Feeling stuck in the same patterns? Wondering why you keep reacting the way you do? Healing at the Root is a Christ-centered podcast where Alex & Petra, The Counseling Couple, help you uncover the deeper beliefs, wounds, and patterns shaping your relationships, emotional health, and faith. Through biblical counseling, practical conversations, and real-life application, you'll find hope, clarity, and lasting healing not just symptom management.

Rock Life Coaching and Mentoring
Claim This Podcastby Alexander and Petra Rojas, M.A.
Podcast Overview
Feeling stuck in the same patterns? Wondering why you keep reacting the way you do? Healing at the Root is a Christ-centered podcast where Alex & Petra, The Counseling Couple, help you uncover the deeper beliefs, wounds, and patterns shaping your relationships, emotional health, and faith. Through biblical counseling, practical conversations, and real-life application, you'll find hope, clarity, and lasting healing not just symptom management.
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July 7, 2026
You Can't Lead Like Christ Without This!
<p><strong>What separates a leader who reflects Jesus from one who simply holds a position?</strong></p><p><strong>Humility.</strong></p><p>In this episode of <strong>Healing at the Root</strong>, Alex and Petra explore why humility is the foundation of Christlike leadership. Without it, authority becomes control, correction becomes condemnation, and leadership can unintentionally wound the very people God has called us to shepherd.</p><p>Whether you're a pastor, ministry leader, husband, wife, parent, or simply someone who wants to lead like Jesus, this conversation will challenge you to examine your own heart before leading others.</p><p>Together we discuss:</p><ul><li>Why humility is the foundation of biblical leadership</li><li>The difference between authority and control</li><li>How pride quietly destroys healthy leadership</li><li>Why knowledge without humility becomes dangerous</li><li>Paul's model of leading with both truth and grace</li><li>Why Jesus calls leaders to become servants first</li><li>How insecurity often hides beneath pride</li><li>Receiving correction without becoming defensive</li><li>Healing from church hurt</li><li>Building healthier churches, marriages, and families through humility</li></ul><p>We also share personal stories of pride, correction, insecurity, and how God has used humility to transform both our leadership and our marriage.</p><p>If you've ever been hurt by a leader—or you're a leader who desires to reflect the heart of Christ—we pray this conversation encourages you to lead with greater wisdom, humility, and love.</p><p><strong>Free Church Hurt Recovery Guide</strong><br>Download our free Church Hurt Recovery Method:<br><a href="" target="_new" rel="noopener">https://www.rocklifecoach.com/churchhurt</a></p><p><strong>Join our Online Conference — July 18</strong><br><strong>Healing & Restoration in the Church</strong><br>A one-day online conference designed to help believers heal from church hurt, navigate conflict biblically, and build healthier churches.</p><p>Register by donation:<br><a href="https://www.rocklifecoach.com/" target="_new" rel="noopener">https://www.rocklifecoach.com</a></p><p>Follow us:<br>Instagram: @the_counseling_couple<br>Instagram/TikTok: @rocklifecoaching_mentoring</p><p><strong>The Counseling Couple</strong> helps individuals, couples, families, and ministry leaders heal at the root through biblical counseling, practical tools, and Christ-centered discipleship. New episodes every Monday.</p>

June 29, 2026
Healing at the Root #001 | Nobody Told You What To Do After Being Church Hurt
<p>Most people know <strong>what</strong> happened after being hurt by a church, pastor, ministry leader, or Christian community but very few know <strong>what to do next</strong>.</p><p>In this episode of <strong>Healing at the Root</strong>, Alex and Petra explore one of the most common questions people ask after experiencing church hurt:</p><p><strong>"Now what?"</strong></p><p>Together, they unpack why simply knowing your story isn't enough, why "just forgive and move on" often falls short, and how Jesus invites us to process our pain rather than avoid it. Through biblical counseling, personal experiences, and practical guidance, they discuss how unprocessed church hurt can shape our beliefs, relationships, and view of God and how healing begins when we bring our story before Him.</p><p>Whether you've experienced spiritual abuse, manipulation, betrayal, rejection, or simply feel disconnected from church after a painful experience, this conversation will equip you with biblical wisdom, practical tools, and hope for healing.</p><p><strong>In this episode you'll learn:</strong></p><ul><li>Why church hurt affects us so deeply</li><li>The biggest mistake people make after being hurt</li><li>Why processing your story with Jesus matters</li><li>How to identify unhealthy beliefs formed through church hurt</li><li>The first practical steps toward healing and restoration</li></ul><p>Healing doesn't begin by pretending nothing happened. It begins by honestly bringing your story to Jesus.</p><p>If this episode encouraged you, we'd love for you to follow the podcast, leave a review, and share it with someone who may be walking through church hurt.</p><p><strong>Free Resource:</strong><br>Download our free <strong>Church Hurt Recovery Method</strong> to begin processing your story with Jesus:<br><a href="https://www.rocklifecoach.com/churchhealingmethodresource">https://www.rocklifecoach.com/churchhealingmethodresource</a></p>

May 16, 2026
How to Heal from Controlling Leadership as a Couple
<p>When controlling leadership tries to get in-between your marriage, it can create a tension most couples don’t know how to carry. One spouse may feel called to leave. The other may want to stay. One may feel controlled, unseen, or spiritually unsafe, while the other is still trying to honor the church, the leader, or the community.And if you’re not careful, the pain from leadership can start dividing you and your spouse instead of bringing you closer together.In this live, we’re answering real questions about how couples can process prideful leadership, spiritual control, church hurt, and the pressure that can come when leadership tries to influence what God is doing inside your marriage.If you and your spouse are trying to heal, discern, and stay united through this, this conversation is for you.</p>
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