She Said, She Said. Two voices, one unapologetically honest friendship. Think of it as tuning into our group chat. Expect plenty of laughs, real talk, and zero filters. Along the way, we’ll share the behind-the-scenes of life in France... the good, the weird, and the très unexpected.
Some books come into your life at exactly the right moment. They speak to you in a way no one else can, pushing the right buttons, or resonating so deeply that they make you rethink your relationships and the world around you.
In this episode, we talk about the books that changed our lives - or at least left a lasting mark.
Tune in to find out more.
(Bonus: you’ll also hear a story that might just get Ali extradited from France.)
26 Mar 2026
She Builds, She Fights, She Inspires! Why We Admire These Women
From motherhood and activism to resilience and empowerment, this episode offers deep insights into the women who inspire us and the stories that shape our perspectives.
women inspiring women, motherhood, activism, resilience, social issues, book recommendations, personal stories, empowerment, mental health, social justice
13 Mar 2026
France Is Writing to 29-Year-Olds About Babies… We Have Thoughts
This week Ali and Em are chatting about the French government’s plan to send letters to everyone turning 29 about fertility and family planning.
The idea is to tackle France’s falling birth rate and remind people that biology doesn’t wait forever, but is it helpful information?
As two mums with plenty of thoughts, Ali and Em get into the reality of having kids, the pressure around timing, and whether 29 is actually the age anyone should be thinking about babies.
26 Feb 2026
Why French Men Think You’re in a Relationship After Two Dates - Romantic Relationships
Em and Ali break down modern dating and relationships - from situationships and dating apps to unspoken expectations and why defining a relationship feels harder than ever.
Using dating in France as a jumping-off point - including why French men often assume you’re in a relationship after just a couple of dates - they explore the rise of the single man and argue it’s not really about men at all.
11 Feb 2026
France, Really? What No One Tells You (about the French)
Did you know French employees have a legal “right to disconnect,” meaning they can ignore work calls or emails after hours without fear of punishment? From constant complaining to unexpected supernatural beliefs, this episode looks at the lesser-known sides of French culture and what life among the Frenchies is really like.
11 Dec 2025
When Cultures Meet… Under the Christmas Tree
Calm and cozy or loud and messy? What does our perfect Christmas look like? In this final episode of the year, we dive into our very own festive traditions - a wonderfully chaotic mix of the cultures that surround us here in France (spoiler! it does not include silent nights...).
Join us for an intimate, funny, and slightly nostalgic chat about childhood memories, family rituals, Christmas dinners (yes, we talk quite a bit about food), and the little things - pets included - that make the holidays feel like home.
Tune in for a cozy conversation wrapped in twinkly lights, good vibes, and a very international Christmas spirit.
27 Nov 2025
Things That Terrify Us: Death, Darkness & Protecting the People We Love
Join Ali and Em as they dive into their fears - from the terror of the “nothingness after death” to the creepy, pitch-black French countryside. They unpack the universal fear of losing the people we love, the anxiety that hits at 3 a.m., and why we all secretly worry about the worst. If you like cosy, funny and slightly spooky conversations, this is your new comfort podcast.
20 Nov 2025
Country Roads… Our New Home!
City life or countryside living? In this episode, Em and Ali explore their experiences in moving from Lyon to the suburbs/the countryside in France. They share personal stories about parenting, community ties, cultural surprises, and navigating French bureaucracy. They also take a closer look at rural traditions, local social life, and what it really takes to adjust to France’s unique educational landscape.
13 Nov 2025
The Hormone Chronicles: Mood Swings & Mic Drops
In this episode of She Said She Said, Ali and Emma dive into the wild, wonderful world of hormones - from syncing your life with your cycle to understanding the not-so-glamorous effects of stress (thanks, cortisol). They also explore how testosterone plays into the conversation for men and relationships, but also women... It’s an honest, funny, and surprisingly empowering chat about how our bodies (and moods) are constantly shifting, and how to work with those changes instead of against them.
6 Nov 2025
Parlez-vous Toddler? The Joys of Raising Bilingual Kids
It’s brains, bonding, and bilingual chaos... Ali and Emma dive into the science, stories, and small victories of raising multilingual kids: From funny mix-ups to proud moments that make it all worth it. Expect laughs, myth-busting, and a little ooh là là from their recent Paris adventure.
16 Oct 2025
French Detours (The Travel Episode)
Tired of the French Riviera and already done with the Dordogne? In this episode, we share our favorite under-the-radar spots in France, we'll tell you where to eat like a local, when to go to skip the crowds, and how to experience the real charm of French life.
9 Oct 2025
Me, Myself and My Feed
Join Emma and Ali as they unpack their love-hate relationship with social media: Its impact on parenting, mindset, and the way we connect online.
2 Oct 2025
Random Life Hacks That (Kinda) Work
Not all life hacks are created equal: In this episode Em and Ali test-drive tips for health, productivity, parenting/relationships, and cooking. A conversation sprinkled with honest fails, small wins, and plenty of laughs.
25 Sept 2025
Living la Vie Française
In this episode, Ali and Emma share their top reflections on life in France: family moments, cultural quirks, food, wine, and of course, a dash of French bureaucracy. Honest, lighthearted, and full of expat insights, it’s a snapshot of the joys and challenges of living abroad.
18 Sept 2025
Effortless and Braless (The Fashion Episode)
From Birkenstocks to crop tops, French “effortless” chic to British bold lipstick, Em and Ali dive into style, fashion, and the little rules they break (or ignore). Not advice (just one!), just two friends swapping stories, compliments, and a sausage metaphor.
10 Sept 2025
The Balancing Act
In this episode of She Said She Said, Ali and Emma open up about what it’s really like to navigate life in France as foreign women. From juggling work and family to finding time for self-care, they share honest stories about the ups and downs of balance—and what happens when that balance slips. With plenty of laughs, cultural insights, and practical takeaways, the conversation highlights the role of community, perspective, and a little self-kindness in making it all work.
3 Sept 2025
Through Sickness, Health… and Group Chats
In this episode of 'She Said She Said', hosts Ali and Emma explore the nuances of female friendship, particularly as foreign women living in France. They discuss the importance of maintaining friendships, the challenges of making new friends in a different culture, and the milestones that strengthen their bond. The conversation touches on personal experiences, the impact of socializing on well-being, and reflections on growing up and navigating life changes. With humor and honesty, they share insights on the significance of friendship in their lives and aspirations for the future.
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