30something formerly known as SashaSpins sharing social commentary about current events, life, and everything in between from a unique perspective. Life isn't a niche so you're getting it all here from someone who feels strongly about everything. Everything? E-VER-Y-THANG!
Dealing with Dementors in the form of Chronic Contrarians - How to Disarm Them & Protect Your Peace
We all know that one person who any and every single time we open our mouths has to correct us, play devil's advocate, move the goal post, or overall add something unnecessary just to hear the sound of their own voice. Well the devil needs no advocates and you don't have to tolerate this annoying behavior. Here's how to deal with these chronic contrarians who are legit soul draining dementors in human form!#contrarian #advice #corporate Timestamps -0:55 chronic contrarians3:25 why you shouldn't try to change this behavior5:56 why these people are so draining10:23 mansplaining vs chronic contrarians14:13 call out the impact17:20 drop the rope22:46 set gentle boundaries24:41 shift to curiosity27:14 in closing
18 Mar 2026
The Manosphere Exposed as a Grift…Only to Those Who Haven’t Been Paying Attention
The new Netflix documentary has exposed the manosphere as a grift? OMG, everyone act surprised in 3,2,... #manosphere (https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/manosphere) #netflix (https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/netflix) #patriarchy (https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/patriarchy) 3:24 (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=080OrIY8Is4&t=204s) initial thoughts 3:56 (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=080OrIY8Is4&t=236s) HS Tikky Tokky14:14 (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=080OrIY8Is4&t=854s) the hypocrisy of the manosphere21:23 (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=080OrIY8Is4&t=1283s) Justin Waller29:34 (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=080OrIY8Is4&t=1774s) they're this close to getting it32:01 (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=080OrIY8Is4&t=1921s) Myron Gaines42:01 (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=080OrIY8Is4&t=2521s) Sneako47:12 (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=080OrIY8Is4&t=2832s) hurt men hurt everyone49:57 (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=080OrIY8Is4&t=2997s) homosocial behavior & the male loneliness epidemic 52:01 (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=080OrIY8Is4&t=3121s) what does it even mean to be a man?
15 Mar 2026
Jealousy & Envy Are a Result of Failing to Hold Yourself Accountable to What You Want Out Of Life
In a video that broke Girl Talk TikTok and was met with strong feelings, a young woman posted a video expressing vulnerability about being jealous of an ex-friend. This video seemingly broke the internet with many weighing in to share their thoughts about having a jealous friend, the danger of jealous friends, etc. What she was actually describing was envy not jealousy but more importantly, I didn’t see anyone talking about what what the most obvious to me: the root of jealousy and envy which on the surface may seem wanting or desire but to me reflect a lack of personal accountability. Let’s talk about it!#envy (https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/envy) #jealousy (https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/jealousy) #friends (https://www.youtube.com/hashtag/friends) 2:38 (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-NKvOSGt_gE&t=158s) the jealousy video that broke the internet10:29 (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-NKvOSGt_gE&t=629s) jealousy vs envy12:53 (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-NKvOSGt_gE&t=773s) everyone has haters but no one is a hater14:37 (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-NKvOSGt_gE&t=877s) what do you do with jealousy?17:41 (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-NKvOSGt_gE&t=1061s) popcorn culture of people addicted to comfort21:20 (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-NKvOSGt_gE&t=1280s) the world that is vs the world that should25:07 (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-NKvOSGt_gE&t=1507s) is this a generational thing27:50 (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-NKvOSGt_gE&t=1670s) the privilege of it all34:14 (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-NKvOSGt_gE&t=2054s) children with no resources become envious & jealous adults?38:26 (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-NKvOSGt_gE&t=2306s) in closing
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