Relationship Advice by Couply App

About Relationship Advice by Couply App

Relationship advice from the best couples therapists, relationship experts and world-leaders in relationship science! Hosted by Tim Johnson, CEO and co-founder of Couply: The App for Couples. Couply App helps 400,000 couples build an incredible relationship that lasts forever.

Publisher

Couply: The App for Couples

Category

society & culture

Language

en

Explicit

No

First episode

10 Mar 2023

Latest episode

25 Apr 2024

Latest episodes

32 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   25 Apr 2024

   Can You Be Happy Single? | Elaine Hoan PhD Researcher

   Elaine Hoan, a researcher studying singlehood and wellbeing, discusses the trends and factors affecting singles. She explores the question of who has better sex, singles or partnered people, and explains that research suggests partnered people tend to have higher quality and more frequent sex. Elaine also highlights the rising rates of unmarried individuals and the reasons why people are choosing to stay single, including career goals and economic factors. She delves into the personality traits of singles, such as introversion, lower conscientiousness, and higher neuroticism, and emphasizes that happiness should not be the sole measure of a meaningful life. The conversation explores the cultural value of extroversion, interpreting low energy responses, not taking things personally, tips for introverted singles, meeting partners through hobbies and interests, Elaine's origin story of meeting her partner through a video game and the impact of online communities on relationships. Connect with Elaine https://twitter.com/elaine_hoan?lang=en Download Couply https://couply.page.link/podcast The best couples app to help your relationship. Couples quizzes, ask a new question every day and a long-distance mode to keep you connected. We have a TON of FREE content to help you build trust, improve communication and invest in your relationship skills. Chapters 00:00 Introductions 00:09 Researching Singles and Sex 03:19 Trends in Singleness and Wellness 04:11 Reasons for Choosing Singleness 05:29 Economic Benefits and Discrimination 07:28 Personality Types and Singleness 15:07 Personality Profile of Singles 26:33 Using Personality Traits to Navigate Singleness 28:14 The Cultural Value of Extroversion 29:00 Interpreting Low Energy Responses 30:26 Not Taking Things Personally 32:29 Tips for Introverted Singles 33:24 Meeting Partners through Hobbies and Interests 34:04 Elaine's got game: Meeting Her Partner through the League of Legends Video Game 36:47 The Impact of Online Communities on Relationships 43:44 Gender Differences in Happiness 46:24 The Emotional Intelligence Challenge for Men 54:39 The Impact of Technology and Online Communities on Singleness 59:06 Elaine's Personal Journey: Meeting a Partner through League of Legends TLDR: Takeaways Partnered people tend to have higher quality and more frequent sex compared to singles. The number of unmarried individuals is rising globally, and people are choosing to stay single for various reasons, including career goals and economic factors. Singles tend to have different personality traits, such as introversion, lower conscientiousness, and higher neuroticism, but this does not mean their lives are less meaningful. Happiness should not be the sole measure of a meaningful life, and singles can navigate their singleness by understanding their personality traits and focusing on what brings them fulfillment. Extroverted people tend to be happier in various cultures, and there is a cultural value placed on extroversion. Interpreting low energy responses from others can be challenging, but it's important not to take it personally and consider other factors. Being single does not mean there is something wrong with you, and it's important to focus on personal well-being! For introverted singles, getting involved in hobbies and interests can be a great way to meet potential partners. Technology and online communities can facilitate connections and relationships, but it's important to be cautious and maintain in-person interactions. Gender differences exist in happiness, with women generally reporting higher levels of happiness when single. Men face challenges in developing emotional intelligence and social skills, which can impact their relationships. The impact of technology on singleness is complex, with potential benefits and risks. Personal experiences of meeting partners through technology can vary, and trust and communication are crucial in online relationships. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/couply/message

2. 

