Relationships With A Soul

About Relationships With A Soul

For high-performing adults ready to break long-standing relationship patterns using psychology, Human Design, and deep structural work. nickneve.substack.com (https://nickneve.substack.com/s/rws?utm_medium=podcast)

Publisher

Helping you stop chasing love — and become it.

Category

education · society & culture

Language

en

Explicit

Yes

First episode

2 Dec 2024

Latest episode

27 Oct 2026

Latest episodes

64 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   27 Oct 2026

   What If There's More to Us Than We've Been Taught?

   Explore Mary’s Work: Website (https://thewovenchannel.com/) Substack (https://marygrisey.substack.com/) Art (https://marygrisey.com/) In this episode we explore: What happens to our relationship with someone after they die? Does the connection disappear, or can love take on a different form? Mary Grisey is a visual artist, psychic medium, and trance channeler whose work explores intuition, spirituality, and the possibility of connection beyond the physical world. Her journey began with unusual experiences as a child, but it was the loss of her mother just five days after giving birth to her first daughter that profoundly changed her understanding of grief and the work she felt called to do. In this conversation, Mary joins Lily and Nick to share how that experience transformed her relationship with her mother, why she believes our loved ones remain connected to us, and how grief can sometimes open the door to forgiveness, healing, and a different understanding of ourselves. Lily also shares her own experiences following the loss of her mother, including moments involving birds that brought her an unexpected sense of comfort. Together, we explore the meaning we find in these experiences, the guilt and unfinished conversations that can follow a loss, and why being present with someone who is grieving can be more powerful than anything we could say. We also dive into Mary’s perspective on spirit guides, the intuitive abilities she believes we all possess, and her experiences exploring the possibilities of human consciousness. Ultimately, this conversation is about more than what happens after death. It’s about remembering who we are beneath our conditioning, reconnecting with the curiosity we had as children, and recognizing how love and loss can continue to shape the people we become. Timestamps 01:28 Mary’s childhood experiences with spirit and her grandmother 04:45 Becoming a mother and losing her own mother just five days later 08:20 How grief changed Mary’s relationship with her mother and opened the door to forgiveness 15:56 What Mary believes happens to spirits after death 22:01 How to support someone who is grieving without trying to fix their pain 28:43 Understanding spirit guides and why Mary believes they may be different versions of ourselves 33:15 A simple exercise Mary recommends for exploring signs and spiritual connection 36:36 Lily’s experience with birds and the comfort she felt after losing her mother 42:50 Mary’s experiences exploring psychic abilities and the potential of human consciousness 48:22 Reconnecting with your inner child and remembering who you were before the world shaped you Key Lessons In This Episode * Grief is deeply personal, and there is no single right way to experience it. Losing someone affects each of us differently. Our relationships, circumstances, beliefs, and support systems all shape how we move through loss. * Losing someone doesn’t necessarily mean losing your connection to them. Mary shares her belief that relationships can continue beyond physical death, while Lily reflects on the comfort she has found in experiences that remind her of her mother. * Grief can change the way we see someone we loved. After her mother’s passing, Mary found herself reflecting differently on their relationship. Without the same everyday conflicts and expectations, she describes discovering a deeper sense of compassion and forgiveness. * You don’t have to fix someone’s grief to help them. When someone is hurting, our instinct is often to find the perfect words or make them feel better. Mary reminds us that simply being there, listening, and allowing someone to feel their emotions can be far more meaningful. * Sometimes the most loving thing we can offer is our presence. Mary’s experience with her husband showed her the comfort of having someone who could sit beside her in the pain without trying to explain it away. * Loss can change what we believe is important. The conversation explores how easily we become attached to possessions, productivity, and the demands of everyday life, sometimes losing sight of the relationships and experiences that matter most. * The meaning of a sign can be deeply personal. Through stories about birds, butterflies, dreams, and unexpected moments, Mary and Lily explore experiences they interpret as connections with loved ones who have passed. * Our understanding of guidance can evolve as we grow. Mary describes her belief that spirit guides are not necessarily separate beings, but may represent other aspects or versions of ourselves that emerge when we need them. * Our beliefs influence what we’re willing to explore. Mary encourages curiosity and openness toward experiences that challenge our assumptions, while sharing how her own understanding of intuition and consciousness has changed over time. * The person you were as a child may hold clues to the person you’re meant to become. Before expectations, responsibilities, and social conditioning shaped our choices, we had natural interests and curiosities. Mary encourages looking back at those early parts of ourselves when we feel disconnected from our purpose. Meet Your Hosts: 📙Follow Nick (https://substack.com/@nickneve) and Lily (https://substack.com/@therapistconfessions) on Substack 🪷 Explore The Relationships With A Soul Brand (https://nickneve.substack.com/) 💻Visit Nick’s Website (http://www.nickneve.com/) 💻Visit Lily’s Website (https://www.lilygatica.com/) Enjoyed This Episode? You May Also Enjoy Help Grow The Podcast: Since this is a new podcast, I’d really appreciate your support. Here are three ways you can help grow the podcast: * Follow the Relationships With A Soul podcast on Spotify (https://open.spotify.com/show/5Q4EJpIXRzUtjpWaJY1r0I), Apple Podcasts (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/relationships-with-a-soul/id1845705267), or your favorite podcasting platform * Share this episode with a friend who you think will find it valuable Get full access to The Human Edge at nickneve.substack.com/subscribe (https://nickneve.substack.com/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_4)

2. 

