Success Starts With Self-Love

About Success Starts With Self-Love

I am here to bring more laughter, joy, fun, and possibility into the world. I am the spark that reminds people that life is meant to be lived—not just endured. My purpose is to help others laugh more, dream bigger, take action, and experience the freedom of being fully themselves. I bring the spark that helps people remember who they are and what is possible.

Publisher

Lourdes Ivette Rojas

Category

education

Language

en

Explicit

No

First episode

13 Apr 2023

Latest episode

11 Aug 2026

Latest episodes

31 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   11 Aug 2026

   How to Follow Your Intuition with Christine Marcario

   In this episode of Fulfill After 40, host Lourdes Ivette Rojas talks with Christine Marcario—former middle school teacher, intuitive teacher, manifestation mentor, and host of the Align and Abundant podcast. Christine shares how she followed the traditional path in education for 14 years, earned her master’s and principal certification, and still found herself burnt out, bored, and stuck in school politics. When she was unexpectedly let go on her birthday, it became the universe’s not-so-subtle push to finally leave a life that no longer fit. Lourdes and Christine dive into what it really looks like to pivot after 40 as a mom, when you’re weighing your kids’ needs, your own happiness, and the pressure to keep the “good, stable job.” They talk about choosing presence over prestige and redefining success as alignment with your soul rather than just your résumé. They went deep into the gift of intuition and spirituality! If you’ve ever stayed in a job “because it pays the bills” while your spirit slowly fades, this conversation will remind you that you’re not too old, it’s not too late, and you’re allowed to start over. Find Christine here https://www.instagram.com/the.christine.marcario/ https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/aligned-abundant-align-your-soul-manifest-your-dreams/id1813664482 You can work with me here https://lourdesivette.com/workwithme

2. 

   3 Aug 2026

   What Alignment Really Means (and How to Actually Get There)

   What if “getting into alignment” wasn’t just a vague self‑help phrase, but a clear, practical process you could follow every day? In this short and powerful episode of Fulfill After 40, Lourdes breaks down what alignment really means and how to finally get your mind (ego), heart (soul), and body (nervous system) on the same page—so you can stop stalling on your dreams and start moving toward the life you actually want. You’ll learn why your ego isn’t your enemy, why your body sometimes reacts like you’re in a burning house when you’re just trying something new, and how to gently train your nervous system to feel safe as you step into the unknown. Because you’re not too old, you’re not too late, and your dreams did not expire after 40. What “alignment” really is Why it’s more than a buzzword in the personal development space The three parts of you that must agree: mind/ego, heart/soul, and nervous system The role of the ego (mind) Its #1 job: keep you alive, not make you happy How it interprets anything unfamiliar as a life-threatening risk Why old childhood coping mechanisms still show up in your 40s, 50s, and 60s How fear can show up physically—sweaty palms, racing heart, panic-like symptoms Your nervous system as a gatekeeper How your nervous system responds to the ego’s “danger” signals Why it stops you from: The power of nervous system drills to teach your body that new ≠ deadly Listening to the heart (soul) Your heart as the holder of your deep desires and dreams Why the soul whispers while the ego screams Using practices like meditation to quiet the noise so you can hear your inner guidance A simple daily alignment practice Get quiet (e.g., meditation) and listen for your soul’s whisper Ask: What is one micro‑action I can take today toward my dream? Do a nervous system drill before taking that action Take the small step and show your ego and body that you survived Repeat daily so your mind, heart, and nervous system learn to work together Alignment happens when mind, heart, and nervous system all agree: “This is possible, and it’s safe for us to do this.” Your ego isn’t bad—it’s just overprotective and using outdated data. Regulating your nervous system is essential if you want to move through fear rather than let it stop you. Micro‑actions, paired with nervous system drills, are how you gently retrain your system to support your dreams. You can build a life you’re proud to look back on—even if you’re starting after 40. Download the Worthiness exercise here (https://lourdesivette.com/worthiness) Apply to work with me here (https://lourdesivette.com/discoverycall)

3. 

   27 Jul 2026

   Breaking the Shame on Asking for help with Penny Chiasson

   In this deep conversation, Penny Chiasson and I break the taboo and shame behind two huge topics: suicide and Unprocessed Grief. We encourage you to listen and, if you or anyone around you needs help, to reach out. Please reach out for help. Call or text 988; go to the website https://988lifeline.orgFind Penny Here (https://pennychiasson.ontralink.com/t?orid=1641&opid=14) Grab your worthiness workbook here (https://lourdesivette.com/worthinessBook ) Book a call with me Here (https://lourdesivette.com/discoverycall)! Watch the episode on YouTube Here (https://youtu.be/RxFC7pbl7As)

Reach and audience

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Apple Podcasts (US)

5.0 / 5

9 ratings

Spotify

5.0 / 5

5 ratings