Join Neeki, your favourite Machiavellian Barbie, every Wednesday to learn how to take advantage of the patriarchy's loopholes and to unlearn the patriarchal conditioning keeping us small, quiet, nice girls.
"To learn the rules, you must play the game. To change the game, you must break the rules" 💋
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The patriarchy has tag teamed with its friends capitalism and cultural norms to make us as uncomfortable as possible talking about money and (GASP!!!) wanting money. In this episode I’m going to break some taboos by discussing 5 ways the patriarchy keeps us finally illiterate, while also disclosing some ways I’ve spent and invested my money.
Timestamps:
0:00 Intro
3:05 BIG ANNOUNCEMENT
4:51 1) Zero sum thinking
10:19 2) The myth of hard work
16:29 3) Guilt
26:37 4) Intimidation
31:07 5) Misinformation
38:32 Book recos
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Episodes mentioned:
The dark side of corporate (that your boss hides from you) (listen on Spotify (https://open.spotify.com/episode/18phMPDfMrI2ewnQl7A4VY?si=SergwKtMTgmgUHi2TqIbBw) or Apple Podcasts (https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/the-baddest-bitch-in-the-building/id1746633006?i=1000789960502))
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🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us.
👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies.
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7 Oct 2026
Patriarchy Hack #39: Strategically leave certain things unfinished
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Second last Hack y'all!!! We're going to discuss how to apply the Zeigarnik effect (leaving things unfinished) as a way to navigate through the patriarchy and through life in general.
✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building.
Love, Neeki
Timestamps:
0:00 Intro
2:19 Learning some stuff
9:46 Unlearning the crap
26:28 What this means for you
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Episodes mentioned:
The dark side of corporate (that your boss hides from you) (listen on Spotify (https://open.spotify.com/episode/18phMPDfMrI2ewnQl7A4VY?si=SergwKtMTgmgUHi2TqIbBw) or Apple Podcasts (https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/the-baddest-bitch-in-the-building/id1746633006?i=1000789960502))
Girly law of power #31: Be the fantasy woman (listen on Spotify (https://open.spotify.com/episode/4MQMYKxMOF2dijHqwKStKp?si=y4fCpgR-QmSQcX4Gi9f_uQ) or Apple Podcasts (https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/the-baddest-bitch-in-the-building/id1746633006?i=1000747971662))
Part 1 of my 5-part series on capitalism & patriarchy's monstrous lovechild (listen on Spotify (https://open.spotify.com/episode/4IohD3U5uRKNmZlOPObS7d?si=Ep2Q3wakSp-6mYwryHlG4w) or Apple Podcasts (https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/the-baddest-bitch-in-the-building/id1746633006?i=1000731082765))
Patriarchy Hack #35: Never do anything with the expectation of gratitude (listen on Spotify (https://open.spotify.com/episode/4QSYLG0mlotH1fu3z08WIv?si=rHKjnsOoSbKLSLZ91tHjQQ) or Apple Podcasts (https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/the-baddest-bitch-in-the-building/id1746633006?i=1000770882212))
Sources:
A Zeigarnik-like effect in the recall of anagram solutions (https://psycnet.apa.org/record/1963-07607-001)
On Finished and Unfinished Tasks (https://gwern.net/doc/psychology/willpower/1927-zeigarnik.pdf)
The achievement motive and recall of interrupted and completed tasks (https://psycnet.apa.org/record/1954-07108-001)
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🎙️ About the podcast: The patriarchy is starting to crumble, but sadly it probably won't be fully dismantled in our lifetime. In this podcast, I help women exploit the system's loopholes while finding the hidden ways the patriarchy conditions us to leak our power. Because guess what? Power isn't given, it's either taken or created. And it's time to take back the power the patriarchy stole from us.
👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies.
__________
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💓 TikTok: (https://www.tiktok.com/@baddest.b.in.the.bldg?_t=ZM-8tdb16EQvnp&_r=1) @baddest.b.in.the.bldg
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