Talking with Tanya is where depth meets discernment.
Here we explore relationships, personal evolution, shadow work, and the uncomfortable conversations most people avoid. This is a space for introspection, growth, and choosing wisely without losing your warmth.
Real thoughts. Real processing. Real evolution.
If you’re ready to think deeper and live intentionally — welcome
In Episode 39 of Talking with Tanya, I’m joined by my best friend, Gonzo, for a conversation about the moments that make us question what we believe, what we tolerate, and what we’re willing to keep carrying.We talk about what it means to care for people even when we’re frustrated with them, how love can show up through actions instead of words, and how the people around us slowly influence who we become.From growing up with financial scarcity and the beliefs it can create around money, to the weight that can come with being highly aware of yourself and the world around you, this episode explores one bigger question: what happens once you become aware of something you can no longer ignore?Sometimes we think we need certainty before we make a change, but maybe clarity comes from moving, listening, and trusting what we already know.
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15 Jul 2026
#38 - Still Figuring It Out
In this episode of Talking with Tanya, my best friend and I dive into one of our favorite kinds of conversations—the ones that start out lighthearted and somehow end up making us question everything.
We talk about the difference between explaining and overexplaining, finding a healthy work-life balance, what authenticity really looks like, and how simply being yourself can make you stand out in ways you don't even realize. We also discuss learning to enjoy your own company, taking accountability for your actions, and why we're all just "adult kids" trying to figure life out.
I also share a childhood memory that stayed with me for years and how witnessing a simple moment with my niece completely changed the way I understood it. Sometimes it's the smallest experiences that shape us the most.
We also explore the decline of close male friendships, why vulnerability is essential for building trust, and how loyalty becomes one of the greatest gifts we can offer the people we love.
Whether you're navigating friendships, healing from childhood experiences, learning to embrace who you are, or simply trying to become a little more intentional in your everyday life, I hope this conversation reminds you that you're not alone.
Thanks for listening, and as always, thank you for being part of this journey.
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24 May 2026
#37 - Learning to Lead Without Losing Myself
In this episode of Talking with Tanya, I open up about my experience stepping into leadership and how much it challenged me emotionally, mentally, and personally. I talk about the discomfort of asserting myself into other people’s spaces, navigating conflict in real time, learning to trust myself under pressure, and realizing that being a good leader doesn’t mean everyone will like or understand you.
Leadership became the ultimate people pleaser test for me. I’ve had to learn how to hold boundaries, stay grounded in my values, and stop seeking validation from how others perceive me. At the same time, I’ve also experienced the rewarding side of leadership — seeing people feel motivated, supported, and genuinely cared for under my guidance.
I also share updates about life outside of work, including getting back into dating, personal growth, and the unexpected lessons this season of life has been teaching me.
This episode is for anyone learning how to take up space without abandoning themselves in the process.
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