Richer or Poorer Marriage Podcast

About Richer or Poorer Marriage Podcast

There is a multifaceted nature of richness and poverty in marriage. It’s not just financial. It’s emotional, physical, and spiritual. By addressing the deeper implications of “Richer or Poorer”, our podcast provides couples a comprehensive lens to view their relationship, encouraging them to cherish the abundant moments and navigate the lean times with resilience and unity. Tune in to the Richer or Poorer Marriage Podcast for stories, laughter, and love! #richerorpoorer #marriage #podcast #blessed

Publisher

Rich Poor

Category

society & culture

Language

en

Explicit

No

First episode

11 Sept 2023

Latest episode

21 Jan 2026

Latest episodes

18 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   21 Jan 2026

   Why Hard Seasons Create Distance in Marriage (And How to Reconnect) | ROPMP S3Ep1

   This episode is for married entrepreneurs, leaders, and couples who love each other deeply but feel the weight of a hard season pulling them apart quietly. In this episode, we discuss: • Why adversity often creates distance instead of disagreement • The difference between survival mode and intentional connection • Emotional, spiritual, and relational disconnection in marriage • How covenant becomes the bridge back to unity • Practical ways to reconnect when pain feels heavy • How to stay aligned in marriage while navigating calling, leadership, and purpose This conversation is not about fixing everything overnight. It is about naming the disconnect, creating safety again, and choosing to walk together through the storm instead of separately. Key takeaway:Distance does not mean love is gone. It means there is an invitation to come closer with intention. If you and your spouse are navigating a difficult season and feel disconnected, this episode will give you language, perspective, and hope. Reflection questions to consider together: • Where have we grown distant emotionally, spiritually, or relationally? • What pain have we not talked about yet? • What does reconnecting look like in this season? If this episode resonates with you, share it with your spouse or another couple walking through a hard season. 👍 Like 💬 Comment 📌 Subscribe for more conversations on marriage, leadership, faith, and purpose SUBSCRIBE & LEAVE A REVIEW YouTube Channel: ⁠ @Richerorpoorermarriagepodcast FOLLOW US IG: @richerorpoorermarriagepodcast IG/TikTok/YouTube: @drdspeaksvolumes IG/TikTok/YouTube: @prophetessshontae | IG: @iamenoughcampaign Facebook: /richerorpoorermarriagepodcast #MarriageAndAdversity #RicherOrPoorerMarriagePodcast #FaithAndMarriage #EntrepreneurMarriage #MarriagePodcast #CovenantMarriage #LeadershipAndMarriage #MarriageInHardSeasons #EmotionalConnection #SpiritualIntimacy

2. 

   16 Jul 2025

   We Crashed...She Still Rode With Me: Real Love. Real Forgiveness. Real Friendship: S2, E7

   What does it look like to truly forgive, reconcile, and ride through life together—literally? In this powerful episode, we sit down with our friends Wali and Tierra Lathan to talk about friendship in marriage, rebuilding trust after conflict, and the freedom to love without fear of the past. We share raw stories, including a real ATV crash and what it taught us about grace, communication, and quick recovery in relationships. This one is full of laughs, faith, and wisdom for couples navigating real-life challenges. Key Takeaways: How to forgive fast and reconcile with intention Why real friendships help marriages thrive How to heal from hurt and rebuild trust Choosing growth over grudges Creating safe spaces for vulnerability Follow & Subscribe for more conversations that build the health and wealth of your marriage.

3. 

   19 Dec 2024

   Talking All Things Marriage Q&A (Live)

   Welcome to a live Q&A with the Smith's (previously recorded on Youtube). In this Q&A, the Smith's are talking all things marriage. Questions submitted from our followers and subscribers via email and social media channels included: How do we foster growth in our marriage What advice can you give to someone looking for some sort of breakthrough in their marriage Is it ok to bring toys into our marriage bedroom What does it mean to wash your spouse with the WORD How do you cope with fatigue in your marriage What do you do if your spouses chooses spending time with friends over spending time with you How do you deal with a spouse that feels the need to compete within the marriage Should couples try to group therapy If you or someone you know are facing some of these in their marriage, check out the podcast!

