For anyone who is looking for an honest take on making the most out of new marriages, understanding relationship trauma, and blending families, Second Time Around is a podcast for you. Ken and Karen bring professional insight, and genuine, raw experiences to shine the spotlight on what it means to be on a second-time-around journey.
Before we ever turned on the microphones, Karen and I met Joel and Sarah by chance during a night out for dinner. What started as a simple conversation quickly revealed a story that felt perfect for Second Time Around.
In this episode, Joel and Sarah share their journey of finding love again, navigating the challenges of blending families, and building a relationship grounded in authenticity, compassion, and friendship.
Listen as they reflect on the joys, lessons, and laughter that have shaped their second-time-around story, including the adventure of bringing two households together while raising three young daughters.
And yes—you’ll definitely want to hear the story behind the pantless proposal! Their story is a beautiful reminder that love, partnership, and deep friendship can flourish in unexpected ways.
30 Nov 2025
The Work of Becoming Us
In this episode, we sit down with Francis and Karin as they open up about the real, unpolished work of starting over after divorce and blending two families. They take us through the unexpected turns, the moments that stretched them, and the decisions they had to make to protect their own well-being along the way. Karin shares the losses that reshaped her, the joy that surprised her, and how love can grow even in seasons marked by uncertainty. Their honesty offers a grounded, hopeful look at what it truly means to rebuild a life together.
29 Sept 2025
Who's fault is it?
In this episode of Second Time Around with Ken and Karen, we’re joined by a special guest, Francis, for an honest and insightful conversation about how couples can navigate disagreements without falling into the same old destructive patterns.
Together, we explore how practicing respectful communication — and learning to show up, own up, and follow up — can help transform conflict into connection. Through personal stories and real-life examples, Ken, Karen, and Francis reflect on the humility it takes to stay present and engaged, even when conversations get uncomfortable.
It’s a conversation about accountability, grace, and growth — and how love looks when we choose to listen, repair, and try again.
5 Jan 2025
Who's back do you have?
In this heartfelt episode, Ken and Karen continue the intimate and organic dialogue that defines their "Second Time Around" series.
They delve into the art of prioritizing their relationship as a stabilizing force during conflicts. Listeners will gain insights into recognizing how resentment can act as fertile ground for weeds in a relationship and learn practical ways to stay aware and conscious of each other’s needs.
Join Ken and Karen as they share relatable stories and actionable advice to help couples build stronger, more resilient connections.
19 Apr 2024
#12 Understanding Attachment in Relationships: looking back to see the way forward.
Ever wonder why you respond the way you do to your spouse or partner? Are you left shaking your head after a failed relationship because you repeat the same cycle of behaviors? If so, you’re not alone! Join Ken and Karen as they take a look at the evolving science of Attachment, sharing timely guidance and valuable insights on how to recognize patterns in our present relationships and providing guidance on navigating our future connections with greater understanding and awareness. Whether you're single, in a relationship, or somewhere in between, this episode offers practical advice in looking back to see our way forward
24 Mar 2024
Shoulder to Shoulder; It’s not all about me
Welcome back to another enlightening episode of "Ken and Karen’s Second Time Around." In today's discussion titled "Shoulder to Shoulder; It’s not all about me," Ken and Karen delve deep into the essence of mutuality within a healthy relationship. They emphasize the importance of being other-centered and encourage listeners to maintain their individuality without losing themselves in the relationship.
Tune in as they share insights on how to become students of one another, learning to anticipate each other’s wants and desires. In this episode, they explore the subtle nuances between confidence and trust, guiding partners on how to navigate the inevitable speed bumps that relationships often encounter. Whether you're a seasoned couple or just starting out, Ken and Karen offer valuable advice on fostering a strong and mutually fulfilling connection. Don't miss out on this insightful conversation!
6 Nov 2023
Deep and Wild: Becoming Your Best Self in Relationships
In this captivating episode of "Deep and Wild," Ken and Karen lead a profound exploration of the importance of understanding oneself and the significance of being a grounded individual as you dive into the depths of a relationship. They discuss several vital characteristics that define the grounded self and illustrate how these traits influence the dynamics of relationships.
Join them as they launch into a truly unscripted and raw description of what it takes to be the best version of ‘you’ for your relationship with both yourself and your partner. In this episode, you'll hear inspiring insights from guests Jason and Grace, along with Ken and Karen's own wisdom. Discover the transformative power of self-awareness and the remarkable impact it can have on your ability to build meaningful, authentic connections. Don't miss this thought-provoking conversation on the journey to becoming the best partner you can be.
