In this episode of Speaking of Spade, I’m diving into the lived experience of being the eldest daughter — the responsibilities we carry, the roles we’re assigned, and the woman we become along the way. This conversation is about growth, pressure, wisdom, and the lessons learned through navigating expectation, leadership, and self-discovery.If you are (or were raised by) an eldest daughter, this episode will resonate deeply. We unpack identity, emotional labor, resilience, and the quiet strength so many eldest daughters develop early in life — especially within Black families and communities.This episode is for women learning to honor who they’ve been while stepping into who they’re becoming
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24 Aug 2026
Fu*k That Sisterhood
In this episode, we break down the illusion of sisterhood through the lens of a Spade. Every table looks friendly until the cards are dealt. Not everyone sitting with you is your partner, and not every move is meant to be played out loud.We talk about how women are often divided—not as punishment, but as strategy. Some separations are necessary to sharpen discernment, strengthen spiritual intelligence, and teach you when to hold your cards close versus when to trust your partner.This conversation is about:• False alliances vs real alignment• Spiritual initiation through isolation• Knowing when to cut, when to bid, and when to walk away from the table
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24 Aug 2026
The Assumption is Wrong
On today’s episode of Speaking of Spade, we break down why leaving people in the “Assumption Era” is a powerful form of self-protection and personal growth. We talk boundaries, emotional maturity, spiritual alignment, and how silence can become a tool for clarity instead of conflict.This episode also dives into the meaning of Year 9 energy—the completion cycle. It’s the year to end relationships, habits, and patterns that no longer serve you, stop performing for the world, and step into a more aligned version of yourself.If you’re ready for transformation, honest conversations, and real accountability, this episode is for you.
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