7 Sept 2026
What I Actually Need From a Relationship in My 40s: It’s Not What You Think!
What do you **actually need from a relationship in your 40s**?I’ve been married. I’ve been divorced. I’ve been single. I’ve been engaged. And now, navigating relationships in my 40s has forced me to ask myself a question I probably should’ve asked a long time ago: **What do I actually need from a relationship at this stage of my life?**Because the truth is… **love isn’t enough.**In this episode of **Yap Session with Meloney P**, we’re talking about dating and relationships after 40, being a “lover girl” while still protecting your heart, the importance of emotional safety, consistency, communication, intentionality, partnership, leadership, affection, friendship, peace—and having a CLEAR direction for where your relationship is going.I also get into why dating in your 40s feels so different, why I’m no longer interested in relationships that aren’t progressing, the conversations I believe couples need to have upfront, and why knowing what you need is just as important as knowing who you want.💗 **SUBSCRIBE to Yap Session with Meloney P** and join me for real, unfiltered conversations about relationships, womanhood, life after 40, personal growth, motherhood and figuring this thing called life out together.👍🏾 Like this episode if it resonated with you.📤 Share it with another woman who needs to be part of this conversation.### CHAPTERS00:00 What Do I Actually Need From a Relationship in My 40s?03:00 What I Thought Love Was When I Got Married Young05:00 The Pressure Women Put on Themselves to Find Love07:20 Why Dating in Your 40s Feels Different08:22 Being a “Lover Girl” While Protecting Yourself08:56 I Need GROWTH in My Relationships11:17 “I’m Not a Girlfriend — I’m a Wife”13:04 Is It Even Safe to Be a Lover Girl Anymore?15:05 What I’m Looking for in a Man in My 40s17:23 Emotional Safety, Consistency & a CLEAR Direction18:17 What Do You Actually Want From a Relationship?21:00 Why I Compare Relationships to Business23:03 The Conversations We Need to Have UPFRONT25:29 Stop Ignoring the Signs When Things Change27:04 Why God Needs to Be Part of My Relationship27:33 Dating With Strategy — Not Just Love29:00 Final Thoughts: Know What You Need#DatingOver40 #RelationshipsOver40 #LoveAfter40 #WomenOver40 #RelationshipAdvice #YapSession #MeloneyP“Yap Session with Meloney P.” is a women-centered podcast that feels like a safe space to vent, laugh, heal, and have real conversations about life. The show focuses on topics women deal with every day — relationships, stress, overstimulation, self-worth, body image, dating, work-life balance, motherhood, friendships, sex, and figuring life out in your 20s, 30s, 40s, and beyond. The vibe is honest, relatable, fun, conversational, and empowering — like late-night girl talk with your favorite homegirl, where nothing is too deep or too taboo to discuss. Men are welcome too, but the heart of the show is creating a comforting, authentic space for women to just “yap” freely without judgment.Make sure you drop a comment below and SUBSCRIBE TO THE YOUTUBE PAGE!! Support the podcast If you have a situation that you want to be discussed on the podcast send me a message on IG or email me at: thatsscarypodcast@gmail.com! Make sure and leave a podcast review. It helps the show out TREMENDOUSLY! Follow and engage with us on IG: @Links:YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@yapsessionmp Instagram - https://www.youtube.com/@yapsessionmpTik Tok - https://www.tiktok.com/@thatsscary_podcastSpotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/1PBikYYfJPC4iRBejIh7KW?uid=dc98469f245848b9aef4&uri=spotify%3Aepisode%3A2NBK5H8emQGeG0zkfNMPu1Apple Podcasts - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/thats-scary-with-meloney-p/id1629360940NAMA - https://namacbd.therave.co/YKWTKSYVEQH6DC4O - $5 Dollars Off!!Opus link - https://www.opus.pro/?via=a00088
