Sexy Nerd

About Sexy Nerd

🎙️ Discover The Sexy Nerd Podcast! 🎙️ Join Timothy Baxter, MS, LCPC, LCT-C, CST, a Cross Border Sex Therapist from New Brunswick, Canada, as he explores the fascinating intersection of sex therapy and nerd culture. In each episode, Timothy engages in candid discussions about sexual health, relationships, and the unique ways that nerd culture influences our understanding of intimacy. Whether you're a fan of comic books, video games, or just curious about enhancing your personal relationships, this podcast offers valuable insights, expert advice, and a welcoming environment for all listeners. Subscribe now to expand your knowledge and join an engaging community that celebrates both sexuality and nerdiness! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy (https://acast.com/privacy) for more information.

Publisher

Timothy Baxter

Category

health & fitness · health & fitness · society & culture

Language

en

Explicit

No

First episode

22 May 2024

Latest episode

30 Dec 2025

Latest episodes

18 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   30 Dec 2025

   Sensual Reclamation

   Today, I get to sit down with someone whose brain I’ve wanted to borrow for a long time. My guest is Victoria Hudson, the founder and clinical powerhouse behind Restorative Resilience Counseling. She’s one of those rare therapists who has lived on the front lines of justice work, spending nearly fifteen years advocating for survivors of sexual exploitation and trafficking before bringing that fire and depth into clinical practice. Victoria has built a therapeutic space that’s honest, curious, trauma-informed, sex-positive, and radically welcoming. What’s especially exciting is that she’s now intentionally expanding beyond a traditional private practice model, growing Restorative Resilience into a broader wellness community that treats the wellbeing of clinicians as just as essential as the care we provide to clients. Her vision is slow, thoughtful, and deeply strategic, investing in clinicians at every stage of their professional journey and celebrating the real, hard-won progress toward more accessible and humanizing care becoming the norm rather than the exception. She works with people who’ve spent years being dismissed or misunderstood, whether that’s because they’re neurodivergent, chronically ill, recovering from abuse, or trying to reclaim their identity after a lifetime of being told who they’re supposed to be. She’s the clinician people seek out when they’re ready to challenge old narratives, explore consent and autonomy in real ways, and finally put themselves back at the center of their own life. Victoria describes therapy as a ‘creative exploration of possibilities,’ which is exactly the kind of phrase that tells you she’s both brilliant and grounded. Her work lives at the intersection of trauma, chronic illness, identity, sexuality, empowerment, and clinician sustainability, and she approaches all of it with a clarity and compassion that makes complicated things feel human again. So today, we’re diving into all of it: consent as a lived experience, the overlaps between trauma and neurodivergence, why so many clients with dysautonomia end up running self-advocacy marathons, what empowerment actually looks like in daily practice, how clinicians survive systems that were never built for them, and how healing becomes possible when someone finally has permission to speak their truth. This is going to be smart, tender, nerdy, a little rebellious, and genuinely transformative. This is The Sexy Nerd Podcast, and I am thrilled to welcome the incredible Victoria Hudson.” Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy (https://acast.com/privacy) for more information.

2. 

   15 Aug 2025

   Nerding Out about Sex Work and History with Kaytlin Bailey

   Kaytlin Bailey is a sex worker rights advocate, comedian, and writer, best known as the Founder and Executive Director of Old Pros, a nonprofit media organization dedicated to reshaping society’s understanding of sex work. She is the creator and host of The Oldest Profession Podcast, where each episode spotlights a historical “old pro”—her term for exploring the lives and legacies of sex workers across time. Her acclaimed one-woman shows include The Oldest Profession, a sweeping 10,000-year tour of history from a sex worker’s perspective, and Cuntagious, which she debuted in 2015. Before launching Old Pros, Kaytlin served as the founding Director of Communications for Decriminalize Sex Work, an advocacy organization deeply shaped by her own experiences navigating the fallout from SESTA/FOSTA. Her work has been featured in major outlets, and she has spoken at universities including Yale Law School, the University of Pennsylvania, and UCLA. I had the privilege of discussing history, decriminalization, and the beautiful sex worker community with Kaitlyn. It was amazing. Here are her links Website- https://oldprosonline.org Podcast(Spotify) https://open.spotify.com/show/2QbyAjZ7aNJFSgL0R8sa2y?si=5d24ddaf527b4ae8 Podcast (Apple) https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-oldest-profession-podcast/id1296601569 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy (https://acast.com/privacy) for more information.

3. 

