Tell Me Moir, where the chats are candid, the laughs are loud and nothing is off limits.
Harriet Moir sits down with brilliant women (or people who identify as women) for no-filter and no-nonsense chats about, well, pretty much anything.
Real, relatable and at times raucous, Tell Me Moir dives right into the conversations we want to have but don’t have time for and the ones we don’t want to have but we know we should.
Strap in! Are you ready for Tell Me Moir?
S2 - E08 - Caught in the Middle - Protecting the Child
In the last episode of Tell Me Moir. Season Two, we are looking at how to remain child focussed through it all. From peaceful co-parenting to dumpster fire conflict.
When family conflict becomes overwhelming, it can be easy to lose sight of what matters most, the children. Their safety, wellbeing, care arrangements, routines and voice should remain the priority in every decision. However, this is much easier said than done, especially when allegations of abuse are on the table.
Together with my fantastic guest, Dr Shannon Westgate, Clinical Psychologist, we explore the child’s voice, effective parenting agreements, safer communication, family therapy, what happens when abuse is suspected and practical ways to put children at the centre of all difficult family decisions.
This show was broadcast on OAR 105.4FM Dunedin - oar.org.nz and made thanks to the support of NZ on Air.
15 Sept 2026
S2 - E07 - Children, Conflict & the Law
When parents separate, what happens to the kids? Who decides where they live? What if there are safety concerns, family harm or a child refuses to go to the other parent? And what happens when parents simply can’t agree?
Separation can be difficult but sharing kids is another whole level of heartbreak and challenge altogether. We like to think that everyone involved has the children’s best interests at heart but this isn’t always the case and sometimes disputes around care of the children can be more about control, further chaos and complications than what best serves them.
In this episode, we sit down with Barrister Sole and Family Law specialist Bridget Byers to unpack the legals and frequently asked questions around custody, parenting arrangements, mediation, child support, Lawyer for Child, parental alienation and where to go for help and advice if you need it.
This show was broadcast on OAR 105.4FM Dunedin - oar.org.nz and made thanks to the support of NZ on Air.
8 Sept 2026
S2 - E06 - Support, Safety & Recovery
What happens after abuse is recognised, where can you go for help and what happens when the systems put in place to keep us safe, end up letting us down?
With my guest Simone Claire from Ōtepoti-Dunedin Whanau Refuge, we discuss in a fair bit of detail the services that are available to support women prior to, during and after leaving abusive relationships.
My other guest is a very brave and strong abuse and harassment survivor who shares her story about surviving ongoing stalking, harrassment and abuse from en ex partner. She is also a huge advocate for change, educating other women and improving the system to protect women, keep them safe and not have them financially burdened to do so.
This show was broadcast on OAR 105.4FM Dunedin - oar.org.nz and made thanks to the support of NZ on Air.
1 Sept 2026
S2 E05 - Understanding Family Harm & Violence
Episode 5 of Tell Me Moir, Season 2, aims to explore what family harm can look like, where to go for help and the some of tools in place that are designed to protect victims both in court and in their daily lives.
Together with Amanda Durham from the NZ Police Family Harm team in Dunedin and Bridget Byers, Family Law specialist, we focus on defining family harm and everything that comes under the term and some of the measures and practical steps people can take once they recognise they are experiencing abuse.
The episode is a need to know about family harm, coercive control, police response, protection orders, special measures in court and the new stalking law.
This show was broadcast on OAR 105.4FM Dunedin - oar.org.nz and made thanks to the support of NZ on Air.
Money Money Money! We love to have it but we hate to talk about it..
This week's episode of Tell Me Moir delves into all things money and relationship property.
Many of us were raised to believe that it’s not very lady like to talk openly about money, but bugger that! The more informed we are the better!
To avoid a break down, we are breaking down relationship property, pre nups and how to get back on the property ladder after a split. Harriet chats with Family Lawyer Rochelle Crossman and Real Estate legend Denise Casey to get up close and personal with financials and it is looking pretty sexy.
This show was broadcast on OAR 105.4FM Dunedin - oar.org.nz and made thanks to the support of NZ on Air.
18 Aug 2026
S2 E03 - Understanding the System
Episode three is all about breaking down the ins and outs of our Family Court system and processes and looking at the options that are avaialble to couples navigating a separation.
Harriet talks with Family Lawyers Rochelle Crossman and Dani Nicolson about the litigation and the Collaborative Process and Mediator Rachel Grant about FDR Mediation.
We decode some of the language of the legal system and we demysitfy the court context and we share details about the support groups, organisations and social services that are available for couples during this often very fraught and tender process.
This show was broadcast on OAR 105.4FM Dunedin - oar.org.nz and made thanks to the support of NZ on Air.
12 Aug 2026
S2 E02 - Preparation is Key
Preparation is key!
This week on Tell Me Moir, we are breaking down how to prepare yourself for leaving a relationship.
It's tempting to think that once you’ve made that agonising decision to leave a relationship that the hard part is done. But in reality, it is all uncharted territory and life can get even more unpredictable and complicated after the fact. And while no two separations are the same, a little preparation can go a long way, for everyone involved.
Harriet is joined by Clinical Psychologist Tara Cathie-Clark and Family Layer Dani Nicolson to talk about where and how to seek advice, how to take care of yourself and other people involved and what you need to put in place. What to put in before you get out.
This show was broadcast on OAR 105.4FM Dunedin - oar.org.nz and made thanks to the support of NZ on Air.
4 Aug 2026
S2 E01 - How I Got Here
Are you negotating custody arrangements or a financial settlement, navigating family court, perhaps you’re in the early stages of considering leaving your partner and don’t know where to start or maybe you are supporting someone else through this process? Season Two of Tell Me Moir is for you. And today, Harriet is putting her money where her mouth is and sharing her story.