4. 

   7 Sept 2024

   Sex or No Sex: That Is The Question; S2, Ep5

   In the latest episode of the "Richer or Poorer Marriage Podcast," hosts Dr. Damon and Shontae Smith delve into the sensitive topic of withholding sex in marriage. As a Christian couple, they approach this subject with both compassion and biblical wisdom, offering valuable insights for couples navigating the intricacies of physical and emotional intimacy. The podcast begins by acknowledging that there can be legitimate reasons why someone may avoid sex in their marriage, such as health issues or hormonal imbalances. The hosts emphasize the importance of communication and understanding in these situations, encouraging couples to seek medical treatment or counseling to address the underlying causes. However, the podcast also addresses the more problematic issue of intentionally withholding sex as a form of punishment or manipulation. Drawing from the teachings of 1 Corinthians 7:3-5, the hosts make it clear that this practice is not only unbiblical but can also have detrimental effects on the marriage. They stress the importance of mutual consent and the need for couples to prioritize their physical and emotional connection. One particularly poignant moment in the discussion centers around the impact of past trauma on a person's ability to engage in sexual intimacy. Shontae shares her own personal experience with this, highlighting the importance of open communication, prayer, and seeking professional help to work through the emotional scars. The hosts emphasize that healing is possible, but it requires vulnerability and a willingness to trust one's spouse. The podcast also touches on the role of stress and external factors in affecting a couple's sex life. The hosts encourage couples to find healthy ways to manage stress, such as engaging in relaxing activities or seeking counseling, in order to maintain a strong physical and emotional bond. Furthermore, the hosts address the issue of physical attraction and body image, acknowledging that as we age, our bodies can change in ways that may impact our self-confidence. They encourage couples to communicate openly about these concerns, and to focus on building up each other's self-worth and confidence, rather than allowing it to become a barrier to intimacy. Throughout the discussion, the hosts emphasize the importance of maintaining a spirit of oneness, flexibility, and mutual understanding within the marriage. They remind listeners that the bedroom is a sacred space, where couples can explore and express their physical and emotional intimacy without judgment or shame. By addressing these sensitive topics with honesty, compassion, and biblical principles, the "Richer or Poorer Marriage Podcast" provides a valuable resource for couples seeking to strengthen the physical and emotional aspects of their marriage. The hosts' willingness to share their own experiences and insights offers a relatable and practical approach to navigating the complexities of intimacy in marriage.

5. 

   3 Aug 2024

   Understanding Love: Beyond Love Languages; S2, Ep4

   Is love the most important factor before getting married? In this video, the Smith's discuss the evolving nature of love and the various reasons why people choose to tie the knot. Understanding the true essence of love - is there a difference between love and being in love in a marriage. The Smith's also discuss the concept of love languages and how they can sometimes fall short in defining love. Join us as we dive deep into the concept of love, how it impacts our relationships, and what it takes to make a marriage work. Check out Season 2 episode 4, Understanding Love: Beyond Love Languages 🔔 Don't miss out! Hit the bell icon for notifications on our latest episodes! 👉 Subscribe for more uplifting stories: @Richerorpoorermarriagepodcast SUBSCRIBE & LEAVE A REVIEW YouTube Channel: ⁠ @Richerorpoorermarriagepodcast Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5qTDrk8... FOLLOW US IG: @richerorpoorermarriagepodcast IG: @drdspeaksvolumes IG: @prophetessshontae | IG: @iamenoughcampaign Facebook: / richerorpoorermarriagepodcast #richerorpoorermarriagepodcast #marriageworks #drdamonsmith , #shontaesmith #christianmarriage #love #relationship #marriagejourney #relationshipadvice #datingtips #accountability #healingandlove #christianrelationshipadvice #marriagecommitment #lovestory #relationshipadviceformen #relationshipadviceforwomen #faithandrelationships #kingdomlove #godslove #keepgodfirst #christianpodcast #marriagevows #marriagevideo #marriageadvice #marriagematters #marriagevows #christianrelationships #marriageadvice #marriedlife #marriedlifetips #marriedlifegoals #marriedlifeisthebestlife #marriagegoals #relationshipgoals #lovelanguage #lovelanguages #truelove #agape #agapelove #loveisthefoundation #loveisanactionword #loveispatient #loveiskind #loveandcommitment