   4 Aug 2025

   Theatre of Dice: Inclusive D&D

   The Sexy Nerd Podcast is a Champion of sex, inclusion, psychotherapy, and just plain nerdiness. I got the chance to sit down with Ambrosia Ross. She is one of the founders of Theatre of Dice, an online D&D business that operates an inclusive gaming outlet. We discuss gaming in an inclusive space. This is very important in the Nerd Community. Check out our talk. Below are the links for Theatre of Dice if you are Interested Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheaterOfDice Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theaterofdice Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/TheaterofDice Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theaterofdice Threads: https://www.threads.com/@theaterofdice Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/theaterofdice Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy (https://acast.com/privacy) for more information.

4. 

   22 Jun 2025

   Core Desires and the Body w/ Jule

   Sexologist and Intimacy Coach Jule speaks about core desires and the body, guiding listeners to release toxic shame and embrace pleasure in all aspects of life in this interview.

5. 

   31 May 2025

   Deconstructing and Reframing Sexual Narratives Using the Community

   Sex therapist Tim Baxter interviews Jamie Azar, a sex and relationship coach, about deconstructing harmful sexual narratives and reframing beliefs to foster empowerment and embrace authentic self-concepts.

6. 

   6 May 2025

   Mama Comess First

   In this week's episode, I had the privilege of speaking about motherhood, menopause, and sexuality with Dawn Moore. Dawn Moore is the founder of Mama Comes First, a pioneering sexual wellness platform for mothers of all stages, backgrounds, and identities. She is also a triple board-certified Advanced Nurse Practitioner (specializing in Mental Health & Women’s Health), Sex Educator, Midwife, and Mom of 4 (ages 5-18). Through education, community, and bold advocacy, Dawn is on a mission to help mothers break free from the patriarchal capitalist norms that keep them exhausted, isolated, and ‘in line’. She believes that sexual liberation for mothers is an integral part of our world’s collective liberation, because when empowered mothers come together, systems of oppression come apart. When Dawn isn’t revolutionizing motherhood, you might find her tending to her plants, redecorating her home and camper, or bopping away at a music festival. She also runs a small photography business, and used to be a circus and aerial artist. She loves sunrises and sunsets, salads that she doesn’t have to make, cold brew, chocolate, and orgasms. Rainbow and sparkles are her favorite colors. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy (https://acast.com/privacy) for more information.

7. 

   20 Nov 2024

   Sexuality in Anime: Breaking Down Misoggynistic and Other Harmful Tropes

   Industry expert, anime critic, and podcaster, [Name], breaks down misogynistic and other harmful tropes in anime, revealing the surprising impact on our perceptions of romance and desire.

8. 

   19 Nov 2024

   Exploring Consent with Role-Playing Games: A Guide to Healthy Interaction

   Role-playing games (RPGs) have become a popular medium for storytelling, creativity, and social interaction. They provide players with the opportunity to assume different characters, navigate complex narratives, and engage with others in imaginative scenarios. However, as with any form of interaction, especially those involving complex emotional and social dynamics, the topic of consent becomes crucial. This episode explores how RPGs can serve as a valuable tool for exploring and understanding consent in various contexts, including sexual relationships and personal boundaries. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy (https://acast.com/privacy) for more information.

9. 

   29 Oct 2024

   Why Trump is a Dangerous Pick for President, Through the eyes of a Sex Therapist

   Trump has issues with Impulsivity, Lack of Accountability, and Polarizing Communication, we all know that. Here are some things that as a Sex Therapist I see him having Issues with. He clearly Objectifies Women, He has questionable attitudes towards consent, He has been unfaithful to every wife, and he is toxically masculine Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy (https://acast.com/privacy) for more information.

10. 

    20 Sept 2024

    Sexy Nerd Podcast: Cuddles with Keeley

    On this episode, I sit down with Cuddle Therapist, CEO of The Cuddlist Training Program, and Boundary/Consent Educator Keeley Shoup. We talk about the importance of touch and the science of how cuddling improves well-being. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy (https://acast.com/privacy) for more information.

11. 

    1 Sept 2024

    Parents Can Teach Sex Ed. Let's Help Them

    I sat down to speak with Ms. Ashley Robertson about how Parents can teach their children age-appropriate sex ed and if not how they can reach out to Ms. Ashley Robertson. Ms. Ashley Robertson is a freelance sexuality educator with over a decade in the kink and non-monogamy communities. As a professional educator and event host, she curates interactive experiences and asks careful questions inviting introspection and curiosity with a highly engaging facilitation style. Her work with individuals, groups, organizations, and schools exemplifies that constructivist, collaborative learning can be truly transformative. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy (https://acast.com/privacy) for more information.