In this episode ,Harriet is interviewed by local comedian, story teller and superstar Marea Colombo. In a no holds barred converstaion, Harrriet shares some of her story they get to the bottom of why it's important to Harriet to make this season.
This show was broadcast on OAR 105.4FM Dunedin - oar.org.nz and made thanks to the support of NZ on Air.
2 Jun 2026
03-06-2026 - Kitty Brown - Shape Shifter & Story Teller
The art of story telling extends far beyond books or the spoken word. My guest today, Kitty Brown is a published author and co-director of the Dunedin Writers and Readers Festival but her ability to share stories reaches beyond the conventional. Kitty Brown (Waitaha, Kāti Māmoe, Kāi Tahu, Ngāti Kahungunu)has b een described as a creative shapeshifter and cultural story teller and her impact here in Otepoti on arts, culture and community ranges from leadership, to literature, to urban landscapes and legacy. Today she’s here to share her story with us.
This show was broadcast on OAR 105.4FM Dunedin - oar.org.nz and made thanks to the support of NZ on Air.
26 May 2026
24-04-2026 - Rinad Tamimi
Rinad is a prominent Palestinian-New Zealander activist and broadcaster based in Otepoti Dunedin who is known for her community leadership and media presence and her unwavering and passionate advocacy and activism, not only for the liberation of Palestine but human rights and humanitarian efforts everywhere. What you would do in if your home, your village, your people, your right to exist were under threat? Rinad Tamimi is here to shed some light on what it is like living and breathing this hypothetical and unfathomable scenario for real.
This show was broadcast on OAR 105.4FM Dunedin - oar.org.nz and made thanks to the support of NZ on Air.
19 May 2026
20-05-2026 - Kelly Hocking - A Creative Life and the Care Paradigm
Kelly is a lifelong performer and creator. She works throughout Aotearoa as an actor, vocalist, writer, comedian, and educator. Her business, The Voice Lab nz, provides vocal coaching and vocal health support for hundreds of clients and is based here in Ōtepoti. She won the Otago Raw Comedy Championship in 2024, and just a few weeks ago, she took home a Dunedin Theatre Award for Outsanding Performance. Kelly recently performed a highly successful one woman show at Dunedin Fringe called Lady Luck which explores the experience from a fictional character’s point of view of an American landing in Dunedin but she’s here with us today at OAR FM to over think and over share the real life version of events.
This show was broadcast on OAR 105.4FM Dunedin - oar.org.nz and made thanks to the support of NZ on Air.
12 May 2026
13-05-2026 - Anna Easton - She Hunts Op Shops
Anna Easton’s life is a collection of first hand adventures and carefully curated second hand treasures. Her website, online community and blog SHE HUNTS OP SHOPs boast over 25,000 followers, proving that her words and images are just as collectible as her thrifted finds. Anna Easton is here to spill the tea on all aspects of her eclectic and varied life, from thrift mania to stunning photography, a foray into the business of effluence and everything else in between.
This show was broadcast on OAR 105.4FM Dunedin - oar.org.nz and made thanks to the support of NZ on Air.
5 May 2026
06-05-2026 - Katie Smith - Multisport and Value Parenting
As busy working parents, a walk,a cheeky 5km or a session at the gym a couple of times a week feels like we’re kicking goals. But for our guest today, if she’s not conquering mountains and carving out many, many kilometres, it doesn’t really count. My guest today is local sportswoman, internationally recognised triathlete, mother, wife and legend Katie Smith.
This show was broadcast on OAR 105.4FM Dunedin - oar.org.nz and made thanks to the support of NZ on Air.
28 Apr 2026
29-04-2026 - Anna Pierard - The Next Generation of Opera
Put Timothy Chalomet and today’s guest Anna Pierard in a room together and I reckon I know who would come out on top. Anna Pierard is one of New Zealand’s finest opera singers and one of my oldest friends and she’s here today, amongst other reasons, to set the record straight about the future of opera and its relevance to the next generation.
This show was broadcast on OAR 105.4FM Dunedin - oar.org.nz and made thanks to the support of NZ on Air.
22 Apr 2026
22-04-2026 - Sophie Barker - Women in Politics
Passionate Dunedinite, Sophie Barker spent her childhood growing up in Dunedin's Larnach Castle. She studied and worked in marketing and tourism before being elected as a councillor to the Dunedin City Council in 2019 and Mayor in 2025. Sophie Barker is here today to reveal a bit about what goes on behind the scenes and under the robes.
This show was broadcast on OAR 105.4FM Dunedin - oar.org.nz and made thanks to the support of NZ on Air.
15 Apr 2026
15-04-2026 - A life in comedy with Michèle A’Court
From What Now to what next, today’s guest Michele A’Court is an indisputable icon of comedy and words in New Zealand. Many of us will remember Michele A’Court from her early days as a host of What Now in the 80s, but she has gone on to carve out a career for herself across a multitude of disciplines and mediums and has always been a role model for me of reinvention, diversification, the hustle and leaning into your gifts. From queen of the screen to Queen’s Honours, MIchele gives us the low down on a lifetime of jokes, joy and the juggle.
This show was broadcast on OAR 105.4FM Dunedin - oar.org.nz and made thanks to the support of NZ on Air.
8 Apr 2026
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Tell Me Moir, where the chats are candid, the laughs are loud and nothing is off limits.
Harriet Moir sits down with brilliant women (or people who identify as women) for no-filter and no-nonsense chats about, well, pretty much anything.
Real, relatable and at times raucous, Tell Me Moir dives right into the conversations we want to have but don’t have time for and the ones we don’t want to have but we know we should.
Strap in! Are you ready for Tell Me Moir?
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