1 Nov 2023
#7 It's Like an Onion: Peeling back The many Layers of Communication
In this eye-opening episode, Ken and Karen delve into the complex layers of communication, shedding light on how your personal history shapes your perception of yourself and your partner. They discuss the lasting impact of childhood development and programming, offering valuable insights for recognizing and addressing reactivity and defensiveness. Join them as they provide practical strategies to enhance your interactions and nurture stronger bonds with your intimate partner. Don't miss this deep dive into the power of self-awareness in transforming your relationships.
23 Sept 2023
What's in your toolkit?
In this episode of "Second Time Around," hosts Karen and Ken are joined by the insightful Jason to explore the intriguing world of relationships and love. They kick things off by delving into the latest statistics on infidelity, particularly on social media giant Facebook. Jason then opens up about his personal journey, sharing heartfelt experiences of navigating dating and rediscovering intimacy after a painful break-up. The trio wraps up the episode by offering a valuable toolkit for nurturing and sustaining healthy relationships. It's a candid and eye-opening conversation you won't want to miss!
9 Jul 2023
#10 Adulting Together
Join us as we explore the intricacies of navigating life with adult children in blended families. From fostering strong connections to embracing new roles, we uncover the unique challenges and triumphs of parenting in this new phase. Discover practical insights and heartfelt stories that shed light on the transformative journey of guiding your grown-up progeny. Whether you're a parent in a blended family or seeking guidance on nurturing relationships with adult family members, this episode offers valuable advice and relatable anecdotes. Get ready to embrace the joys and complexities of this remarkable stage in life.
3 Jul 2023
#8 Rediscovering Passion: Exploring Second Relationships and Sex
In this episode, join us as we dive into the exhilarating realm of second relationships and the journey of rediscovering passion. Ken and Karen take center stage as we explore the dynamics of intimacy and delve into the uncharted territory of sex in their second marriage. From reigniting desire to navigating new boundaries, we candidly discuss the challenges, triumphs, and transformative experiences they encounter along the way. Get ready to gain insights, tips, and inspiration as we shed light on the exhilarating process of exploring passion in the context of second relationships. It's time to rediscover the fire and embrace the thrilling possibilities that await in the realm of love, connection, and sexual fulfillment.
24 Jun 2023
#7 Shared Experiences
Join us in this episode as we do a deep dive into the shared experiences of Ken and Karen in their second marriage. Discover the unique insights, challenges, and triumphs they've encountered along their journey of love and commitment. From blending families to creating a harmonious home, we explore the remarkable moments that have shaped their path together. Prepare to be inspired by their stories as we uncover the power of resilience and the joy that comes from embracing second chances. Don't miss this heartfelt conversation about love, growth, and the transformative power of shared experiences in second marriages.
24 Jun 2023
#6 Unforeseen Bonds
Join Ken and Karen as they take you on their journey trough Karen's first born daughter's wedding and describe their unexpected connections.
15 May 2020
#5: Faith, Trauma, and Co-Parenting
Meet Jeremy and Erin who join Karen and Ken from Philadelphia in this episode to discuss how faith, trauma, and co-parenting shapes their #SecondTimeAround. Though their stories are quite different, each comes with it’s own unique and valuable lessons.
15 May 2020
#4: Holidays Part 2
In part 2 of the special holiday episode, Karen and Ken sit down post-holidays to debrief. They talk about managing expectations with 11 adult children, blending old traditions, and embracing the new decade in their #SecondTimeAround.
15 May 2020
#3: Holidays Part 1
In this special holiday episode, Karen and Ken discuss the tension, stress, drama, and excitement that surround the holidays when it’s your #SecondTimeAround. They talk traditions, holiday traumas, and the challenges of communicating in a blended family.
15 May 2020
#2: Ruff Realization
Meet RJ Hebner, the professional dog trainer whose philosophy is, “The way to be with dogs is the way to be in life.” In this episode you’ll learn what dogs reacting to trauma can teach us about our human experience, and how RJ applies these lessons to his #SecondTimeAround story.
TLDR; Meditation bowls, trauma, dog training, open relationships.
15 May 2020
#1: Meet Ken & Karen
Meet your hosts, Karen and Ken. Ken with 30+ years experience as a licensed clinical therapist and now relationship coach, along with his wife Karen, a relationship coach and survivor of a nearly 30 year abusive marriage, take listeners on a journey through their #SecondTimeAround story!
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