The Accountabilityy Hour with Ashley Reilly

About The Accountabilityy Hour with Ashley Reilly

A (life) process of putting your needs first so you're present in today's moments and find your fulfillments that comes from within. Welcome to a good sprinkle of accountability and understanding so we connect well with the ones we love. Thank you for coming! daydreamslowlyy.substack.com (https://daydreamslowlyy.substack.com?utm_medium=podcast)

Publisher

Ashley Reilly

Category

education · society & culture

Language

en

Explicit

Yes

First episode

19 Oct 2025

Latest episode

12 Oct 2026

Latest episodes

39 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   12 Oct 2026

   Right Person- Right Time

   EVERYTHING is Happening at the Right Time. Actively learning sometimes the best choice is to be open expressing and holding space for messy emotions 💯 And that’s exactly where we are meant to be, not somewhere else. Not feeling something else except what we feel. And there’s no such thing as wrong timing.⏱️ It’s always right timing for what we experience.✨ Aligment is a Funny Thing. I think of it like a ferris wheel. sometimes we are aligning with others in the sky…🎡 But most of the time we are rising and falling at very different times than others. That can make us feel alone in our situations, but we are never alone in our experiences just at a different height and viewpoint ✨ We Want to All Be the Same. A struggle of human existence is often wanting to be similar and comparing ourselves when we are meant to be individualistic. Ourselves.💫 Everything that is happening is meant to be happening. It’s a push-pull dynamic of life where we teeter-totter across an invisible line of societal groups and families… 🙊🙉🙈 so we can have safety and connection of community while also being our own unique person with an opinion who stands out in a crowd.🗣️🙋🏼♀️ You Don’t Have to Choose. It doesnt have to be a choice between being ourselves and having connections.🫧 Both can co-exist. But certainly be yourself first and foremost.🤍 And add in connections that flow well for the time.🫶🏼♥️ Ashley Reilly's: The Accountabilityy Hour is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a subscriber. Our Best Armor… 👉🏼It’s usually our best armor, our ego, that keep us from feeling close in connections. 👉🏼👈🏼But people are reaching out there hands to us, and it’s our choice if we are feeling open to holding it. Regardless, Give Yourself Grace. ❤️ you’re only human. 🧡 you’re doing your best. ❤️ You’re probably slowing down for fall time, so take things a day at a time.🫶🏼 🎃 Thanks for being here, and take care! Ashley Reilly Get full access to Ashley Reilly's: The Accountabilityy Hour at daydreamslowlyy.substack.com/subscribe (https://daydreamslowlyy.substack.com/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_4)

2. 