   19 Oct 2026

   Love Isn't Enough If You Can't Talk About Money

   Tune in with us on Spotify (https://open.spotify.com/show/5Q4EJpIXRzUtjpWaJY1r0I), Apple Podcasts (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/relationships-with-a-soul/id1845705267), YouTube (https://www.youtube.com/@RelationshipsWithASoul) In this episode we explore: In this episode, Lily and Nick share what they’ve learned over eight years of navigating money together, from difficult conversations about debt to creating a financial plan that works for both of them. This episode explores why couples avoid talking about money, how financial shame and secrecy can quietly damage a relationship, and why understanding your partner’s history with money is just as important as understanding their financial situation today. We also share how we approached Lily’s student loan debt as a team, why we sit down together every month to review our budget, and how to discuss spending decisions without turning your partner into the enemy. How you can love someone deeply, have an incredible connection, and still struggle to build a healthy relationship if money is the one thing you can’t talk about. Money is about much more than what we earn or spend. It’s connected to our childhood experiences, our fears, our sense of security, and the trust we have in our partners. Yet for so many couples, talking about finances feels uncomfortable, threatening, or even impossible. Being willing to have the uncomfortable conversations is what allows you to build a life together. And we’ll show you how we learned how to do it effectively in this episode. Timestamps 00:15 Why talking about money is essential to a healthy relationship 03:11 How childhood experiences shape our fears and beliefs about money 06:00 The first money conversation every couple should have before moving in or getting married 08:20 Financial shame, hidden debt, and the danger of keeping secrets from your partner 13:22 Nick’s father’s lesson about credit cards, debt, and living within your means 21:02 How to discuss spending without blaming, controlling, or criticizing your partner 25:28 How we worked together to pay off Lily’s student loan debt 30:58 Financial transparency, monthly budgets, and knowing where your money goes 36:03 How hidden financial problems can destroy trust in a relationship 41:50 Why couples need to plan for emergencies, unexpected expenses, and the future Key Lessons In This Episode * Money problems aren’t always about money. The way we communicate about finances can reveal deeper issues around trust, security, shame, control, and our ability to be vulnerable with one another. * Your relationship with money began long before your romantic relationship. What you witnessed growing up, whether it was financial stress, scarcity, secrecy, or security, can influence how you respond to money as an adult. Understanding those experiences can help you better understand each other. * Avoiding money conversations doesn’t protect your relationship. It may prevent an uncomfortable discussion today, but unresolved financial concerns can eventually show up as resentment, defensiveness, anxiety, or a loss of trust. * The first conversation shouldn’t necessarily be about numbers. Before discussing budgets and bank accounts, ask each other what money was like growing up. Understanding where your partner’s fears and beliefs come from can create more compassion and less judgment. * Financial honesty needs to happen before major commitments. If you’re planning to move in together, get married, or build a future with someone, it’s important to understand each other’s income, debt, spending habits, and financial expectations. * Debt has an emotional cost, not just a financial one. Beyond interest payments and monthly obligations, debt can create stress that affects how we feel, communicate, and show up in our relationships. * You’re supposed to be teammates, not opponents. When one person wants to spend money and the other has concerns, the goal shouldn’t be to win the argument. It should be to understand each other’s priorities and find a solution that supports the relationship. * A financial problem becomes easier to face when you have a plan. When Lily and Nick addressed Lily’s student loan debt, they focused on what they could do together instead of assigning blame. Their experience shows how honesty, patience, and a shared goal can turn a difficult situation into an opportunity to build trust. * Talking about money isn’t a one-time conversation. Financial circumstances change throughout a relationship. Regular budget discussions, transparency around spending, and a willingness to revisit financial decisions help couples stay connected and informed. * A healthy relationship requires preparing for conversations you’d rather avoid. Whether it’s debt, unexpected expenses, children, or what happens if one partner dies, planning for difficult possibilities is part of caring for each other and protecting the life you’re building together. Meet Your Hosts: 📙Follow Nick (https://substack.com/@nickneve) and Lily (https://substack.com/@therapistconfessions) on Substack 🪷 Explore The Relationships With A Soul Brand (https://nickneve.substack.com/) Enjoyed This Episode? You May Also Enjoy Help Grow The Podcast: Since this is a new podcast, I’d really appreciate your support. Here are three ways you can help grow the podcast: * Follow the Relationships With A Soul podcast on Spotify (https://open.spotify.com/show/5Q4EJpIXRzUtjpWaJY1r0I), Apple Podcasts (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/relationships-with-a-soul/id1845705267), or your favorite podcasting platform * Share this episode with a friend who you think will find it valuable Get full access to The Human Edge at nickneve.substack.com/subscribe (https://nickneve.substack.com/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_4)

3. 

