All the sh*t your horse wants you to know, and what to do about it. Guided by a animal communicator/teacher and a horse trainer/human coach!
Tea Time with Shayleigh and Amber
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All the sh*t your horse wants you to know, and what to do about it. Guided by a animal communicator/teacher and a horse trainer/human coach!
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Recent Episodes
March 10, 2026
Episode 91: Year of the Whale
<p> <strong>Year of the Horse or Year of the Whale? Flow, creative energy, and what happens when you stop suppressing yourself</strong></p> <p>In this episode, Amber and Shayleigh wander through a really honest conversation about creativity, nervous system patterns, flow, self-suppression, and what it looks like to actually pay attention to how life feels.</p> <p>What starts as a playful conversation about whether 2026 is the <strong>Year of the Horse</strong> or the unofficial <strong>Year of the Whale</strong>turns into something deeper. They explore the pressure people put on themselves to be more powerful, more productive, more “on it,” and how sometimes what actually creates movement is not pushing harder, but allowing more flow.</p> <p>They talk about creative energy, the cost of suppressing what wants to come through, the way life gets heavier when we ignore the small practices that make us feel like ourselves, and how easy it is to get pulled into chaos, negativity, and collective stress if we are not intentional.</p> <p>This episode also gives a behind-the-scenes look at what is unfolding for Shayleigh creatively right now through art, symbols, and light language, along with how that energy is beginning to shape <strong>Elevate</strong>, their new small-group container.</p> <p>And for Tea House members, there is a special announcement at the end.</p> <h2><strong>In this episode, we talk about:</strong></h2> <ul> <li> <p>Why “Year of the Whale” became the vibe for 2026</p> </li> <li> <p>The difference between force and flow</p> </li> <li> <p>Tiny practices that shift your whole energy</p> </li> <li> <p>What happens when you stay committed to how you feel</p> </li> <li> <p>How creative suppression can show up as fatigue</p> </li> <li> <p>Why creativity is not just painting or drawing</p> </li> <li> <p>The importance of finding your version of art</p> </li> <li> <p>How nervous systems get pulled back into old patterns</p> </li> <li> <p>Support, accountability, and why it is hard to shift alone</p> </li> <li> <p>A deeper look at what is unfolding inside <strong>Elevate</strong></p> </li> <li> <p>A scholarship opportunity for one Tea House member</p> </li> </ul> <p> </p> <p>Resources Mentioned</p> <p>Elevate Program <a href="https://www.amberlydic.com/elevate2026">https://www.amberlydic.com/elevate2026 </a></p> <p>Tea House Membership <a href="https://www.amberlydic.com/membership">https://www.amberlydic.com/membership </a></p> <p>Tea House Scholarship Details Tea House members can check the Facebook group and email for details on how to apply.</p>
February 18, 2026
Episode 90: Desperately Speaking...
<p>Episode Summary</p> <p>This episode starts with Shayleigh naming something that a lot of people quietly live in, asking for answers and then doubting their intuition the second the answer feels too hard to hold. She talks about what happens when you are told not to intervene, when you are not the right messenger for someone, and why some truths are not meant to be delivered by you.</p> <p>Amber and Shayleigh pull that thread into a bigger conversation about the fantasy of “leveling up,” the idea that growth means life gets easier, cleaner, and more certain. They talk about how empowering people is not about giving them the answer, it is about helping them find their own. The second half goes deep into desperation. Shayleigh shares a healing experience that took her back into the womb, where she suddenly felt desperation as a real embodied state, not an idea. Amber shares her own relationship with desperation, shaped early by loss, and how that has created a strange gift, being able to be with someone’s intensity without getting pulled under by it. Then, in divine comedic timing, the thunderstorm takes Amber out mid-call and Shayleigh wraps it up solo.</p> <p>Quick Takeaways ↠ Do not ask questions you are not ready to hear the answer to ↠ Sometimes “I can’t intervene” is the most honest guidance ↠ Empowerment is not dependency, it is internal leadership ↠ Your questions shape what your brain goes looking for ↠ Desperation can feel like a victim state, until it becomes a bridge to empathy ↠ Growth does not mean ease forever, it means capacity</p> <p> </p> <p>Questions Intuition and truth</p> <p>↠ What question am I asking right now that I am secretly hoping has a certain answer?</p> <p>↠ If my intuition gave me the honest answer, what part of me would feel threatened by it?</p> <p>↠ Do I actually not trust my intuition, or do I not want to carry what it is showing me? Empowerment versus dependency</p> <p>↠ Where do I want someone else to be the authority so I do not have to be?</p> <p>↠ What do I keep outsourcing that is actually my responsibility to choose?</p> <p>↠ If I stopped asking for answers and started asking better questions, what would I ask instead? Leveling up myths</p> <p>↠ Where did I learn the idea that growth means life should get easier?</p> <p>↠ If growth is capacity, not comfort, what would capacity look like in my life right now?</p> <p>↠ What would it mean to be in the middle of a transition without needing it to make sense yet? Desperation and nervous system</p> <p>↠ What does desperation feel like in my body, if I tell the truth?</p> <p>↠ Do I judge desperation in others because I do not understand it, or because I am afraid of it?</p> <p>↠ When I feel desperate, what do I think I need someone else to take from me? Relationship patterns</p> <p>↠ What energy do I experience as invasive, and why?</p> <p>↠ Where do I ask someone to change my life, without realizing I am asking?