That’s So Becoming Of You

About That’s So Becoming Of You

A space for women who are redefining themselves with faith, love and intention. One honest conversation at a time. Expect to feel seen, soft, inspired while journeying through becoming the highest version of yourself.

Publisher

Khosi

Category

society & culture

Language

en

Explicit

No

First episode

1 Nov 2025

Latest episode

28 Sept 2026

Latest episodes

15 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   28 Sept 2026

   What Are We Laying On The Altar?

   What Are We Laying on the Altar? What happens when love becomes a place of worship? In this episode, I’m exploring the idea of women as “altars” within romantic relationships, the beautiful ways love can inspire growth, sacrifice, safety and becoming, but also the ways we can unknowingly place our identity, peace, boundaries and relationship with God on the altar of another person. Because there’s a difference between sacrificing for someone and sacrificing yourself to keep them. I’m asking some uncomfortable questions: What have I sacrificed to keep this relationship?Was that sacrifice love, or was it fear?What have I asked someone else to carry for me?And what happens when we expect another human being to occupy a place that was never meant for them? Maybe healthy love isn’t about finding someone who completes us. Maybe it’s about two people who are willing to become more whole together without making each other God. Two people becoming.Two people surrendering.Two people choosing each other.And both of them still choosing God. What are you laying on the altar? 🤍 That’s So Becoming Of You — Episode 10.

2. 

   28 Aug 2026

   The Legacy We Leave Behind

   What if the legacy we leave behind has less to do with what we accomplished and more to do with how we made people feel? Lately, I’ve been thinking about the kind of woman I want to be remembered as and what I want to leave behind for the people I love, especially the children I hope to have one day. When I think about my grandmother, I don’t think first about what she owned or accomplished. I think about her love. The way she made people feel important. The way her presence made you feel seen, welcomed and cared for. And then I started thinking about the women who came before me, the legacy of love that was passed down to us, and the parts of that legacy I recognize in myself. In this episode, we’re talking about the kind of legacy we’re creating every single day, not just through our achievements, titles or possessions, but through our presence. How do people feel when they’re around you? Do they feel safe? Seen? Loved? Free to be themselves? Or are they leaving your presence feeling smaller than when they arrived? Because maybe legacy isn’t something we leave behind when we’re gone. Maybe we’re leaving something behind every time we leave a room. This is a conversation about love, humanity, motherhood, generational legacy, and the kind of imprint we want our lives to make. And ultimately, it’s an invitation to ask ourselves: What am I leaving behind every time I leave a room? Episode 9: The Legacy We Leave Behind A life doesn’t have to be impressive to be meaningful. Sometimes the greatest legacy is simply making people feel loved.

3. 

   7 Aug 2026

   The Waiting Room

   What do you do when you’ve prayed, trusted, stayed faithful and you’re still waiting? In this episode, I’m sharing one of the most honest conversations I’ve had with God in a long time. Not from the other side of the promise, but from the middle of the waiting. Together, we’ll explore the questions many of us quietly carry but rarely say out loud. What is God doing while we’re waiting? How can we trust that He’s still working when nothing seems to be changing? And what does faith look like when we don’t have the answers we were hoping for? This isn’t an episode filled with easy explanations or neat conclusions. It’s an invitation to wrestle honestly, to bring our questions to God without fear and to discover that faith isn’t the absence of uncertainty, it’s choosing to remain with Him in the middle of it. If you’ve ever wondered whether your prayers are being heard, whether your waiting has a purpose, or whether you’re the exception to God’s promises, I hope this conversation reminds you that you’re not alone. Episode 8: The Waiting Room Sometimes the greatest act of faith isn’t having all the answers, it’s staying in the waiting room with God, trusting that His presence is enough even when His plans aren’t yet visible.

4. 

   31 Jul 2026

   Who Are You Without Your To-Do List?

