Welcome to "The Answer is YOU Podcast" where you take the spotlight in your own journey towards transforming connections! Dive deep into your heart and transform the relationships in your life by shifting internally.
Join Jane to learn more about relationship dynamics, bring awareness to trauma and unserving beliefs and learn to heal and shift so you can create the thriving relationships you desire.
We'll explore the dynamic landscapes of relationships, awareness, and self-discovery. Remember, you are the one you have been looking for. You are the answer to your prayers. The answer is YOU.
Is there a correlation between Sadness and Procrastination?
For me, it is clear yes! When it comes to feeling emotions that are hard to feel, Sadness is most of the time on top of the list.
But what happens when we push sadness away? When we push sadness away, it will affect other areas of our life as a way to bring awareness to what we didn't allow ourselves to feel.
For me it showed as a strong resistance to move forward with my goals without interrupting myself constantly. How I realized that sadness was holding me back? Through self-awareness. When we bring awareness to patterns and behaviors we can look at them and shift them. For me it was questioning why I had so much resistance moving forward with projects close to my heart? The answer was clear over time: When I sat down to work on something that would bring me joy, it would also connect me back to pain. This created a lot of resistance because sadness started screaming at me once it was just me on my laptop with my thoughts.
How I shifted it? By sitting with sadness. So much sadness.. This isn't an easy task but it is necessary. Because the moment you work through an emotion like sadness that is blocking you, you free yourself of what is blocking you and finally move forward.
Maybe it is sadness holding you back? Allow yourself to sit with it. What may look on the surface like procrastination might actually be an emotion you suppressed.
If you have a hard time sitting with sadness or bringing awareness to unserving patterns, let's work together.
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4 Mar 2025
How to Start Creating Boundaries
Learning to create boundaries is an essential part of healing.
Boundaries allow you to remain safe within connections according to your own needs and terms.
But how do we start implementing boundaries?
Especially when we are people pleaser it can feel hard at first because it feels like we are letting people down by creating boundaries, but boundaries are essential for connections to grow and thrive.
So how do we start? The most important 3 steps to start creating boundaries are:
1. Feeling into your body and bringing awareness to how you feel when you are around someone.
2. Clear and neutral communication about how someone is making you feel without blaming, sharing from your perspective and about your emotional state.
3. Learning to say "no". "No" creates an ultimate boundary supporting your mental, physical and emotional wellbeing.
Tune into the episode and let us know what you think! Did we forget an important point in learning to set boundaries?
Follow us along on IG @tanatarahealing www.instagram.com/tanatarahealing (http://www.instagram.com/tanatarahealing) for more insights on Mind-Body Healing.
Ready to move forward in your healing journey? Get your Free Anxiety & Stress Reset today: https://stan.store/tanatarahealing (https://stan.store/tanatarahealing)
Ready to dive deep? We offer transformative 1-1 Somatic Breathwork Journeys as well as a 4-Week Mind-Body Healing Program in-person as well as virtually.
Schedule your Discovery Call today: https://tanatara.as.me/discoverycall (https://tanatara.as.me/discoverycall)
25 Feb 2025
3 Steps to Move out of Victim Mentality
Victim Mentality is something we can slip into even with a lot of self-awareness and self-reflection. Sometimes it is just valid or at least it feels valid to blame others for painful experiences. But is this really serving us? Yes, if someone's action is causing us pain it is ok to be hurt, to feel angry and to feel sad. But after the initial emotion is felt, we will not be able to move on unless we step back into our power. How do we do this? This episode is about three steps to take to step out of victim mentality back into your power: Responsibility, action and forgiveness.
Tune into the episode and tell us what you think! What step would you add? Let us know!
Follow us along on IG @tanatarahealing www.instagram.com/tanatarahealing (http://www.instagram.com/tanatarahealing) for more insights on Mind-Body Healing.
Ready to move forward in your healing journey? Get your Free Anxiety & Stress Reset today: https://stan.store/tanatarahealing (https://stan.store/tanatarahealing)
Ready to dive deep? We offer transformative 1-1 Somatic Breathwork Journeys as well as a 4-Week Mind-Body Healing Program in-person as well as virtually.
