The Anfisa Shimkevich Podcast

About The Anfisa Shimkevich Podcast

Welcome to Elegant Erotica — a sanctuary for sensitive hearts returning home to their bodies, their desire, and their deepest truths. I’m your host, Anfisa Shimkevich, guiding you through the tender terrain of sexuality, love, intimacy, and the raw emotional landscapes we’re rarely taught to navigate. Here, sensuality meets soul. Wisdom meets vulnerability. And erotic awakening becomes a path of coming home to yourself. Here, we explore: ✨ Essential knowledge—common topics broken down for easy understanding ✨ Practical tools—to enhance intimacy, communication, and connection ✨ Raw human experience—real stories that connect and empower This is a space for the ones who feel deeply, who’ve lost themselves in love, who carry shame in their bones, or who long to feel desire again. A space where tenderness becomes strength, sensitivity becomes intelligence, and every conversation is an invitation to remember: You are not broken. You are becoming. Elegant Erotica is not just a podcast — it is a lantern for the heart, a companion for your healing, and a home for your longing. Let’s rise, reclaim, and reimagine how we love — with truth, with safety, with sensual elegance. With all my warmth, Anfisa

Publisher

Anfisa Shimkevich

Category

education · health & fitness

Language

en

Explicit

Yes

First episode

2 Aug 2024

Latest episode

2 Dec 2025

Latest episodes

28 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   2 Dec 2025

   Ep.6 - The Fire of Desire: Why We Lose Ourselves in Attraction

   In this episode, we step into the fire — the place where desire becomes so intense it pulls us out of our center and into something that feels bigger than logic. Why do we lose ourselves in certain attractions? Why does desire sometimes feel like obsession, magnetism, surrender, or fate? We explore the energetic and psychological undercurrents behind overwhelming desire, including the shadow aspects Harville Hendrix has written about so extensively: the hidden, rejected, or forgotten parts of ourselves that call for reunion through attraction. His work on the “imago” and the unconscious pull toward our shadow qualities lays the foundation for this conversation. Inside the episode, we explore: 🔥 The deeper nature of desire and why certain connections hit harder than others 🔥 Harville Hendrix’s lens on shadow parts and how they shape our attractions 🔥 The real reason you lose yourself in desire — especially with specific people 🔥 The 2 pathways through intense desire (and why neither is wrong) 🔥 How desire becomes a teacher, a mirror, and in some cases… a fire of transformation This episode answers the common questions: “Why do I lose myself when I desire someone?” “What is this intensity trying to show me?” “How do I move through desire without abandoning myself?” We talk about desire as a force that can either celebrate your wholeness or call you back to the parts you left behind… and how to recognize the difference. Tune in if you’re ready to understand the fire instead of fear it — and to meet your own desire with clarity, confidence, and power.

2. 

   23 Jul 2025

   Ep.5-Self-Pleasure: Awkward, Holy, Real AF

   Olaaa! Thank you for being here. Here I dive into Self-Pleasure on my journey from being totally against it to my life being incredibly enriched and changed as a result of it. Vulnerable. Honest. Real. What to expect: my personal journey through resistance how my life changed with self-pleasure the golden loop of endless energy how to self-pleasure Enjooooy! With love, Anfisa Connect on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/hearttoheartcy/)

3. 

   7 May 2025

   Ep.4-The Dark Side of Motherhood and Beyond with Luci Lampe

   In this episode of Elegant Erotica, Anfisa is joined by the radiant Luci Lampe—mom of five, trauma-informed sex & relationship coach, artist, and author. Together, they explore what it means to live fully expressed: from integrating the dark and light feminine, to navigating motherhood, fear, and freedom. What to expect: The unspoken sides to Motherhood Embracing the dark of the human condition. Integration of dark and light feminine energies is essential for wholeness.and so much more... Guest: Luci Lampe Connect on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/lucilampe/) Check out Luci’s website (https://lucilampe.com/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaYkkmTvpVciXIeSVGBOwbUCsY-27vtFrXkOwj9xMOcEz0seSMaqJTU3V-U_aem_uHX5SSyv3bi0xO9Kfcv1ZQ)

Reach and audience

Public platform figures. Ratings count people who left a rating, not total listeners.

Spotify

4.6 / 5

9 ratings

Podcast Authority Score: 33 / 100

A composite of feed quality, social presence, YouTube performance and engagement. Read the methodology.

Quality

35

Social presence

94

YouTube

0

Engagement

32

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