   16 Apr 2024

   How to know FOR SURE they are THE ONE? | Aleeza Ben Shalom

   Aleeza Ben Shalom, a matchmaker and relationship coach, shares insights on moving from matchmaking to finding clarity in relationships. She emphasizes the importance of getting real, getting married, and staying married. Aleeza discusses the initial signs and feelings that indicate potential in a relationship, highlighting the need to look beyond immediate chemistry. She suggests focusing on shared values, aligned personalities, and the ability to handle each other's fears and quirks. Aleeza also advises setting a timeline for making a commitment and emphasizes the significance of small gestures and qualities in a partner. In this conversation, Aleeza Ben Shalom discusses the challenges of making decisions about relationships and finding a soulmate. She emphasizes the importance of soulmate clarity, which involves understanding one's values, needs, and goals, and comparing them to those of the person one is dating. Aleeza also highlights the time pressure many people feel when it comes to finding a partner and starting a family. She provides insights into deal breakers in relationships and advises accepting a partner as they are, without expecting them to change. Aleeza shares tips for maintaining a strong bond in a relationship, including playfulness, communication, and creating special moments together. She also talks about the balance between her public persona and her personal life, and the importance of prioritizing quality time with her husband. Keywords matchmaking, finding clarity, relationship, marriage, shared values, aligned personalities, fears, quirks, commitment, small gestures, relationship decisions, soulmate clarity, time pressure, deal breakers, accepting a partner, maintaining a strong bond, playfulness, communication, balance Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Aleeza Ben Shalom 01:01 Moving from matchmaking to finding clarity 01:32 Initial signs and feelings when meeting someone 03:27 Signs that indicate a potential lifelong relationship 04:39 The danger of trying to change someone 05:09 The importance of early judgments and snap decisions 06:11 The warning sign of immediate chemistry 08:44 The importance of taking time to make a decision 11:25 The different phases of a relationship 13:13 The timeline for making a decision 15:03 The scarcity of finding a compatible partner 16:23 The importance of valuing and appreciating your partner 23:44 The importance of small gems in a relationship 25:10 Creating diamonds in a relationship under pressure 27:31 Common doubts and cracks in relationships 28:58 Feeling Pressure to Make a Decision 30:35 Soulmate Clarity 32:43 The Grass is Always Greener 34:38 Deal Breakers 38:11 The Good and the Other 41:49 Black Flags and Red Flags 44:11 Keeping the Bond Strong 48:17 Balancing Fame and Relationship 52:31 What's Next for Aleeza --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/couply/message

3. 

   11 Apr 2024

   The KEYS Improving Your Communication in Relationships | Decoding Couples

   Rachel and Stacey, the Decoding Couples duo, discuss common challenges in relationships, such as feeling unseen and unheard, and living in different realities. They emphasize the importance of understanding attachment styles and how they shape our relationships. They also provide insights on effective communication, including taking self-inflicted timeouts and taking responsibility for our own actions. Repairing arguments and conflicts is crucial, and they recommend owning up to our mistakes and showing genuine remorse. Listeners can follow them on Instagram and listen to their podcast, as well as explore their online course, Relationship Roadmap. Meet the Decoding Couple Duo: Youtube  @decodingcouples  (https://studio.youtube.com/channel/UCpgk8G_ktrhH0JfpjbzVPLw) Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/decoding_couples/ Courses and content: https://snipfeed.co/decodingcouples Download Couply https://couply.page.link/podcast Takeaways One of the most common challenges in relationships is feeling unseen and unheard by our partner. Living in different realities can occur when there are small transgressions and a lack of repair in the relationship. Attachment styles formed in childhood greatly influence our adult relationships and can trigger positive or negative attachment patterns. Self-inflicted timeouts can be effective in managing conflicts, but it's important to communicate the intention and timeframe for the timeout. Taking responsibility for our own actions and showing genuine remorse is crucial for repairing arguments and conflicts in relationships. Keywords relationship challenges, feeling unseen and unheard, different realities, attachment styles, effective communication, self-inflicted timeouts, taking responsibility, repairing arguments, online course Chapters 00:00 Introduction 00:45 Common challenges in relationships 03:02 Steps leading to living in different realities 06:41 The role of attachment in relationships 08:04 The cycle of communication 11:25 The communication chart 13:30 Real-life examples of communication cycles 16:57 Repairing after an argument 20:23 Understanding your attachment style 23:08 Self-regulation and self-soothing 25:23 Creating timeouts in communication 30:40 Repairing after a hard conversation 32:30 Upcoming events and where to find more --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/couply/message

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4.1 / 5

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