A podcast for men who want to lead powerfully in their relationships and their lives.
Jordan Candlish explores masculine leadership, emotional maturity, polarity, and the subconscious patterns that quietly sabotage connection.
Real conversations. Practical insights. No performative masculinity. Just the work that actually changes relationships.
SSP205: Should you wait until marriage before having s*x?
Is having sex before marriage a sin?
It’s a question that comes with a lot of different beliefs, expectations and interpretations — especially when faith and relationships are involved.
In this episode, I share my personal perspective on sex before marriage, my relationship with God, and what I’ve learned from 11 years with Amanda.
We dive into why I believe the deeper message behind spiritual teachings on sex may be less about rules and more about intention, commitment, consciousness and the kind of relationship you’re building.
If you’ve ever wrestled with where sex, love, marriage and your relationship with God fit together, this is an episode you won’t want to miss.
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ABOUT ME
As a coach with over a decade of experience, I am committed to helping men unleash their full potential and live fulfilling lives. On my Podcast channel, I interview world-class leaders and experts and share with you the strategies and rituals you need to go to the next level.
4 Oct 2026
SSP204: How to be the man she can’t keep her hands off
Do you ever wonder why the sexual attraction in your relationship has started to fade?
You love your partner, but maybe the spark, desire and intimacy just aren’t what they used to be.
In this episode, I break down what I’ve learned from 11 years with Amanda about keeping attraction alive in a long-term relationship — and the patterns that can quietly kill that polarity.
I’ll share the framework I use with the men I coach to bring more aliveness, confidence, purpose and masculine energy back into their lives — and ultimately, back into their relationships.
If you want to reignite the attraction and become the man your partner naturally desires, this is an episode you won’t want to miss.
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Want personalized 1-1 coaching from me to unlock more presence, peace, and joy in your life? Apply for a clarity call to see if we're a good fit to work together by clicking here (https://form.typeform.com/to/Bhmchn2R?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAabaKxEsaRK-E6t5BYpsdLyBNUHmROV8clzCX-AZ0jj_7uCXdSjA_UUILOs_aem_AVh4VS3rvD9zeXrB6D94_TCCpKauSdqmtHNQ8FQix4XKjOeCnJdQxgw_2mOKSHpngM-KEuX0_O3ZrWgmzBsll6LG&typeform-source=l.instagram.com)
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ABOUT ME
As a coach with over a decade of experience, I am committed to helping men unleash their full potential and live fulfilling lives. On my Podcast channel, I interview world-class leaders and experts and share with you the strategies and rituals you need to go to the next level.
3 Oct 2026
SSP203: 5 Reasons Your Partner Feels Like a Roommate, Not a Lover
Have you ever felt like you and your partner have slowly become more like roommates than lovers?
You still love each other, but somewhere along the way, the fun, sexual tension and desire just aren’t what they used to be.
In this episode, I break down what I’ve learned from 11 years with Amanda about keeping attraction alive in a long-term relationship — and the patterns that can quietly kill the spark without you even realizing it.
We talk about independence, dating your partner, purpose, friendship, and the roles we expect our partners to play.
If you want to bring more passion, play and sexual desire back into your relationship, this is an episode you won’t want to miss.
WORK WITH ME🌎
Want personalized 1-1 coaching from me to unlock more presence, peace, and joy in your life? Apply for a clarity call to see if we're a good fit to work together by clicking here (https://form.typeform.com/to/Bhmchn2R?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAabaKxEsaRK-E6t5BYpsdLyBNUHmROV8clzCX-AZ0jj_7uCXdSjA_UUILOs_aem_AVh4VS3rvD9zeXrB6D94_TCCpKauSdqmtHNQ8FQix4XKjOeCnJdQxgw_2mOKSHpngM-KEuX0_O3ZrWgmzBsll6LG&typeform-source=l.instagram.com)
Join the Relationship SKool: 👉🏼 https://www.skool.com/relationshipskool/about
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📸 Instagram: @Jordancandlish01 (https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/dashboard/episode/e2me8af/instagram.com/jordancandlish01)
🐦 Twitter: JordanCandlish (https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/dashboard/episode/e2me8af/twitter.com/JordanCandlish)
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🤳🏽 Telegram: https://t.me/+9seMDl336tQ0MTY1 (https://t.me/+9seMDl336tQ0MTY1)
ABOUT ME
As a coach with over a decade of experience, I am committed to helping men unleash their full potential and live fulfilling lives. On my Podcast channel, I interview world-class leaders and experts and share with you the strategies and rituals you need to go to the next level.
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9 ratings
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38 ratings
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Engagement
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