   8 Oct 2026

   What Kind of Life Do You Really Want to Live?

   Today’s Guest: Shiva Rose Shiva Rose is an author, wellness advocate, and founder of The Local Rose. Through her work in natural beauty, holistic wellness, and spirituality, she inspires others to reconnect with their intuition, embrace a more intentional way of living, and cultivate a deeper relationship with themselves. Explore Shiva’s Work: Website (https://www.shivarose.com/) Substack (https://substack.com/@thehouseofmagdalena) Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/localrose) In this episode we explore: What happens when you stop living according to what you’re supposed to do and start asking what you actually want. Shiva Rose joins Lily and Nick to share the extraordinary journey that took her from Hollywood to a life centered around healing, nature, spirituality, and the feminine. After being diagnosed with multiple autoimmune conditions in her twenties and being told she had just a year to live, Shiva began questioning everything she thought she knew about health and wellness. The founder of The Local Rose, creator of a natural beauty line, and author of Whole Beauty, Shiva shares her personal experiences with holistic healing, the importance of listening to her intuition, and why she believes our bodies and emotions deserve more attention than we often give them. But this conversation goes well beyond physical health. We explore the pressure to constantly achieve, why traditional ideas of productivity don’t work for everyone, and the difference between chasing temporary pleasure and creating lasting joy. We also talk about faith, community, staying connected to our humanity in an increasingly technological world, and what it means to build a life you genuinely love before looking for someone else to share it with. Timestamps 00:49 Trusting your intuition and reconnecting with your inner knowing 02:31 Shiva’s autoimmune diagnoses and the prognosis that changed her life 08:38 Exploring the relationship between emotional experiences and physical symptoms 11:27 Learning to listen to your body and rethinking our relationship with pain 16:55 Finding a place for both conventional medicine and holistic approaches 19:08 Feminine energy, hustle culture, and working in a way that feels natural 23:37 What kind of life do you really want to live? 28:45 Health, community, faith, and what will matter most in the next ten years 35:46 Why building a relationship with yourself comes before finding a partner 39:48 Remembering what it feels like to truly feel good in your body Key Lessons In This Episode * Intuition is something we can learn to reconnect with. Shiva believes we’re born with an innate sense of knowing, but years of conditioning, expectations, and outside influences can make it difficult to hear. * A difficult experience can change the direction of your entire life. Shiva’s frightening health diagnoses led her to question conventional assumptions and begin a decades-long exploration of wellness, spirituality, and self-understanding. * Healing isn’t always a linear process. Shiva describes her health journey as peeling back the layers of an onion, continually learning, adjusting, and discovering new things about herself. * Listening to yourself means paying attention to more than your thoughts. Shiva explores how she reflects on emotional experiences alongside physical symptoms, seeing self-awareness as an important part of her personal approach to well-being. * Different approaches to health don’t necessarily have to be mutually exclusive. Although Shiva has explored many traditional and alternative practices, she also acknowledges the importance of modern medicine and lifesaving interventions. * Productivity doesn’t have to look the same for everyone. Shiva describes finding greater creativity and fulfillment through a flexible, intuitive approach to work rather than forcing herself into a rigid schedule. * Success means very little if you don’t enjoy the life you’re creating. Instead of measuring everything through money, achievement, or external expectations, Shiva encourages asking what you want your actual days to feel like. * Pleasure and joy are not the same thing. Temporary pleasures can provide immediate gratification, but Shiva reflects on the deeper, more lasting fulfillment that comes from meaningful experiences, connection, and living in alignment with your values. * Community, faith, and human connection are forms of resilience. As technology changes the world around us, Shiva believes our health, relationships, practical skills, and willingness to support one another will become increasingly important. * The relationship you have with yourself shapes the love you allow into your life. After her divorce, Shiva discovered that learning to enjoy her own company and becoming her own partner changed the way she approached romantic relationships. Meet Your Hosts: 📙Follow Nick (https://substack.com/@nickneve) and Lily (https://substack.com/@therapistconfessions) on Substack 🪷 Explore The Relationships With A Soul Brand (https://nickneve.substack.com/) 💻Visit Nick’s Website (http://www.nickneve.com/) 💻Visit Lily’s Website (https://www.lilygatica.com/) Enjoyed This Episode? You May Also Enjoy Help Grow The Podcast: Since this is a new podcast, I’d really appreciate your support. Here are three ways you can help grow the podcast: * Follow the Relationships With A Soul podcast on Spotify (https://open.spotify.com/show/5Q4EJpIXRzUtjpWaJY1r0I), Apple Podcasts (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/relationships-with-a-soul/id1845705267), or your favorite podcasting platform * Share this episode with a friend who you think will find it valuable Get full access to The Human Edge at nickneve.substack.com/subscribe (https://nickneve.substack.com/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_4)

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