Schedule your Discovery Call today: https://tanatara.as.me/discoverycall (https://tanatara.as.me/discoverycall)
18 Feb 2025
3 Red Flags You Need to Pay Attention to
When we feel anxious or stressed in certain connections at all times, we need to pay attention to that feeling. When we feel something is wrong with us because someone in our life make us feel this way, this is a red flag. If we feel we cannot show up authentically or feel the need to hide parts of ourselves, this is the moment to question, if this connection is aligned or not.Follow us along on IG @tanatarahealing www.instagram.com/tanatarahealing (www.instagram.com/tanatarahealing) for more insights on Mind-Body Healing.Ready to move forward in your healing journey? Get your Free Anxiety & Stress Reset today: https://stan.store/tanatarahealing (https://stan.store/tanatarahealing)Ready to dive deep? We offer transformative 1-1 Somatic Breathwork Journeys as well as a 4-Week Mind-Body Healing Program in-person as well as virtually.Schedule your Discovery Call today: https://tanatara.as.me/discoverycall (https://tanatara.as.me/discoverycall)
11 Feb 2025
How Triggers Can Help Us Heal
Triggers move us out of our center. When we are triggered by a person or circumstance, we often blame the person or the circumstance that moved us out of our balance. Of course, because we were fine until it happened, right? Maybe no. Everything that moves us out of balance and triggers us, does so because it activates an unhealed part within. When we do not get defensive but allow ourselves to use the trigger to learn about ourselves and our wounding, we are healing and evolving. Tune in to learn how you can use a trigger as your opportunity for growth.
Follow us along on IG @tanatarahealingwww.instagram.com/tanatarahealing (www.instagram.com/tanatarahealing) for more insights on Mind-Body Healing.
Ready to move forward in your healing journey? Get your Free Anxiety & Stress Reset today:https://stan.store/tanatarahealing (https://stan.store/tanatarahealing)
Ready to dive deep? We offer transformative 1-1 Somatic Breathwork Journeys as well as a 4-Week Mind-Body Healing Program in-person as well as virtually.
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18 Sept 2024
How to Move on From Hurt in Relationships
When someone didn't show up for you or shows you they don't care, how can move on from that hurt. This is an episode about feeling your feelings and finding the blessing in the lesson. This is an episode leading you back to your power and let go if needed of what is not serving so you can call in what is.
Where to find Jane: On Instagram & YouTube @tanatarahealing
For podcast episode ideas, topics you are interested in and feedback, pls email Jane at jane@tan-atara.com.
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9 Sept 2024
When They Make You Question Your Worth
When someone makes us feel unworthy, makes us question our own worth or our worth in that connection, what does it reveal about us.
How do we define feeling worthy and how is it defined for us in relationship?
When are we in a trauma response and how do we shift it? How do we move from a lack of worthiness toward secure and confident?
Where to find Jane: On Instagram& YouTube @tanatarahealing
Where to find more Podcast Info and Relationship Content: On Instagram @theanswerisyou.podcast
For podcast episode ideas, topics you are interested in and feedback, pls email Jane at jane@tan-atara.com.
19 Jun 2024
WHAT RELATIONSHIP DYNAMICS REVEAL ABOUT YOU
Relationships are our greatest opportunity to grow, to heal and evolve. Every trigger, every difficult dynamic or situation is our chance to discover something new about ourselves. When we question relationship dynamics with a focus on us and our part in it, we learn about past pain we are still holding on to and unserving beliefs we carry. Especially toxic relationship dynamics with a narcissistic friend or partner truly allow you to see where you need to take responsibility for yourself and the life you desire to live. Relationships are our mirror if we dare to look at the mirror presented to us.
Where to find Jane: On Instagram @tanatarahealing
Where to find more Podcast Info and Relationship Content:On Instagram @theanswerisyou.podcast
For podcast episode ideas, topics you are interested in and feedback, pls email Jane at jane@tan-atara.com.
