Welcome to Complete Surrender, a podcast where I, Dreya Kayè, share my journey of life, love, and faith.
Prior to November 2025, the episodes delve into my personal story, from heartbreak and navigating childhood traumas to the life lessons learned along the way. These initial recordings represent a chapter of my life before I made the conscious decision to fully surrender to Jesus Christ.
Moving forward, Complete Surrender takes on a new, Christ-focused direction. Join me as I openly share the joys, challenges, and profound changes that come with absolute surrender to my Lord. The goal of this community is to sharpen iron and strengthen steel among God’s family as we eagerly await the return of our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. Let's walk this path of faith together.
Healing isn’t linear nor is forgiveness. It’s our ego that must die in order to forgive and that is no easy task. This episode I give it to you raw and uncut. I’m holding onto to unforgiving people whom harmed me and my kids. Can I ever forgive them?
27 Nov 2025
Not Too Much- Healing After Betrayal
When betrayal breaks your heart, the flesh says “reach out,” but the Spirit says “surrender.” This episode walks you through the real tension of letting go of someone who hurt you, choosing God’s covering over old patterns, and staying rooted in Scripture so the enemy’s schemes don’t find easy access. You are not disqualified. You are covered. And Jesus does not play about you.
What you’ll hear:
• How to release someone who betrayed you without denying your pain
• Why we can’t serve two masters: choosing Spirit over flesh
• Practical steps: boundaries, confession, and daily time in the Word
• Honest encouragement for days when the urge to reach out is loud
• The reminder: “I never left.” God’s presence is your protection
Key Scriptures:
• Matthew 6:24 : “No one can serve two masters…”
• Psalm 91:1-2 : Dwelling in the shelter, resting in His shadow
• Proverbs 4:23 : Guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it
• Romans 12:2 : Be transformed by the renewing of your mind
• James 1:22 : Be doers of the Word, not hearers only
• Philippians 4:6-7 : Prayer and peace that guards your heart and mind
• 1 Peter 5:8-10 : Be alert; God restores and strengthens
• Isaiah 41:10 : “Do not fear… I will uphold you”
• Psalm 34:18 : The Lord is close to the brokenhearted
• John 10:27-28 : His sheep hear His voice; He holds you secure
Call to action: If this resonates, share it with someone healing from betrayal. Commit to 10–15 minutes in the Word daily this week hear it, do it, and rest under His covering. You’re not alone. You’re protected. And God’s “not too much” still speaks over every storm.
25 Nov 2025
What really happened?!
In this episode of Complete Surrender by Dreya Kayè, I share the final ending of my relationship and marriage; the moment I stopped praying for a man to become someone he never desired to be and started praying for my own heart to be set free. I once believed that if I never ceased in prayer, I could help him grow into a man after God’s own heart.
But I had to face a hard truth: he does not have a desire to serve God. And when a man has no desire to serve the Lord, even a wife’s fervent prayers for his transformation will simply fall. Prayer is powerful, but it does not override someone’s will. If you pray for a man who already desires God; your prayers will be heard and felt in communion with that longing, partnering with what the Holy Spirit is already doing. If he does not, those prayers become a weight you carry alone.
So today, my prayers belong to the Lord Jesus Christ for me: for the supernatural strength to release him, for healing, and for complete surrender. I’m not recounting the whole six-year journey; I’m speaking to the final letting go, the decision to stop contending for what God is asking me to lay down, and to trust that obedience is my pathway to peace.
Scriptures that anchor me in this ending:
- Proverbs 3:5–6 : “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; He will make your paths straight.
- Psalm 34:18 : “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those crushed in spirit.
- Isaiah 43:18–19 : “Forget the former things… See, I am doing a new thing!”
- Matthew 11:28–30 : “Jesus invites the weary and burdened to find rest in Him. “
- 1 Peter 5:7 : “I cast all my cares on Him, because He cares for me. “
- Philippians 4:6–7 : “In prayer and thanksgiving, His peace guards my heart and mind.”
- Romans 12:2 : “I’m allowing God to renew my mind and transform my life.”
- Amos 3:3 : “Can two walk together unless they are agreed?” A reminder that alignment with God matters in covenant.
- 2 Corinthians 6:14 “A sober call to be yoked with those who share faith and desire for God.”
If you’ve been praying for change in a man who does not desire to serve God, I hope my story gives you clarity and courage. This is my testimony of release and choosing to honor God’s leading over my longing, and finding freedom in surrender. One ending, one act of obedience, one prayer at a time.
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