6. 

   13 Jul 2024

   Not into Temptation: The Test of Every Marriage; S2, Ep3

   In this insightful episode of Richer or Poorer Marriage Podcast, the Smith's dive deep into the complex topic of temptations in marriage. Whether it's personal reflections, identifying early signs, or coping strategies, Dr. Damon and Shontae have got you covered. Join us as we explore various aspects of temptations, ensuring your relationship remains strong and resilient. Check out Season 2 episode 3, Not into Temptation: The Test of Every Marriage 🔔 Don't miss out! Hit the bell icon for notifications on our latest episodes! 👉 Subscribe for more uplifting stories: @Richerorpoorermarriagepodcast SUBSCRIBE & LEAVE A REVIEW YouTube Channel: ⁠ @Richerorpoorermarriagepodcast Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5qTDrk8... FOLLOW US IG: @richerorpoorermarriagepodcast IG: @drdspeaksvolumes IG: @prophetessshontae | IG: @iamenoughcampaign Facebook: / richerorpoorermarriagepodcast #richerorpoorermarriagepodcast, #marriageworks #drdamonsmith, #shontaesmith, #christianmarriage, #temptations , #relationship, #marriagejourney, #relationshipadvice, #datingtips, #accountability, #healingandlove, #christianrelationshipadvice, #marriagecommitment, #lovestory, #patienceiskey, #faithandrelationships, #kingdomlove, #godslove, #keepgodfirst, #christianpodcast #marriagevows #marriagevideo #marriageadvice

7. 