11 Jun 2024
WHY VULNERABILITY HEALS RELATIONSHIPS
We can only strengthen and deepen relationships if we allow ourselves to communicate our fears, our pain and our insecurities. When we communicate what is in our heart, we allow others to see us on a deeper level, we allow them to see our heart. This allows true connections to deepen.
Where to find Jane: On Instagram @tanatarahealing
Where to find more Podcast Info and Relationship Content:On Instagram @theanswerisyou.podcast
For podcast episode ideas, topics you are interested in and feedback, pls email Jane at jane@tan-atara.com.
4 Jun 2024
HOW TO MOVE TOWARD HEALTHY COMMUNICATION
Starting weekly updates on my personal challenges from the week prior and how I managed and work through them. This week was about an intense experience within my body after challenging communication.
Learn 3 keys to improve communication within relationships to help you deepen the relationships with yourself and others.
Where to find Jane: On Instagram @tanatarahealing
Where to find more Podcast Info and Relationship Content:
On Instagram @theanswerisyou.podcast
𝐈𝐟 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐰𝐚𝐧𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐝𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐝𝐞𝐞𝐩𝐞𝐫 𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐨 𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟-𝐝𝐢𝐬𝐜𝐨𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐲 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐭𝐫𝐚𝐮𝐦𝐚 𝐡𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠, 𝐉𝐚𝐧𝐞 𝐨𝐟𝐟𝐞𝐫𝐬 𝐦𝐨𝐧𝐭𝐡𝐥𝐲 𝐕𝐢𝐫𝐭𝐮𝐚𝐥 𝐁𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐭𝐡𝐰𝐨𝐫𝐤 𝐉𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐧𝐞𝐲𝐬
https://TANATARA.as.me/virtualsomaticbreathworkgroupsession
𝐈𝐟 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐥𝐨𝐨𝐤𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐫𝐞𝐥𝐚𝐱𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧, 𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐭 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐢𝐧𝐧𝐞𝐫 𝐩𝐞𝐚𝐜𝐞, 𝐉𝐚𝐧𝐞 𝐨𝐟𝐟𝐞𝐫𝐬 𝐦𝐨𝐧𝐭𝐡𝐥𝐲 𝐕𝐢𝐫𝐭𝐮𝐚𝐥 𝐒𝐨𝐮𝐧𝐝 𝐈𝐦𝐦𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬
https://TANATARA.as.me/virtualsoundimmersiongroupsession
For podcast episode ideas, topics you are interested in and feedback, pls email Jane at jane@tan-atara.com.
28 May 2024
WHAT BOUNDARIES REVEAL ABOUT YOU
Boundaries are our opportunity to create the internal saftey needed to fully express ourselves. Only if we courageously share what we need in order to feel safe and stop overextending ourselves, we truly step into our power and create the healthy relationships we desire.
Where to find Jane: On Instagram @tanatarahealing
Where to find more Podcast Info and Relationship Content:
On Instagram @theanswerisyou.podcast
𝐈𝐟 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐰𝐚𝐧𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐝𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐝𝐞𝐞𝐩𝐞𝐫 𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐨 𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟-𝐝𝐢𝐬𝐜𝐨𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐲 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐭𝐫𝐚𝐮𝐦𝐚 𝐡𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠, 𝐉𝐚𝐧𝐞 𝐨𝐟𝐟𝐞𝐫𝐬 𝐦𝐨𝐧𝐭𝐡𝐥𝐲 𝐕𝐢𝐫𝐭𝐮𝐚𝐥 𝐁𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐭𝐡𝐰𝐨𝐫𝐤 𝐉𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐧𝐞𝐲𝐬
https://TANATARA.as.me/virtualsomaticbreathworkgroupsession
𝐈𝐟 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐥𝐨𝐨𝐤𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐫𝐞𝐥𝐚𝐱𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧, 𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐭 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐢𝐧𝐧𝐞𝐫 𝐩𝐞𝐚𝐜𝐞, 𝐉𝐚𝐧𝐞 𝐨𝐟𝐟𝐞𝐫𝐬 𝐦𝐨𝐧𝐭𝐡𝐥𝐲 𝐕𝐢𝐫𝐭𝐮𝐚𝐥 𝐒𝐨𝐮𝐧𝐝 𝐈𝐦𝐦𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬
https://TANATARA.as.me/virtualsoundimmersiongroupsession
For podcast episode ideas, topics you are interested in and feedback, pls email Jane at jane@tan-atara.com.
