52. Cheaters, Cheating, & Being Cheated On (Story Time)
Grab a snack for this tea.
Chaos seems to favor Miss Solita -- the other day, something happened to me that was so mind-boggling and absurd, it reminded me of the most difficult time in my life. Spoiler alert: men ain't shit! Or are they...?
Intro Music: Think About You - Ryan Little https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=etWlaI-b744&list=RDetWlaI-b744&start_radio=1
IG: https://www.instagram.com/_kathietorres/
Substack: https://malcreada.substack.com/
15 Jul 2025
51. The Paradox of Time, Choice, & Possibilities
Fun fact: I wrote this episode a whole ass year ago only to end up never recording it, falling victim to the very topic I wanted to discuss.
Having an abundance of something can feel comfortable -- but it can also mean appreciating less of what we have. I came to the realization that having an overwhelming amount of time, choice, and possibilities meant that, more often than not, I didn't use these resources to their fullest extent. It even felt like the more that was available to me often equated to not having enough.
Intro Music: Think About You - Ryan Little https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=etWlaI-b744&list=RDetWlaI-b744&start_radio=1
IG: https://www.instagram.com/_kathietorres/
Substack: https://malcreada.substack.com/
8 Apr 2025
50. Therapy is Actually Really Hard
If you told little me 50 episodes ago that I would finally be in long-term therapy, she would start levitating. Perhaps she would even start to double dutch like Corbin Bleu in Jump In! (2007).
But half a year into therapy, I've realized that the road to healing trauma is way harder than I initially thought. It's not some magic potion that will solve all of my problems overnight (although antidepressants don't sound bad to me). It's a slow, drawn-out process that has caused me to confront a lot of uncomfortable emotions and sit in them for a while.
So let's talk all about therapy!
Feel free to reach out to me:
IG: www.instagram.com/_kathietorres
Twitter: https://x.com/y2kathie
Substack: https://malcreada.substack.com/
Intro Music: Think About You - Ryan Little
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=etWlaI-b744
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