This podcast is full of advice needed for the world we live in. Created to inspire, inform and improve our community, this podcast is filled to the brim with what is missing for us to be better. Coming from Ashlee Patterson, better known as, LifeintheAshlane, this podcast is for the those who believe in generational wealth and reuniting the nuclear family.
This is heavy conversation but very necessary. They are not coming to save us and it is time to for us to organize and save ourselves.
1 Oct 2025
Team work makes the dream work...except with a man.
In this episode we will chat abut how some women understand the power of team work until it comes to their relationship.
23 Sept 2025
Bring Back Accountability
I thought was shame was something that I wanted back. Instead I want us to bring back true accountability. We have to take accountability for the choices we make and the examples we set.
17 Sept 2025
Positivity Isn't Popular
Positivity is not popular because it often requires work that some do not want to do. It requires adjustments in our thoughts and outlook. For some it is simply easier to just join the crowd...even if the crowd is wrong.
3 Sept 2025
Do you know who you are?
Do you know who you are or are you follower? In this episode we talk about how our actions are dictated by our thoughts. Sometimes our thoughts are not our own. It's time we began to ask questions in order to discover why those thoughts were created.
4 Jun 2025
Ladies, what happened?
The host discusses the decline in self-care among Black women and seeks to initiate a conversation about this important issue.
14 May 2025
We are worth the work and effort
It's so easy for us to forget ourselves. Caring for a long list of responsibilities should not require us to be placed at the bottom of the list. We are worth the work and effort.
26 Mar 2025
Desperation Kills
Desperation can kill our opportunities, options and could kill us. Let's talk about it....Tell Em Ash....I am!
5 Mar 2025
They don't like you!
They aren't nonchalant, they just don't like you! In this episodes we will discuss who to focus on noticing actions versus just hearing words.
19 Feb 2025
Are you disrespectful?
Let's have a conversation about being disrespectful when we communicate with our partners. In this episode we take a deep dive in how to have better communication and create healthier relationships.
12 Feb 2025
You are single because of you, not them!
Often times we like to blame others for why we are single. With a deeper look we could discover that the problems lies with our expectations and not with our dating options. Let's talk about it. Tell 'em Ash...I am!
5 Feb 2025
Why are so many people single?
Is there a single epidemic or are single people living in a state of delusion? The current state of the dating pool is questionable. Let's discuss why.
22 Jan 2025
I didn't like her any way!
Ava you ever seen a woman who does not like another woman who is holding her accountable or asking for her standards to be elevated? Let's talk about it!
10 Dec 2024
Building with a man
I know we are not "Barbara the Builder". We do not want to build a man from the ground up. As women we are created to help and assist. Adding the "finishing touches" to the life that you are creating with a man you love and how loves you is how things should be. Let's talk about.
11 Nov 2024
Three Strikes....You are OUT!
In this episode we discuss how to stand firm in requiring your non-negotiable and boundaries are being respected.
13 Aug 2024
Can anyone correct black women?
I know these words may be triggering to some but hear me out. It's a relevant question and in this episode I will share my thoughts on it.
3 Jul 2024
I want and NEED a man!
Tell 'Em Ash...I am!
In this episode I share my thoughts on women who feel they do not need a man. Well I may or may not have an opposing view!
5 Jun 2024
5 benefits of owning a business
Being a business owner comes with alot of responsibilities however, the reward far out weigh the risk. In this episodes Ash will share those benefits and how to use them to your advantages.
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