</p> <p>↠ What agreement could I make with one person in my life to help me catch my negative loops? Practical Integration</p> <p>↠ Pick one repeating question you ask when you are spiraling (like “What is wrong with me?”)</p> <p>↠ Rewrite it into a question that creates power (example: “What is my nervous system asking for right now?”)</p> <p>↠ Ask it daily for a week, and notice what your brain starts feeding you instead Nutmeg’s Corner Nutmeg would like to remind you, lovingly, that if you ask the universe for the truth and then get mad when it answers, that is a you problem, not a universe problem. Stay curious, not dramatic. Or at least be funny if you are going to be dramatic.</p> <h2><span>Nutmeg’s Corner</span></h2> <p><span>Nutmeg would like to remind you, lovingly, that if you ask the universe for the truth and then get mad when it answers, that is a you problem, not a universe problem. Stay curious, not dramatic. Or at least be funny if you are going to be dramatic.</span></p> <p> </p>
December 18, 2025
Episode 89: Crossing The Line
<p>Amber opens the episode in full awkward honesty, and somehow it works perfectly for what we are talking about.</p> <p>This episode is about desire, but not the surface level kind.</p> <p>We are talking about the space desire is born from, the space where your needs get met, and how sometimes that space looks like… nothing.</p> <p>Less input. Less talking. Less touching. Less trying.</p> <p>For you and for your horse. We go into how “doing less” can feel like abandonment or rejection if your nervous system is wired for connection to look like constant engagement.</p> <p>That shows up when your horse walks away, when a person needs space, or when you feel guilty for needing quiet.</p> <p>We talk about attachment patterns, anxious energy, and how “need need need” can unintentionally create pressure that makes the other side want to back up. We also talk about the other side of it, where we shrink down so much that we disappear, and the horse or the relationship starts poking at you because it is trying to call you back into your own power.</p> <p>There’s a whole thread around overstimulation that starts with a microphone issue and turns into a real conversation about how one tiny thing can hijack attention, in humans and horses.</p> <p>We connect that to the freeze response, compliance, and how often we don’t ask for what we need in the moment.</p> <p>We also talk about how the story we are carrying changes what our horse can do with us. If you believe you are imposing, your ask lands like guilt. If you believe you are allowed to want what you want, your ask lands like clarity.</p> <p>We end by tying it into Manifesting Magic, and the idea that under every complaint is a desire, and learning to go underneath the complaint is one of the biggest ways to shift your life, your relationships, and what your animal can co create with you.</p> <p>Link for membership where you skip the line and get Manifesting Magic for FREE <a href="https://www.amberlydic.com/membership">https://www.amberlydic.com/membership </a></p> <p>Or here is the link for the waitlist <a href="https://www.amberlydic.com/manifest-magic-2026-waitlist">https://www.amberlydic.com/manifest-magic-2026-waitlist</a></p> <p>⸻</p> <p>Questions to Go Deeper</p> <p>• Where do I confuse “more input” with “more love”?</p> <p>• What does “space” feel like in my body? Relief, panic, guilt, freedom, something else?</p> <p>• When my horse walks away, what story do I tell myself immediately?</p> <p>• Where in my life do I shrink down so I can be liked, so I can be easy, so I do not rock the boat?</p> <p>• Where in my life do I get “softer” when what is actually needed is clarity?</p> <p>• If I could ask for what I need in real time, what would I say first, in one sentence? • Where am I worried about being perceived as needy, intense, or too much, and how is that blocking connection?</p> <p>• Is my horse showing me overstimulation, or are they calling me into more presence and personal power?</p> <p>• What is one desire underneath a complaint I have right now (with my horse or with a person)?</p> <p>• What would it look like to speak that desire without blaming anyone for it?</p> <p>⸻</p> <p>Share, Rate, and Review If you’re listening or watching and this episode hit, please share it with someone who needs this conversation. And if you feel like giving us some love, rate and review the podcast wherever you listen or watch. It helps more people find the Tea House.</p> <p>⸻</p> <p>Time Stamps</p> <p>00:00:05 Intro, awkward opener, and why we are talking about desire</p> <p>00:00:26 Desire, needs being met, and when “doing less” is actually more 00:01:29 Attachment patterns, anxious energy, and space feeling like rejection 00:04:07 The microphone moment, overstimulation, and how tiny things hijack focus</p> <p>00:06:11 Freeze, not asking for what you need, and how this shows up with horses</p> <p>00:08:05 External expression vs internalization, and why some horses “hold it” then explode</p> <p>00:09:19 Interrupting in real time, people pleasing, and learning to name what you need</p> <p>00:11:43 Fear of compliance, intensity of focus, and “take your eyes off me” 00:14:06 How intention impacts animals, distance communication, and energetic pressure</p> <p>00:16:33 Softness vs shrinking, and when a horse is calling up more from you 00:19:11 Women, conditioning, diminishing, and the belief that we cannot have what we want</p> <p>00:22:12 The edge, overstimulation vs disappearing in the relationship 00:25:09 Humans make stories, and learning to disassemble them</p> <p>00:26:20 Desire clarity, why you want what you want, and how beliefs affect the ask</p> <p>00:35:23 Under every complaint is a desire, and using complaints for good 00:37:01 Manifesting Magic invite, animals as guides, and choosing one co creator 00:38:27 Rate, review, links, and membership includes Manifesting Magic</p>
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