20 May 2024
WHAT THEM GASLIGHTING YOU REVEALS ABOUT YOU
What is gaslighting? Why is it so detrimental for our mental health? And why do we stay in relationships in which gaslighting takes place? We can only start healing when we know what internal causes us to stay in relationships where emotional abuse takes place. Look with me at reasons why we stay in places where our feelings and experiences are not validated and used against us.
Where to find Jane: On Instagram @tanatarahealing
Where to find more Podcast Info and Relationship Content:
On Instagram @theanswerisyou.podcast
𝐈𝐟 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐰𝐚𝐧𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐝𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐝𝐞𝐞𝐩𝐞𝐫 𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐨 𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟-𝐝𝐢𝐬𝐜𝐨𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐲 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐭𝐫𝐚𝐮𝐦𝐚 𝐡𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠, 𝐉𝐚𝐧𝐞 𝐨𝐟𝐟𝐞𝐫𝐬 𝐦𝐨𝐧𝐭𝐡𝐥𝐲 𝐕𝐢𝐫𝐭𝐮𝐚𝐥 𝐁𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐭𝐡𝐰𝐨𝐫𝐤 𝐉𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐧𝐞𝐲𝐬
https://TANATARA.as.me/virtualsomaticbreathworkgroupsession
𝐈𝐟 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐥𝐨𝐨𝐤𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐫𝐞𝐥𝐚𝐱𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧, 𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐭 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐢𝐧𝐧𝐞𝐫 𝐩𝐞𝐚𝐜𝐞, 𝐉𝐚𝐧𝐞 𝐨𝐟𝐟𝐞𝐫𝐬 𝐦𝐨𝐧𝐭𝐡𝐥𝐲 𝐕𝐢𝐫𝐭𝐮𝐚𝐥 𝐒𝐨𝐮𝐧𝐝 𝐈𝐦𝐦𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬
https://TANATARA.as.me/virtualsoundimmersiongroupsession
For podcast episode ideas, topics you are interested in and feedback, pls email Jane at jane@tan-atara.com.
13 May 2024
WHAT THEIR AVOIDANCE REVEALS ABOUT YOU
Have you ever wondered what the distant demeanor of others says about your own emotional landscape? Discover the hidden truths behind avoidant behaviors and unravel the mysteries they hold about yourself.
Where to find Jane: On Instagram @tanatarahealing
Where to find more Podcast Info and Relationship Content:
On Instagram @theanswerisyou.podcast
𝐈𝐟 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐰𝐚𝐧𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐝𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐝𝐞𝐞𝐩𝐞𝐫 𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐨 𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟-𝐝𝐢𝐬𝐜𝐨𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐲 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐭𝐫𝐚𝐮𝐦𝐚 𝐡𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠, 𝐉𝐚𝐧𝐞 𝐨𝐟𝐟𝐞𝐫𝐬 𝐦𝐨𝐧𝐭𝐡𝐥𝐲 𝐕𝐢𝐫𝐭𝐮𝐚𝐥 𝐁𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐭𝐡𝐰𝐨𝐫𝐤 𝐉𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐧𝐞𝐲𝐬
https://TANATARA.as.me/virtualsomaticbreathworkgroupsession
𝐈𝐟 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐥𝐨𝐨𝐤𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐫𝐞𝐥𝐚𝐱𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧, 𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐭 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐢𝐧𝐧𝐞𝐫 𝐩𝐞𝐚𝐜𝐞, 𝐉𝐚𝐧𝐞 𝐨𝐟𝐟𝐞𝐫𝐬 𝐦𝐨𝐧𝐭𝐡𝐥𝐲 𝐕𝐢𝐫𝐭𝐮𝐚𝐥 𝐒𝐨𝐮𝐧𝐝 𝐈𝐦𝐦𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬
https://TANATARA.as.me/virtualsoundimmersiongroupsession
For podcast episode ideas, topics you are interested in and feedback, pls email Jane at jane@tan-atara.com.
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