12. 

    7 Aug 2024

    Empowering Change: The Crucial Role of Sexual Health Professionals in Political Advocacy for Marginalized Populations"

    Sexual health professionals play a crucial role in advocating for the rights and well-being of their clients, and being informed and active in political issues is essential to ensuring that they can effectively advocate for their clients. Political decisions, such as funding for sexual health services, access to contraception and abortion, and LGBTQ+ rights, directly impact the health and safety of individuals seeking sexual health services. By staying informed about these issues and actively engaging in advocacy efforts, sexual health professionals can help shape policies that promote the health and rights of their clients. In addition, sexual health professionals have a unique perspective and expertise that can inform and influence policy decisions related to sexual health. They are on the front lines of providing care and support to individuals navigating complex and often stigmatized issues related to sexuality and reproductive health. By sharing their knowledge and experiences with policymakers, sexual health professionals can help ensure that policies are evidence-based, inclusive, and responsive to the needs of their clients. Their input can also help policymakers better understand the real-world impact of their decisions on individuals and communities. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy (https://acast.com/privacy) for more information.

13. 

    28 Jul 2024

    Holistic Scentuality with Jenn "Mythique" Allen

    Jenn “Mythique” Allen is a licensed mental health therapist practicing in both New Mexico and Pennsylvania, boasting over three decades of additional professional training in the holistic arts including yoga, herbalism, and botanical perfuming. Within her thriving private practice, she specializes in sexuality, with a particular emphasis on Kink and Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM). With a rich background teaching at conferences and within university settings spanning more than twenty years, she is enthusiastic about integrating her extensive lifetime expertise in her presentations. Through her offerings, she seeks to provide distinctive and stimulating avenues for exploring sexuality, utilizing a profound somatosensory perspective. She is currently working on a book that explores the role of scent in sexual play and is producing a line of aromatic products to support and enhance this approach through her perfume company Mythique Aromatics. We get down and dirty with Jenn about using Aromatics in both Trauma and Sex Therapy Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy (https://acast.com/privacy) for more information.

14. 

    17 Jun 2024

    D&D is the therapuetic practice

    Tim talks about using D&D in sex therapy or relationship therapy Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy (https://acast.com/privacy) for more information.

15. 

    16 Jun 2024

    Sex Toys and the Increased Pleasure for Relationships

    On this week's episode, Tim and his wife talk about. sex toys and how they can increase a relationship's pleasure Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy (https://acast.com/privacy) for more information.

16. 

    6 Jun 2024

    The Sex Coach Journey w/ Coach Sybil

    Tim sets down with Chasing 3waysss Founder and Sex Coach Sybil Botello to discuss her journey to becoming a Sex Coach Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy (https://acast.com/privacy) for more information.

17. 

    26 May 2024

    Redfining Masculinity: Why Toxic Masculinity is Harmful

    Welcome to the Sexy Nerd Sex Therapy podcast, where we dive deep into all things related to sex, relationships, and personal growth. I'm your host, Tim Baxter, and in today's episode, we're going to be exploring the topic of redefining masculinity and the importance of men who care. The alpha male mentality is nothing but a disgusting display of toxic masculinity and arrogance. These individuals believe they are superior to others simply because of their gender or perceived dominance. They use intimidation, aggression, and manipulation to assert their dominance over others, showing a complete lack of respect for anyone who does not fit into their narrow definition of strength and power. This mentality perpetuates harmful stereotypes and reinforces harmful gender norms, creating a hostile and oppressive environment for those who do not conform to their standards. It is a repugnant and damaging mindset that has no place in a modern, progressive society. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy (https://acast.com/privacy) for more information.

18. 

    22 May 2024

    The Clitoral Complex

    Welcome to Sexy Nerd, the podcast where we make sex therapy as epic as a lightsaber battle in a galaxy far, far away. I'm your host, Timothy Baxter, here to guide you through the mysterious and powerful force known as the clitoral complex. Picture it like the Death Star, a small but mighty weapon that can bring pleasure and satisfaction to a galaxy of sensations. So, grab your blaster and your Wookie companion, because we're about to explore the clitoral complex in terms that even Yoda would approve of. May the force be with you, and may your orgasms be as explosive as a supernova! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy (https://acast.com/privacy) for more information.

Podcast Authority Score: 6 / 100

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