Surviving Our Beautiful Chaos is a real, unfiltered podcast about marriage, family, parenting, relationships, and everything that comes with building a life together. Hosted by Carlos & Shellyse, we share the laughs, disagreements, lessons, challenges, and unforgettable moments that make our chaos beautiful.
No perfect marriage, no perfect family or pretending. Just honest conversations about love, growth, communication, parenting, and figuring life out together. One chaotic moment at a time!
Welcome to Surviving Our Beautiful Chaos because life may be messy, but there’s beauty in the chaos.
I Don’t Have the Capacity… but Life Isn’t Slowing Down.
What happens when you’re mentally, emotionally, and physically drained… but life keeps demanding more from you?Between marriage, parenting, work, relationships, and everyday responsibilities, sometimes it feels like you’re running on empty with no opportunity to recharge.In this episode of Surviving Our Beautiful Chaos Podcast, we’re having an honest conversation about feeling overwhelmed, communicating when you’ve reached your limit, and trying to show up for the people you love when you barely have anything left to give.Is saying “I don’t have the capacity” setting a healthy boundary, or can it become an excuse to avoid responsibilities?
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28 Oct 2026
WOULD YOU MARRY A PERSON LIKE YOU?
We all have expectations of what we want in a husband or wife… but have you ever stopped to ask yourself if YOU meet those same expectations?
In this episode of Surviving Our Beautiful Chaos Podcast, we’re asking a question that might make some people uncomfortable: Would you marry someone who thinks, acts, communicates, and loves exactly like you?
From personal flaws and accountability to emotional maturity, communication, and the challenges of marriage, we’re taking an honest look at what we bring to our relationships.
Because sometimes the hardest person to be honest with is yourself.
BE HONEST: Would you marry a person just like you? YES or NO? Tell us why in the comments!
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20 Oct 2026
ARE WE PARENTING OUR CHILDREN OR OUR OWN CHILDHOOD?
Are we raising our kids based on what THEY need, or are we trying to give them everything WE never had growing up?
In this episode of Surviving Our Beautiful Chaos, we’re having a real and honest conversation about how our childhood experiences shape the way we parent.
From breaking generational cycles to overcompensating for what we lacked, we explore the fine line between healing through parenting and unintentionally repeating the same patterns we promised ourselves we’d never repeat.
The goal isn’t just to give our kids a better childhood than we had. It’s to make sure our childhood doesn’t become their burden. 💯
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13 Oct 2026
STOP PARENTING YOUR PARTNER! | I’m Your Spouse, NOT Your Child!
Marriage is a partnership, but does that mean EVERY move needs to be discussed?
From going out with friends to making financial decisions, we’re diving into the fine line between keeping your spouse informed and feeling like you need permission to live your life.
💬 Is it about respect, consideration, or control?
💍 Should married couples have to run everything by each other?
🤔 Where does healthy communication end and parenting your partner begin?
This week on Surviving Our Beautiful Chaos, we’re sharing our perspectives, challenging each other, and having an honest conversation about independence, boundaries, and respect in marriage.
Because you’re my spouse… NOT my parent! 😂
👇🏽 We want to hear from you! Is discussing everything a sign of respect, or should some decisions be yours to make?
🎧 Tune in, join the conversation, and let us know whose side you’re on!
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6 Oct 2026
Who Are You Outside of Us?
Today we want to talk about something that I think can easily get lost once you’re married, have kids, careers, responsibilities, all the things, and that’s still being your own person.
Because before you were somebody’s husband, wife, mom, or dad… you were YOU.
So how do you hold onto that? How important is it to have your own interests, your own time, and your own friendships outside of your marriage?
That said, let’s dive right in!
30 Sept 2026
The Importance of Dating While Married 💍
Dating doesn’t stop once you say “I do.” But what does dating actually look like when you’re married, raising kids, working, and trying to keep up with real life?
For us, it doesn’t always mean fancy dinners or spending a lot of money. Sometimes it’s taking a drive, walking around the mall, sitting in the car talking, or simply finding a little time to reconnect.
So we’re asking YOU:
Do you prefer a simple approach to dating, or does your significant other have to go all out? 👀
Tap in, watch Episode 4, and let us know what dating looks like in YOUR marriage!
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22 Sept 2026
This Week KICKED OUR ASS... But We Still Had to Show UP
Episode 3 we're talking about what happens when we both have to show up, even when we’re completely exhausted.Between work, parenting, marriage, and everything else life throws at us, sometimes both people are running on empty at the exact same time. The crazy part? We both had completely different experiences this week, but somehow ended up feeling the same level of exhaustion.So what happens when neither person has much left in the tank, but the kids, the house, the relationship, and life still need you?In this episode, we talk about sharing the load, communicating when you’re overwhelmed, and what it really looks like when both partners have to show up for the family.Subscribe for more real conversations about marriage, parenting, family, and surviving our beautiful chaos.
15 Sept 2026
Marriage expectations, what we thought it would be vs. what it actually is. 💍😅
Episode 2 we’re talking about marriage expectations, what we thought it would be vs. what it actually is… and then Carlos casually drops the fact that he accidentally deleted our wedding footage. 🫠😭
Now the real question is…
Will Carlos redeem himself and retrieve the footage?! 👀😂
Yeah… you’re gonna wanna tune in for this one.
10 Sept 2026
So... How Did We Get Here? 👀
Every relationship has a beginning. Ours just came with a lesson or two (or twelve), love, three kids, and a side of chaos. 😂
Episode 1 takes you back to where it all started... how we met, becoming parents, navigating our early relationship, and some of the things we had to survive to become the couple we are today.
🎙️ Episode 1 is here. Watch the full episode on YouTube 🎥
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1 Sept 2026
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Here’s a glimpse into our beautiful chaos 😌🎙️.
Marriage, family, life. ❤️
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