Tell Me About Your Mother

About Tell Me About Your Mother

Tell Me About Your Mother is a podcast guided by a psychotherapist duo-- Evan Miller, LCMHC, LCAS and Melissa Martin, LCMHC. If you are a therapist, enjoy learning from experts, or curious as to how therapists conceptualize complex characters, this is your podcast. If you'd like to connect further, we are on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube and TikTok. You can also send us an email-- contactus@tellmeaboutyourmother.run. Our psychotherapy practice websites: Evan Miller— https://www.millercounseling.net/ (https://www.millercounseling.net/) Melissa Martin https://www.emdrtherapyworks.com/ (https://www.emdrtherapyworks.com/)

Publisher

Evan Miller and Melissa Martin

Category

comedy · health & fitness · society & culture

Language

en

Explicit

Yes

First episode

8 Nov 2021

Latest episode

17 Sept 2026

Latest episodes

61 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   17 Sept 2026

   Episode 61: Are You Actually Secure? Breaking Down Amir Levine's New Book | Melissa Martin

   Evan and Melissa launch a new book club format, digging into the first three chapters of Amir Levine's Secure, the follow-up to Attached. In this episode: Taking the attachment quadrants on themselves — and why scoring "secure" doesn't always match how it feels in the momentRunning their own friendships through Levine's CARP framework (consistency, availability, responsiveness, reliability, predictability)SIMIs — the small, seemingly insignificant interactions that quietly shape the nervous s...

2. 

   10 Aug 2026

   Episode 60: Why Is Everyone's Ex A Narcissist Now? Guest Virginia Gilbert | High Conflict Divorce Therapist

   Virginia Gilbert has spent over two decades working with people in high-conflict divorces — she started this specialty after going through one herself and getting nothing but platitudes from therapists who didn't understand what she was dealing with. In this episode, Evan and Virginia get into: Why family court isn't built to solve real parenting disputes — and often makes conflict worseHow social media turned every ex into a "narcissist" or a "borderline"The difference between wanting to be ...

3. 

   28 Apr 2026

   Episode 59: Rage, Grief, and the Therapists Who Shouldn't Be in the Room | Evan Miller and Melissa Martin

   We started with accountant rage. We ended at grief, the body, and a grandmother who was home. Melissa walks Evan through his first focusing session using the Felt Sense Polyvagal Model — Gene Gendlin's somatic framework for making meaning of what your body is already trying to tell you. What starts as frustration about cash flow lands somewhere much deeper. Then the conversation shifts to where the field is falling short — and the clients paying for it. In this episode: The Felt Sense Polyvag...

Reach and audience

Public platform figures. Ratings count people who left a rating, not total listeners.

Apple Podcasts (US)

4.5 / 5

14 ratings

Spotify

4.2 / 5

9 ratings

Podcast Authority Score: 33 / 100

A composite of feed quality, social presence, YouTube performance and engagement. Read the methodology.

Quality

36

Social presence

0

YouTube

0

Engagement

77

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