UK No 2 Kink Podcast (Feedspot Top 10 Kink Podcasts) with listeners in 161 countries. Talking Kinky is where Tom & Pippa make kink light-hearted, funny and real. "Laugh with Tom and Pippa, it's a humorous talk show for the kink curious." Our hosts fearlessly talk kink, sexuality, unspoken desires and guilty pleasures. "Talking Kinky is helping to bring kink out of the shadows so more people can find their kink and ultimate pleasure."
Talking Kinky gets a little academic in this episode… although thankfully not too academic. Pippa, Tom and Colin dive into the results of Colin’s (Intimacy Matters) survey exploring hotwifing and cuckolding and some of the answers are genuinely fascinating.There’s plenty of laughter, the occasional TK lack of filters, but underneath it is something a little different for Talking Kinky: real survey data, psychology, unexpected statistics and a closer look at what may actually sit behind these fantasies. What motivates people?Where does jealousy fit?What about compersion, exhibitionism, trust, desire and the psychology behind watching or being watched?And importantly, the research isn’t finished.If hotwifing or cuckolding is part of your world, fantasy or curiosity, we’d love you to complete the survey and add your experience to the data. Oh and Tom actually completed the survey!
Take the survey here:Hotwifing vs Cuckold vs ENM vs Swinging – Intimacy Matters (https://www.intimacymatters.co.uk/hotwifing-vs-cuckold-vs-enm-vs-swinging/)Sometimes fantasy is even more interesting when you look at the numbers.Intimacy Matters – Colin Richards (https://www.intimacymatters.co.uk/)
13 Sept 2026
Secrets and Sexual Fantasy - S13 : E2
Would you really want to know every sexual fantasy your partner has? Pippa is back...
This week on Talking Kinky, Tom and Pippa get into dangerous territory: the fantasies we have, the secrets we keep, and whether total honesty is always a good thing.
What if the person appearing in your partner’s fantasy is someone you both know? What if it’s your best friend? Is confessing that desire a sign of trust and intimacy, or the kind of honesty that can never be unheard?
Tom and Pippa debate where openness ends and oversharing begins, why fantasy doesn’t necessarily mean intention, and whether couples should have the right to keep part of their erotic imagination completely private.
And they’re not quite on the same page.
Some fantasies are exciting to share. Others might change everything. So… do you really want to know?
16 Aug 2026
Making Space For Intimacy - S13 : E1
What does your space say about your desires?
In the opening episode of Season 13, Tom sits down with Pippa from Intimate Spaces to explore the fascinating intersection between interior design, intimacy, kink and self-expression.
We talk about what it means to create a space specifically designed for pleasure and play, from subtle, beautifully designed rooms where everything has a hidden purpose, to more adventurous spaces built around the things their owners genuinely enjoy.
Pippa shares how she approaches conversations that many people might initially find difficult or embarrassing, how good design can make intimacy feel more natural, and why creating an intimate space doesn't have to mean turning your bedroom into a dungeon.
It’s a conversation about design, desire, discretion and the freedom that comes from creating a space in which you can truly be yourself.
Whether you're simply curious, dreaming about your own private play space, or wondering just how far bespoke interior design can go, this is a fascinating way to begin Season 13 of Talking Kinky.
Discover Intimate Spaces:
https://www.intimatespaces.co.uk/ (https://www.intimatespaces.co.uk/)
Talking Kinky, real conversations about kink, intimacy, relationships and the people who make this extraordinary world what it is.
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