   22 Jun 2024

   'Til Death Do Us Part: The Heart of the Marriage Vows: S2, Ep2

   In this episode of Richer or Poorer Marriage Podcast, The Smith's take you on an intimate journey through the sacred words of the traditional marriage vows. They breakdown the vows line by line, exploring their meaning along with real-life scenarios. Whether you are engaged, newly married, or celebrating decades together, this episode will help you deepen your appreciation of the timeless promises made before man and God. Tune in to enrich your relationship and renew your commitment to love and partnership. Check out Season 2 episode 2, 'Til Death Do Us Part: The Heart of the Marriage Vows 🔔 Don't miss out! Hit the bell icon for notifications on our latest episodes! 👉 Subscribe for more uplifting stories: @Richerorpoorermarriagepodcast SUBSCRIBE & LEAVE A REVIEW YouTube Channel: ⁠ @Richerorpoorermarriagepodcast Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast.. (https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbFJTd3p6QmU5OUVCZGQtWjNFNkVzeTBQVGlhUXxBQ3Jtc0trM2k4VlZwZ3AtY3lKeXdlM19hQy1RYU5adWRSZ25wcFl3UnFqSjJBaGtOcXlTekRmM3R1bTB5MFdXYWlraGdrV1RULU5mbUM2Y3ladkFkV0xxa2FKTmtROHVScm5ZSVdsbnd3SkdBNl9DQkRjOG5ncw&q=https%3A%2F%2Fpodcasts.apple.com%2Fus%2Fpodcast..&v=heGjiTO0fDg). Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5qTDrk8.. (https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqblNNeW9zcjAxVHhSTlBleXhLRFBIT2pYRHhJZ3xBQ3Jtc0trMVBWdG03aldiblp4Uk9ZZTJkSzA3OTFtMXhmS0FwVmw3bDVXMl9uRk9wZ2JzQU1jWnJwbXFGUFJLek5mdTZDNGFRemt0YTZTLTJjWVQ4Vlp0Z1lkQVdfSXZVVV92RVZGYlhDZ2lQbFU3eXd3aTJTYw&q=https%3A%2F%2Fopen.spotify.com%2Fshow%2F5qTDrk8..&v=heGjiTO0fDg). FOLLOW US IG: @richerorpoorermarriagepodcast IG: @drdspeaksvolumes IG: @prophetessshontae | IG: @iamenoughcampaign Facebook:   / richerorpoorermarriagepodcast   (https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqa29SZEhKSEdhcU9GTXVmZlVLZXRJZEZXVUxCUXxBQ3Jtc0ttc3hreFN1dGh4RnctcWNmZ3AxRnFtWU9ONVlrNms5M2c5VnFpQWNyYk51YUptQXJERVRfaHRrV25kOFBQb1Q0cGVfVW53X3lmSmhaUE5lMXNmcGpTQVphU3o2VE1rZ1JCbzN1OXpDbm5hN2FBQ0owcw&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.facebook.com%2FRicherorPoorerMarriagePodcast&v=heGjiTO0fDg) #richerorpoorermarriagepodcast (https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/richerorpoorermarriagepodcast), #dream (https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/dream) , #drdamonsmith (https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/drdamonsmith), #shontaesmith (https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/shontaesmith), #christianmarriage (https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/christianmarriage), #covenantkeepinggod (https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/covenantkeepinggod), #covenant (https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/covenant), #marriagejourney (https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/marriagejourney), #relationshipadvice (https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/relationshipadvice), #datingtips (https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/datingtips), #accountability (https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/accountability), #healingandlove (https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/healingandlove), #christianrelationshipadvice (https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/christianrelationshipadvice), #marriagecommitment (https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/marriagecommitment), #lovestory (https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/lovestory), #patienceiskey (https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/patienceiskey), #faithandrelationships (https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/faithandrelationships), #kingdomlove (https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/kingdomlove), #godslove (https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/godslove), #keepgodfirst (https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/keepgodfirst), #christianpodcast (https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/christianpodcast)

8. 

   1 Jun 2024

   Love Contracts 101: Why Marriage is More Than Just Paperwork: S2, Ep1

   In the premiere to Season 2, Dr. Damon and Shontae dive deep into the benefits of viewing marriage as a covenant rather than a legal contract. They answer the question of how does the concept of covenant influence the way couples view their relationships. The Smith's also discuss some practical ways to honor your covenant in marriage.

9. 

   11 Feb 2024

   Episode 11: You're Right... I May Need Therapy

   In this episode of Richer or Poorer Marriage Podcast, the Smith's discuss therapy, the benefits of therapy, and the stigma associated with therapy. Today's society has been more vocal about using therapy; however, there are segments of the culture that still disparage therapy. As believers and medical professionals, Dr. Damon and Shontae have a unique perspective that may not be shared by others. Check out this episode and share your thoughts.

10. 

    27 Jan 2024

    Episode 10: For Me...Divorce Is Not An Option

    We all see the headlines. Everywhere you turn, someone is getting divorced. In this episode, Dr. Damon and Shontae enter a no judgment zone and discuss divorce and the influence culture, social media, and society have on marriage and divorce. They dive deep into the sacredness of marriage vows and the difference between a contract and covenant. While highlighting potential reasons for divorce, the Smith's close out this episode by providing some guidance for those who are contemplating divorce.

11. 

    7 Jan 2024

    Episode 9: Standing on Business in Life, Marriage, and Business

    Are you married and considering building a business together? Before you put that type of stress on your marriage, check out this podcast with the Smith's. Dr. Damon and Shontae discuss mixing marriage and business, the power of communication, the importance of defined roles and boundaries, and creating a work life balance.

12. 

