
Relationship Renovation | Couples | Love | Advice | Intimacy | Communication | Marriage
Claim This Podcastby EJ and Tarah Kerwin
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<p><strong>Why do couples who love each other keep getting pulled into the same painful patterns?</strong></p><p>Why does a simple conversation suddenly become a fight? Why does one partner pursue while the other pulls away? Why can an argument be over and yet somehow you still don’t feel okay with each other?</p><p>For nearly a decade, married couple and licensed therapists <strong>Tarah and E.J. Kerwin</strong> have been exploring those questions on Relationship Renovation.</p><p>But they aren’t interested in giving you another list of relationship tips.</p><p>Each week, Tarah and E.J. use their own marriage, years of working with couples, and relationship science to explore the <strong>invisible dynamics underneath the struggles couples can see</strong>—defensiveness, resentment, disconnection, betrayal, intimacy problems, recurring conflict, emotional triggers, and the moments when two people who love each other somehow lose each other.</p><p>They don’t pretend to have a perfect marriage.</p><p>They’ve had their own patterns. Their own hurts. Their own moments of disconnection. And increasingly, those real moments become the starting point for the conversations you’ll hear on the show.</p><p>Together, they put language around experiences couples often feel but don’t know how to explain—from <strong>The Courtroom Trap</strong> and <strong>Our Nervous Systems Are Arguing</strong> to <strong>The Moment After</strong>—and explore what it actually takes to respond differently.</p><p>You’ll learn how to understand what’s happening beneath your conflicts, create emotional safety, rebuild trust, deepen emotional and physical intimacy, repair after hurt, and grow as individuals without losing each other along the way.</p><p>With more than 20,000 monthly downloads and listeners around the world, Relationship Renovation is for couples who don’t just want a relationship that survives.</p><p><strong>They want one that keeps growing.</strong></p><p>Subscribe and renovate your relationship with us.</p><p><br></p>
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Recent Episodes

September 18, 2026
When Stress Takes Over Your Relationship—and How to Find Each Other Again
EJ and Tarah explain how stress impacts couples' coping mechanisms and offer strategies for reconnecting when overwhelmed.

September 11, 2026
How to Support Your Partner Without Losing Yourself
Hosts Tarah and EJ explore how to support a partner without losing yourself by discussing the three nervous systems: yours, theirs, and ours.

September 4, 2026
The Moment After: How to Reconnect After a Difficult Conversation
Hosts Dr. Les Parrott and Dr. Leslie Parrott explore how couples can intentionally reconnect after difficult conversations, offering practical strategies for bridging the emotional gap.
484 total episodes available with 131 transcripts
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<p><strong>Why do couples who love each other keep getting pulled into the same painful patterns?</strong></p><p>Why does a simple conversation suddenly become a fight? Why does one partner pursue while the other pulls away? Why can an argument be over and yet somehow you still don’t feel okay with each other?</p><p>For nearly a decade, married couple and licensed therapists <strong>Tarah and E.J. Kerwin</strong> have been exploring those questions on Relationship Renovation.</p><p>But they aren’t interested in giving you another list of relationship tips.</p><p>Each week, Tarah and E.J. use their own marriage, years of working with couples, and relationship science to explore the <strong>invisible dynamics underneath the struggles couples can see</strong>—defensiveness, resentment, disconnection, betrayal, intimacy problems, recurring conflict, emotional triggers, and the moments when two people who love each other somehow lose each other.</p><p>They don’t pretend to have a perfect marriage.</p><p>They’ve had their own patterns. Their own hurts. Their own moments of disconnection. And increasingly, those real moments become the starting point for the conversations you’ll hear on the show.</p><p>Together, they put language around experiences couples often feel but don’t know how to explain—from <strong>The Courtroom Trap</strong> and <strong>Our Nervous Systems Are Arguing</strong> to <strong>The Moment After</strong>—and explore what it actually takes to respond differently.</p><p>You’ll learn how to understand what’s happening beneath your conflicts, create emotional safety, rebuild trust, deepen emotional and physical intimacy, repair after hurt, and grow as individuals without losing each other along the way.</p><p>With more than 20,000 monthly downloads and listeners around the world, Relationship Renovation is for couples who don’t just want a relationship that survives.</p><p><strong>They want one that keeps growing.</strong></p><p>Subscribe and renovate your relationship with us.</p><p><br></p> - How often does this podcast release new episodes?
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