan Mail Married to an addict and telling yourself, “But I love them”? Sometimes what feels like love is really codependency: an attachment to managing the chaos, rescuing, and being needed. In Part 3 of the Fishing for Pain series, I share the day my spouse at the time was arrested and everyone told me to bail her out, and why, for the first time, I didn’t feel I had to rescue. We talk about the signs you may be in love with fixing, why calm can feel unbearable after years of crisis,...

3. 

   7 Oct 2026

   Spouse of an Addict: Untangling Your Worth From Their Addiction

   Send us Fan Mail Married to an addict and feeling like every relapse is a verdict on your worth? For many spouses of addicts, that's the most dangerous lie, and the hardest to see. I open with the exact question a counselor asked me that stopped me in my tracks, because it exposed what I couldn't name for years. Every relapse felt like rejection. Every good day felt like something I had managed correctly. That cycle has a name: codependency. And it keeps spouses stuck in fear, hypervigilance,...

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