You had a plan. Life had other ideas.
Not What I Planned is what happens next — the pivot you didn't see coming, the version of you that fell apart, the one that showed up instead. Sometimes the detour wrecks you before it hands you something better than anything you could've imagined. Either way, nobody warns you that becoming yourself would feel like this. Messy, uncertain & wilding uncomfortable.
This is a show about taking the next step before you have all the answers — because waiting for clarity is just another way of staying stuck. If your life looks nothing like the one you planned, good. You're exactly who this show is for. Join Lamisha on her own journey of finding out what happens when things don't go as planned.
Too often we think that the "breakthrough" moment we're waiting for comes in these big, elaborate moments that we can almost predict and when we don't see the signs leading to the breakthrough, we must not be close. Or we think it's going to take a really long time to get to the breakthrough based on where we think we are in the moment. But what if our breakthrough happens on a random Tuesday and we don't even know we're in it because it's such a normal life moment? Tune in to hear Lamisha riff on these seemingly normal breakthrough moments and what it means for you when things don't go as planned.
f this episode resonated, follow the show so you don't miss what's next — and if you know someone in their own detour right now, send this one their way.
📩 Got a story, question, or topic you want me to cover? Send it my way: lamisha@lamishaserfwalls.com (https:// lamisha@lamishaserfwalls.com)
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📸 Say hi on socials: @LamishaSerfWalls Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/lifeoncedreamt), Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/lamishaserfwalls/)
💼 Career pivot? Life detour? Divorce? --> I help people find their footing. Book your free consultation here. (https://lifeoncedreamt.as.me/consultation)
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8 Oct 2026
Ep. 4 Not Supposed To Know
In today's episode, Lamisha shares the thought..."What if were not supposed to know?" What if? What if that's the whole point of our evolution, expansion and forward momentum. It seems we're all stepping into a new world individually and collectively and what if for it to actually be "new" we can't know what to expect or how it will unfold. What if our job is simply to "be" in the unknowing as it all unfolds? What if? Listen in to hear how Lamisha dives into the unknown and makes peace with the unknown.
f this episode resonated, follow the show so you don't miss what's next — and if you know someone in their own detour right now, send this one their way.
📩 Got a story, question, or topic you want me to cover? Send it my way: lamisha@lamishaserfwalls.com (https:// lamisha@lamishaserfwalls.com)
⭐ New here? A quick rating on Apple/Spotify helps more than you'd think.
📸 Say hi on socials: @LamishaSerfWalls Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/lifeoncedreamt), Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/lamishaserfwalls/)
💼 Career pivot? Life detour? Divorce? --> I help people find their footing. Book your free consultation here. (https://lifeoncedreamt.as.me/consultation)
☕ Want to support the show directly? Buy me a coffee: paypal.me/lamishaserfwalls (https:// paypal.me/lamishaserfwalls)
Check out the website: https://www.lamishaserfwalls.com/ (https://www.lamishaserfwalls.com/)
Join the VIP list for bonus content (https://lamishaserfwalls.us7.list-manage.com/subscribe?u=516515b3976cf3682e2b662ea&id=fce9df06cd).
1 Oct 2026
Ep. 3 When 'control' is the plan -
When things fall apart, what if it's not about the plan at all? What if it's about hanging on a little too tightly to the outcome? In this episode, Lamisha unpacks her recent aha moment about what's really been causing stress around, well everything over the last 18 months and it has absolutely nothing to do with the 'plan'. Tune in to get the full scoop & hear how she's turning this aha moment into a permission slip to living life differently.
f this episode resonated, follow the show so you don't miss what's next — and if you know someone in their own detour right now, send this one their way.
📩 Got a story, question, or topic you want me to cover? Send it my way: lamisha@lamishaserfwalls.com (https:// lamisha@lamishaserfwalls.com)
⭐ New here? A quick rating on Apple/Spotify helps more than you'd think.
📸 Say hi on socials: @LamishaSerfWalls Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/lifeoncedreamt), Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/lamishaserfwalls/)
💼 Career pivot? Life detour? Divorce? --> I help people find their footing. Book your free consultation here. (https://lifeoncedreamt.as.me/consultation)
☕ Want to support the show directly? Buy me a coffee: paypal.me/lamishaserfwalls (https:// paypal.me/lamishaserfwalls)
Check out the website: https://www.lamishaserfwalls.com/ (https://www.lamishaserfwalls.com/)
Join the VIP list for bonus content (https://lamishaserfwalls.us7.list-manage.com/subscribe?u=516515b3976cf3682e2b662ea&id=fce9df06cd).
Reach and audience
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YouTube views
33,853
Score snapshot 15 Sept 2025
Apple Podcasts (US)
5.0 / 5
3 ratings
Spotify
5.0 / 5
2 ratings
Podcast Authority Score: 64 / 100
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Quality
84
Social presence
0
YouTube
76
Engagement
32
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