   27 Aug 2026

   Divine Timing

   The World WE Live in. I am surprised about Dolly Parton’s recent passing this week. Mostly because I personally think it’s unfortunate the public couldn’t have the benefit of mourning Dolly while she was here (like how we got a Farewell Tour with Ozzy Osbourne). Especially because she had had a long, unique career in the spotlight coming from originally, humble beginnings “A Coat of Many Colors (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w_-YbWHs6DE)”. I can understand Dolly Parton probably was not interested in being bothered or marketed off of while she was dying, but I feel you can set that boundary with not doing tours or events while being transparent with where you are actually at instead of lying about future events you are never going to be able to attend. However, celebrities and their teams make their own personal private choices.🤷🏼♀️ Thanks for reading Ashley Reilly's: The Accountabilityy Hour ! This post is public so feel free to share it. To Be or To Not Be Vulnerable… Though we all have the right to share or hide our vulnerabilities, I personally value transparency so individuals can properly relate to you and where you’re at. And most importantly, so we can go through this crazy human experience and learn and lean on each other together. If you’ve seen any interviews of Hayden Panettiere in recent years, she’s definitely struggling and it’s an extremely unfortunate and public example of how struggling alone can be detrimental. (my memory of course also goes to Amy Winehouse OD, and how her team encouraged her to keep performing but didn’t seem to get her any help.) Being human is so hard. We are all struggling and we should not have to do it alone. No one can manage or take our pain away from us, but it makes a world of a difference to connect and speak with people who understand where you’re at and empathize with you. Famous people and celebrities are in the same boat as us regular folks: it’s just a larger often shinier faster yacht. And maybe while our small boat takes 40 long years to sink or to look crappy, celebrity boats fall apart MUCH FASTER. I think people watching and connecting with influencers or other’s on the globe a because we see them go through struggles and WE are also going through struggles! They are at a grander scale, however, they are being vulnerable (well, theyre filming lol) with their life and I think we ALL need more of that. 🤔We need more filming and celebrities?? Well we certainly need more vulnerability. Celebrities are an example of how we see so much of their lives and we appreciate it because IT’S REAL. And I think it is pointing at a issue where maybe we are not so real in our lives typically, or we walk around with these masks and these shields we don’t let down til we are in our own home. We Need Less Masks. 🎭 We need less fear. It’s easy to say, but not always so simple to do. If we feel there are repercussions for being ourself, why would we be ourself?? So you have to ask yourself, what kind of repercussions would I face for being who I want to be and why? what would happen if I followed my passions? is failure an absolute guarantee (which it never is) or something I strongly believe will happen? I often think of David Burns book for anxiety and fear (When Panic Attacks (https://www.goodreads.com/en/book/show/205913.When_Panic_Attacks)) and so much of anxiety is putting off something we can do and worries are taking over our behavior. But once we go up the a ladder, once we face our fears, we learn in our nervous system with enough time doing the activity that it’s not so scary or detrimental because we ARE STILL HERE, we are JUST FINE during and after. Thanks for reading Ashley Reilly's: The Accountabilityy Hour ! This post is public so feel free to share it. Ashley Reilly's: The Accountabilityy Hour is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber. So. What would you do, who would you be, how would you dress if you were honoring your inner child? You won’t fail you because look how far you have gotten yourself!! YOU can trust that your inner child. YOUR inner desires and dreams are meant for you. They’re just waiting for you to participate and to notice your passions and current desires. Thank you for being here! Ashley Reilly Get full access to Ashley Reilly's: The Accountabilityy Hour at daydreamslowlyy.substack.com/subscribe (https://daydreamslowlyy.substack.com/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_4)

3. 

   6 Aug 2026

   Men Need to Put THEIR Desires FIRST

   YOU make the Rules. The only things impossible are the things you wont try or won’t allow yourself to have. Rules are in place to keep people safe, but are the rules keeping you in a self-made box? If you don’t like the position of the things in your life, the great news is YOU have ALL the power to change them. Ashley Reilly's: The Accountabilityy Hour is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber. The Only Thing Impossible is What You Don’t Try. Do you ever feel like a life you want to live is VERY FAR from the life you CURRENTLY have?? Do you ever feel like you leave things unsaid or you never speak your mind because it would make things messy? DO you ever feel like everything you do is for… everybody else EXCEPT yourself?? You may want to consider taking a break of carrying the rules and limitations this world, society, and other people put on you, and screw it. Do things that make YOU happy, first and foremost. It’s YOUR LIFE: live it how YOU want. ❤️ Thanks for reading Ashley Reilly's: The Accountabilityy Hour ! This post is public so feel free to share it. Listen and Ask Questions. When I don’t understand something, I try to slow down my listening and my reacting. If I am more present, I am more likely to listen clearly and people don’t always need our reactions, just our presence and active listening.🩵 AND the SAME is great when you don’t know how you feel, or don’t understand where someone else is at. Slowing down, listening to their words and the emotions in their voice or opinion, and asking questions is a great start. Ashley Reilly's: The Accountabilityy Hour is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber. Thank you for being here! Ashley Reilly Get full access to Ashley Reilly's: The Accountabilityy Hour at daydreamslowlyy.substack.com/subscribe (https://daydreamslowlyy.substack.com/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_4)

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