   Have you ever wondered who you’d be if all the titles, achievements, and responsibilities were taken away? In this episode, I’m reflecting on a belief I carried for much of my life, that my worth was tied to how useful I was. From being labeled “the lazy one” growing up, to constantly trying to prove myself through discipline, productivity, and achievement, I slowly realized I’d confused being valuable with being useful. We’ll talk about the pressure to earn our place through what we do, the guilt that often comes with resting, and the quiet ways we attach our identity to our roles: parent, spouse, entrepreneur, employee, creator, student. They’re all beautiful assignments, but they were never meant to become our identity. This is an honest conversation about burnout, performance, and the freedom that comes when we stop asking, “What can I do to be enough?” and start believing that our worth was never something we had to earn in the first place. If you’ve ever felt guilty for slowing down, afraid of disappointing people, or convinced that your value depends on your productivity, I hope this episode reminds you of something your heart may have forgotten: You are more than what you produce. Episode 7: Who Are You Without Your To-Do List? Because your greatest identity isn’t found in what you do, it’s found in who you are before you ever do a single thing.

5. 

   24 Jul 2026

   The Grief No One Talks About

   What if growth isn’t just about becoming someone new? What if it’s also about grieving the person you’ve outgrown? In this episode, I’m opening up about a part of healing I never expected; the quiet grief that comes with saying goodbye to an old version of yourself. The version who lived in survival mode, carried impossible dreams, questioned her worth, and did the best she could with what she knew. For so long, I believed I had to leave her behind with frustration. But I’ve come to realize that she doesn’t deserve my resentment, she deserves my compassion. Together, we’ll explore what it means to honor the person who carried us through difficult seasons while giving ourselves permission to embrace who we’re becoming. We’ll talk about the unfamiliarity of peace after years of chaos, why growth can sometimes feel like loss, and how healing isn’t about rejecting your past it’s about thanking it and gently letting it go. If you’ve ever looked in the mirror and felt like you don’t quite recognize the person you’re becoming, this conversation is for you. Episode 6: The Grief No One Talks About Because sometimes the most loving thing you can say to the person you used to be is, “Thank you for getting me this far. I’ll take it from here.”

6. 

   10 Jul 2026

   The Life That’s Already Here

   What if the life you’ve been praying for is already unfolding and you’re just moving too fast to notice it? In this episode, I reflect on what coming back home has taught me about gratitude, presence, and seeing life through a different lens. I share how returning to a familiar place made me realize that while my surroundings hadn’t changed much, I had and because I’d changed, I was finally able to experience my life with more peace, more openness, and more appreciation for the ordinary moments I once overlooked. We talk about how losing weight gave me far more than a different body. It gave me my confidence back, strengthened my self-trust, deepened my faith in God’s timing, and helped me stop living in constant survival mode. Most importantly, it taught me that gratitude isn’t something we practice once life becomes perfect it’s something that transforms the way we experience the life we already have. If you’ve been rushing toward the next chapter, constantly waiting for life to begin, I hope this conversation invites you to slow down, be present, and recognize the quiet ways God has already been at work. Episode 5: The Life That’s Already Here A conversation about gratitude, presence, and discovering that some of life’s greatest miracles are already in front of you.

7. 

   27 Jun 2026

   Looking Through Someone Else’s Window

   Have you ever wondered if you’re doing your relationship with God… wrong? For a long time, I quietly believed everyone else knew God better than I did. Their prayers seemed deeper. Their discipline looked stronger. They spoke about hearing God’s voice so confidently that I started questioning my own faith and wondering where I stood with Him. In this episode, I share how comparison slowly pulled me away from the honest, personal relationship God was inviting me into and the simple prayer that changed everything: “God… how do You want me to know You?” Together, we’ll talk about comparison, calling, spiritual rhythms, and why faith was never meant to look the same for everyone. Because maybe the goal isn’t to have a relationship with God that looks impressive. Maybe the goal is to have one that’s real.

8. 

