Aoife Mind Body is a mind body and success coach who works with sensitive driven women whose bodies and lives have been asking for change for a long time. You will receive tools for healing your body and changing your life drawn from Aoife’s personal journey of breaking free from decades of chronic pain and illness she was told were incurable and designing a life that feels like truth. The show moves from Aoife’s personal story and unique healing tips to interviews with other experts so you can receive greater results. Listening is the medicine. Welcome!
That's Exactly Who She Thinks She Is
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Aoife Mind Body is a mind body and success coach who works with sensitive driven women whose bodies and lives have been asking for change for a long time. You will receive tools for healing your body and changing your life drawn from Aoife’s personal journey of breaking free from decades of chronic pain and illness she was told were incurable and designing a life that feels like truth. The show moves from Aoife’s personal story and unique healing tips to interviews with other experts so you can receive greater results. Listening is the medicine. Welcome!
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June 15, 2026
It’s OK to Be You | Shame, Self-Erasure & Chronic Pain Healing with Coach Scotty
<p>In this episode of That’s Exactly Who She Thinks She Is, Aoife is joined by pain elimination coach and mind-body practitioner Scotty Stiles for a powerful conversation about survival patterns, chronic symptoms, shame, self-worth, and the long journey back to yourself.Together, they explore the hidden patterns that kept them stuck in chronic pain, hypervigilance, perfectionism, people-pleasing, self-erasure, and nervous system dysregulation — and how learning to name and unwind those patterns changed both their health and their lives.Scotty shares his experience growing up gay and learning to hide parts of himself in order to feel safe in the world, and how years of repression, hypervigilance, and emotional suppression eventually manifested as debilitating chronic pain and mind-body symptoms.Aoife reflects on her own experiences with masking, internalised shame, overcompensating, and developing hyper-independence and “macho” survival patterns that disconnected her from softness, intimacy, and authenticity.This episode is deeply honest, compassionate, and full of insight for anyone navigating chronic symptoms, nervous system healing, identity shifts, emotional suppression, or the process of learning how to feel safe being fully themselves.In This Episode• The connection between chronic symptoms and survival patterns• How shame, masking, and hypervigilance impact the nervous system• Growing up feeling unsafe to fully be yourself• The hidden emotional roots of chronic pain and mind-body symptoms• Why people-pleasing, perfectionism, and overachieving are survival strategies• How repression and self-erasure disconnect us from authenticity• The relationship between vulnerability, shame, and healing• Why sensitivity is not weakness — and can actually become a gift• Learning to stop controlling and start regulating• How symptoms often act as guideposts toward deeper truth and healing• The role of connection, self-compassion, and nervous system safety in recovery• Why healing is not about becoming perfect — but becoming more fully yourselfAbout Scotty StilesScotty Stiles is the founder of How to Heal Chronic Pain and a Pain Elimination Coach & Mindbody Practitioner based in Toronto, Canada.After overcoming more than 15 years of debilitating chronic back, hip, shoulder, foot, and wrist pain using a mind-body approach, Scotty now helps others uncover their innate ability to heal by addressing nervous system sensitisation, emotional repression, chronic stress, and learned neural pathways.His work combines neuroscience, mindfulness, somatic awareness, Pain Reprocessing Therapy, emotional healing, and nervous system regulation.Connect With ScottyWebsitehttps://howtohealchronicpain.caInstagramwww.instagram.com/howtohealchronicpain TikTokhttps://www.tiktok.com/@howtohealchronicpainYouTubehttps://youtube.com/@UC4ZxsVpwHsQCcB_YoYh0t7A Book a Free Discovery Callhttp://calendly.com/howtohealchronicpain About AoifeAoife is a mind-body and success coach who helps sensitive, driven women heal chronic symptoms, regulate their nervous systems, and create lives that feel aligned, expansive, and true.After healing herself from decades of chronic pain and illness, she now teaches the same compassionate, practical tools that helped her break free from survival mode and step into deeper self-worth, authenticity, and purpose.Connect with AoifeWebsitehttps://aoifemindbody.comInstagramhttps://www.instagram.com/aoife_mindbodycoaching/Listen to the PodcastSpotifyhttps://open.spotify.com/show/42UUCIyJo7cGz93Q4MYrAbApple Podcastshttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/thats-exactly-who-she-thinks-she-is/id1879783379#mindbodyhealing #chronicpain #nervoussystemhealing #selfworth #peoplepleasing #hypervigilance #traumahealing #mindbodyconnection #painreprocessingtherapy #healingjourney</p>
June 8, 2026
How I Stopped Tracking Pain & Started Tracking Life | Glimmers, Self-Worth & Mind-Body Healing