    23 Dec 2023

    Episode 8: Step Up Your Intimacy Intelligence Game

    Intimacy is far more than a sexual relationship. Are you engaging in different layers of intimacy? Are you avoiding emotional intimacy? The Smith's discuss the different types of intimacy, the importance of communication in building intimacy, and how knowing you and your partners love languages can impact your intimacy.

13. 

    9 Dec 2023

    Episode 7: Oh, She Just A Friend

    Do you have an opposite sex friend that your spouse does not know about? Does your spouse have a toxic relationship with one of your friends? When is it time to let go of a friendship that is not productive or supportive of your marriage? In this episode of Richer Or Poorer Marriage Podcast, the Smith's discuss the impact of friendships on marriages, choosing the right friends, letting go of certain friendships, and nurturing friendships within marriage.

14. 

    29 Nov 2023

    Episode 6: Becoming One Without Losing Yourself

    Do you know who you are? Have you ever felt trapped or suffocated in your marriage? Was there ever a time you felt as if you were losing your identity in your marriage? In this episode of Richer or Poorer Marriage Podcast, Damon and Shontae discuss the importance of discovering your self-identity and maintaining some sense of individuality while becoming one in a marriage. They share the importance of healthy outlets to break the monotony of feeling trapped or bored in a marriage and how discovering God's plan for you as an individual is just as important as his plan for you together as a married couple.

15. 

    12 Nov 2023

    Episode 5: Step-Free Love: Redefining Blended Families

    There are common problems that cause blended families to fail. In this episode of Richer or Poorer Marriage Podcast, the Smith's discuss how they approached the new dynamics of blending their family. They discuss favoritism or the lack thereof with the children, as well as their parenting style and disciplinary strategy. They also stress the importance of communication and "who comes first" in their home. SUBSCRIBE & LEAVE A REVIEW YouTube Channel:  @Richerorpoorermarriagepodcast  (https://studio.youtube.com/channel/UCSmpngHYYeMb6xk8Zc39fZw) Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/richer-or-poorer-marriage-podcast/id1706250786 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5qTDrk8r9WyWbuqAn3xwNg Google Podcast: FOLLOW US IG: @richerorpoorermarriagepodcast IG: @drdspeaksvolumes IG: @prophetessshontae | IG: @iamenoughcampaign Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/RicherorPoorerMarriagePodcast

16. 

    28 Oct 2023

    Episode 4: Locked in Love: Prison Bars Couldn't Break Them

    Anthony and Veronica Wynn join The Smith's to discuss their initial thoughts and emotions upon learning that Anthony had been arrested and have to serve time on drug trafficking and conspiracy charges. Topics include: some of the challenges they faced during his incarceration; how their communication evolved during that time, what influenced their decision to stay together, and any advice they would offer someone facing a similar challenge.

17. 

    23 Sept 2023

    Episode 2: Love Without Fear

    Are you struggling with infidelity in your marriage? Have you ever been in a relationship where you had to make a difficult decision?  In this video, we hear the story of Ken and Vickie Lewis, who faced a crossroads in their marriage when Ken had an affair. We discuss the importance of making a decision about what you want in your marriage. We learn how Ken was able to redefine and develop the trust that was lost. And as a result, how Ken and Vickie rebuilt a strong foundation for their marriage and moved forward in a positive way after infidelity within the relationship. #RicherOrPoorer #Marriage #Podcast #Infidelity #DecisionMaking #Relationships #Crossroads #Affair #OvercomingDifficulties

18. 

    11 Sept 2023

    Episode 1: I Love How You Love Me

    Get to know The Smith's. In this episode, Damon and Shontae discuss how they met, the car scam that deepened their love and trust in one another, and how Shontae let go of a quitting mindset and discovered unconditional love. Tune in to the Richer or Poorer Marriage Podcast for stories, laughter, and love! #richerorpoorer #marriage #podcast #blessed

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YouTube views

83,003

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Apple Podcasts (US)

5.0 / 5

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Podcast Authority Score: 33 / 100

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