Hosted by real-life domestic discipline couple @drew_spanks & @I_Fly_Away, Sass & Surrender dives deep into the world of consensual kink, domestic discipline, and the art of spanking. From bratty banter to heartfelt submission, we explore the dynamics of power exchange, intimacy, and impact play—with plenty of laughs, real talk, and red cheeks along the way.
Whether you’re a seasoned top, a deserving bottom, or just kink-curious, join us (and our special guests) as we share stories, unpack dynamics, and keep it cheeky.
Join us with paddle in hand and aftercare close by.
Sass & Surrender Episode 24: WeMinder App: Building Better Communication with Mako
Hosts Drew and Fly sit down with Mako, a longtime advocate in the age-play and spanking communities, to trace his kinky origin story and the creation of WeMinder — a communication app designed to help partners track behaviors, tasks, mood, and reminders in consensual power-exchange relationships.The conversation covers emotional needs behind kink, high-focus vs. soft-focus dynamics, WeMinder’s features (gauges, taskbook, mood tracking, secure notes), tiers (free, plus, deluxe), privacy options, and real-life examples of using the app to reduce friction and intentionalize discipline in relationships.
11 Sept 2026
Sass & Surrender Episode 23: Mental Health & Spanking With Jojo Shenanigans
Hosts Drew and Fly welcome JoJo Shenanigans, a licensed mental health professional, to discuss how kink can feel therapeutic but is not a substitute for real therapy. They cover brain chemistry, "drop," aftercare, safe communication, boundaries, and signs when to seek professional help.JoJo emphasizes self-care, knowing your limits, bringing kink topics into therapy, and treating feelings as temporary signals rather than facts. The episode encourages listeners to get support, communicate clearly during scenes, and prioritize mental and physical well-being.
28 Aug 2026
Sass & Surrender Episode 22: Beach House Shenanigans with MynameisTrouble, MakemyMarc, & Kendra
Hosts drew_spanks and I_Fly_Awag join a lively beach-house spanking party with guests Trouble, Kendra, Marc and more. The episode shares origin stories of how participants found the scene, highlights weekend moments and inside jokes, and captures the warm, playful atmosphere of a close-knit group.
Listeners hear about creative games (Spanko Clue, Up-and-Down Spanko River, Crab Walk), discussions of consent and safety at small parties, and practical advice for newcomers: be yourself, communicate limits, build friendships, and step out of your comfort zone.
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