   19 Jun 2026

   Showing Up Without The Spark

   Have you ever delayed a dream, a goal, or a decision because you were waiting to feel ready? In this episode, I’m sharing a conversation I almost didn’t have. I didn’t feel inspired. I didn’t feel particularly creative. And for a moment, I considered skipping this week’s episode altogether. But that feeling led me to a bigger question: How much of our lives are we putting on hold while we wait for motivation, confidence, certainty, or the perfect moment to begin? Together, we explore the difference between inspiration and consistency, why feelings make wonderful companions but terrible leaders, and the lessons I’ve learned from showing up even when I don’t feel like it. Because maybe the life you’re dreaming about isn’t built on your most inspired days. Maybe it’s built on the ordinary days you choose to show up anyway. If you’ve been waiting to feel ready, this conversation is for you. Episode 3: Showing Up Without The Spark. A reminder that faith, growth, and becoming often begin long before inspiration arrives.

9. 

   12 Jun 2026

   The Person I Was Quitting On

   “You’re a quitter.” It wasn’t what my mom said that hurt me the most, it was realizing she was right. In this episode, I share the conversation that forced me to confront a painful truth: I wasn’t abandoning my relationships, my business, or the people I loved. I was abandoning myself. We talk about broken promises, self-trust, dreaming about becoming “her” without believing I was capable of becoming her, blaming God for the life I wasn’t building, and the random Wednesday in July 2025 that changed everything. This isn’t just a story about losing weight. It’s a story about finally showing up for myself, dying to the habits that kept me small, and discovering that transformation happens one kept promise at a time. If you’ve ever struggled to trust yourself, follow through, or believe you’re worthy of your own effort, this conversation is for you. Because maybe the person you’ve been waiting for isn’t someone new. Maybe she’s the version of you who decided to stay.

10. 

    5 Jun 2026

    The Pause That Changed Everything

    After months away, I’m back and not as the same person who left. In this Season Two premiere, I share the lessons I learned during a season of stillness, spiritual pruning, and deep uncertainty. From idolising healing and building an altar around my emotions to learning how to trust God when I couldn’t see the way forward, this episode is an honest reflection on surrender, identity, and finding peace in the unknown. If you’ve ever found yourself caught between who you were and who you’re becoming, this conversation is for you. Because sometimes the pause really does change everything. Welcome back.

11. 

    12 Jan 2026

    Starting Soft

    This is a gentle start to the year. No pressure, no big declarations, just a quiet check-in and a love note to the season ahead. In this episode, I’m sharing where I’m starting from, what I’m choosing to release, and why moving slowly can still be intentional and powerful. If you’re entering this year feeling tender, unsure, or in need of a softer pace, this episode is an invitation to pause, breathe, and begin again without rushing. Press play when you’re ready.

12. 

    24 Nov 2025

    The Soft Life As A Spiritual Discipline

    In this episode, I explore the “soft life” beyond aesthetics, as a posture of peace, surrender, emotional maturity, and spiritual alignment. We talk about shedding survival mode, protecting your spirit, slowing down, and allowing God to lead you beside still waters again.

13. 

    15 Nov 2025

    A War Against Women: What God Says vs What Society Shows

    In this episode, we confront the heartbreaking reality of gender-based violence and femicide through a biblical, spiritual, and emotional lens. We explore God’s original design for women, the spiritual war declared on the female in Genesis, the role of men in society, and why darkness fears what women carry. Inspired by scripture and insights from Lisa Bevere’s “The Fight for Female”, this conversation calls women to healing and identity and calls men back to accountability and purpose. This episode is a prayer, a truth-telling, and a reminder: God sees His daughters, and He fights for them.

14. 

    8 Nov 2025

    Offence: The Trap I Refuse To Fall Into Again

    Offence tried to take me out this week, in my emotions, my work life and my relationships. But God reminded me of something deeper; offence is bait, a trap designed to steal your peace and cloud your perspective. In this episode, I walk through how I navigated offence, how God corrected my posture and how He used my community as His mouthpieces when my mind was too loud to hear Him. Let’s talk about healing, alignment and choosing not to live in offence.

15. 

    1 Nov 2025

    The Magic Behind The Name

    Every name holds a story, and this one is mine. In this episode, I take you behind the scenes of how That’s So Becoming Of You came to life. From a passing thought to a purpose-filled space for honest conversations about faith, femininity, healing, intentionality and becoming.

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