<p>In this episode of That’s Exactly Who She Thinks She Is, Aoife shares one of the biggest shifts that changed both her health and her life: learning to stop tracking problems and start tracking life.After years of chronic pain, IBS, anxiety, hypervigilance, and survival-mode thinking, Aoife realised her mind had been trained to focus almost exclusively on danger, symptoms, problems, and what was wrong. </p><p><br /></p><p>She explains how this pattern kept her disconnected from herself, trapped in fear, and constantly searching for the next thing to fix.In this episode, she introduces the concept of “glimmers” small moments of joy, connection, safety, growth, aliveness, and self-recognition and explains why learning to notice and celebrate them became a foundational part of healing her nervous system, raising her self-worth, and reconnecting with herself.This is not about toxic positivity or controlling your thoughts. It’s about learning how to direct your attention toward life instead of endlessly reinforcing pain, fear, and self-erasure.This episode is for sensitive, driven women who feel disconnected from themselves, stuck in survival mode, or exhausted from constantly analysing problems while still feeling deeply unfulfilled.In This Episode• What “glimmers” are and why they matter• The difference between tracking problems vs tracking life• Why hyper-focusing on symptoms can reinforce fear and stress patterns• The connection between attention, nervous system patterns, and healing• Why Aoife rejects rigid “mindset” culture and toxic positivity• How self-erasure disconnects women from joy, pleasure, and authenticity• Why many women struggle to answer questions like “What brings you joy?”• The role of self-worth in healing chronic symptoms and changing your life• How small moments of connection and joy begin rewiring the nervous system• Why growth and boundaries are also “glimmers” worth celebrating• Learning to celebrate yourself when nobody else understands your growthAbout AoifeAoife is a mind-body and success coach who helps sensitive, driven women heal chronic symptoms, regulate their nervous systems, and create lives that feel aligned, expansive, and true.After healing herself from decades of chronic pain and illness, she now teaches the same compassionate, practical tools that helped her break free from survival mode and step into deeper health, self-worth, and purpose.Websitehttps://aoifemindbody.comInstagramhttps://www.instagram.com/aoife_mindbodycoaching/Listen to the PodcastSpotifyhttps://open.spotify.com/show/42UUCIyJo7cGz93Q4MYrAbApple Podcastshttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/thats-exactly-who-she-thinks-she-is/id1879783379#mindbodyconnection #selfworth #nervoussystemhealing #chronicillness #glimmers #healingjourney #mindbodyhealing #selfhealing #podcastforwomen #traumahealing</p>
June 1, 2026
Why Trauma Healing Isn’t Working (Do This First Instead)!
<p><strong>Trauma Healing That Actually Works: Why You Need Safety First</strong></p><p>In this episode, Aoife shares a deeply personal and transformative shift in how she approached trauma healing moving away from force, digging, and overwhelm, and into a grounded, self-led process rooted in safety and self-worth.</p><p>For years, Aoife understood the link between trauma, health, and life outcomes. But trying to force trauma to surface and resolve left her feeling more broken, dysregulated, and overwhelmed.</p><p>Through lived experience, she discovered that true healing doesn’t come from digging up the past while still unsafe within yourself it comes from becoming a safe place for those parts of you to return to.</p><p>This episode is an invitation to stop forcing your healing, and instead build the internal safety, regulation, and self-worth that allows your past to integrate in a way that is natural, supported, and sustainable.</p><p><u><strong>Key Topics</strong></u></p><ul><li>Why forcing trauma healing can leave you feeling worse, not better</li><li>The connection between trauma, chronic symptoms, and blocked goals</li><li>How unresolved trauma lives in the body and subconscious</li><li>Why digging up memories while dysregulated can be harmful</li><li>The role of self-worth and internal safety in true healing</li><li>Moving beyond “positive thinking” and working with the nervous system</li><li>The “remember who you are” tool and shifting identity from the inside out</li><li>How healing enmeshment and self-betrayal creates space for integration</li><li>Why memories and trauma resolve naturally when you become a safe container</li><li>Recognizing real healing: “How did I ever tolerate that?” moments</li></ul><p><br></p><p><u><strong>About Aoife</strong></u></p><p>Aoife is a mind-body and success coach who helps sensitive, driven women heal chronic symptoms, regulate their nervous systems, and step into lives of greater expansion, creativity, and authentic connection.</p><p>After healing herself from 30 years of chronic pain and illness, she now teaches the same compassionate tools that helped new levels of health, relationhips and success.</p><p><br></p><p><u><strong>Connect with Aoife</strong></u></p><p>Website<br><a href="https://aoifemindbody.com" target="_new" rel="noopener">https://aoifemindbody.com</a></p><p>Instagram<br><a href="https://www.instagram.com/aoife_mindbodycoaching/" target="_new" rel="noopener">https://www.instagram.com/aoife_mindbodycoaching/</a></p><p><strong>Listen to the Podcast</strong></p><p>Apple Podcasts<br><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/thats-exactly-who-she-thinks-she-is/id1879783379" target="_new" rel="noopener">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/thats-exactly-who-she-thinks-she-is/id1879783379</a><strong></strong></p>
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