Ride or Lie started as a rideshare storytelling podcast where wild journeys met unexpected twists. Now, we’re switching lanes and taking on a new ride: Modern Dating.
But why? Because somewhere along the way, we realized we wanted to tell a different story—our own.
So now, we’re navigating the world of modern dating, taking you along on the ride and sharing with you what has, and hasn’t worked for us.
From swipes to situationships, red flags to green light moments, we realized that modern dating has been its own kind of journey— crazy, beautiful, unpredictable, and oftentimes, frustrating.
It’s all about facing the hard truths and calling out the lies society—and even we—keep telling ourselves.
Because in love and life, you’ve got two choices: Ride or Lie.
Welcome to the Ride or Lie Podcast
The Great Dating Divide: One of Us Paused Dating. The Other Won't Stop.
Is social media helping us date better... or making it harder to trust ourselves?
In this honest conversation, Shan and CoCo explore how today's relationship advice culture, "car therapists," and endless online opinions are shaping the way we think about love, dating, and ourselves. While CoCo has intentionally stepped away from dating to focus on healing, regulating her nervous system, and finding balance, Shan has embraced dating as a season of growth, curiosity, and rediscovering herself after divorce.
The two compare their very different approaches to the same stage of life, proving there's no single "right" way to navigate relationships. They also dive into how childhood experiences, father wounds, vulnerability, and personal transformation influence the way we love today.
Whether you're actively dating, taking a break, or somewhere in between, this episode is a reminder to quiet the outside noise and trust your own journey.
In this episode, we discuss:- Why relationship advice on social media can create confusion instead of clarity- The influence of "car therapists" and dating influencers on modern relationships- Dating yourself vs. dating others—what does that really mean?- Why CoCo pressed pause on dating to prioritize healing and balance- Why Shan is fully embracing dating after years of long-term relationships and divorce- How childhood experiences and father wounds shape adult relationships- The difference between dating for connection versus dating for distraction- Building meaningful experiences beyond dinner dates- Protecting your peace without isolating yourself- Learning to trust your own instincts over internet opinions- Why two healthy women can choose completely different dating paths—and both be right
**Question of the Week:** Are you in a season of dating, healing, or both? We'd love to hear how you're protecting your peace while staying open to connection.
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10 Jun 2026
Crazy Beautiful: Love, Lust, & Algorithms
Can AI replace human connection, or is it simply changing the way we seek it?
In this episode, Shan and Coco explore the growing influence of AI on modern relationships and ask a question that feels more relevant every day: Can technology enhance human connection, or are we slowly replacing it?
From AI-generated dating profiles and relationship advice to virtual companions and emotionally intelligent chatbots, the conversation dives into how people are using artificial intelligence to navigate love, communication, loneliness, and self-discovery. The ladies share their own experiences using AI as a tool for dating, personal growth, and understanding relationship dynamics while debating where the line should be drawn.
They also tackle the rise of AI companions, robotic technology, and whether consistency, validation, and emotional support from artificial intelligence could ever compete with genuine human connection.
In This Episode:
Using AI to improve dating profiles and online presence
Why more people are turning to ChatGPT for relationship advice
The difference between using AI as a tool versus a replacement
AI companions, virtual partners, and the future of dating
The importance of prompting and getting meaningful feedback from AI
Can artificial intelligence help us communicate better?
The emotional risks of becoming too dependent on technology
House robots, Waymos, and how comfortable we really are with the future
Whether AI can truly satisfy emotional needs
Ride or Lie: AI Dating Edition
Questions We Explore:
Would you let AI write your dating profile?
Could AI ever replace a romantic partner?
Is emotional intimacy with AI crossing a line?
Are people seeking connection or simply consistency?
What happens when technology gives us everything we say we want?
As AI becomes more integrated into our everyday lives, one thing remains clear: humans are still searching for connection, understanding, and love. The question is whether technology will help us find it or redefine what it looks like altogether.
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13 May 2026
Fine, Toxic & Spiritually Growing While Dating
This episode dives into candid conversations about love, friendship, jealousy, self-growth, and navigating the modern dating world, which we're known for here on ROL. Featuring insightful discussions with Motion, a versatile creative, life enthusiast, and friend to the show, the episode captures raw honesty on relationships and personal development.
Main topics covered:
The importance of self-awareness and spiritual growth in dating
Navigating friendships without romantic expectations
Perspectives on being a "prize" in relationships
Managing jealousy, possessiveness, and ego in romantic dynamics
The realities of multi-dating and maintaining multiple connections
Insights into masculinity, emotional intelligence, and growth at different life stages
The significance of communication, boundaries, and mutual appreciation
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“In life and love, you have two choices: Ride or Lie.”
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