Welcome to Maybe You’re The Problem—the channel where accountability isn’t optional.
We talk relationships, dating, marriage, modern gender dynamics, and the choices that keep people stuck in the same situations they claim they want to escape.
The conversations may be uncomfortable. The opinions may be unpopular. And sometimes, the problem isn’t your ex, your dating pool, society, or the opposite sex.
Maybe you’re the problem.
This is a space for honest conversations, tough love, self-reflection, and accountability—without the sugarcoating.
If you're ready to laugh, think, disagree, and occasionally take a hard look in the mirror, you're in the right place.
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Because before you blame everybody else... maybe you should ask yourself:
Maybe You’re The Problem.
Diddy. High-value men. Dating standards. Sarah Fontenot rating herself a 6.
This Off-Season Conversation gets uncomfortable fast.
The crew dives into the internet’s latest obsession with power, masculinity, self-worth, and attraction. Does insecurity drive success? What actually makes a man “high value”? Are people being honest when they rate themselves? And has social media completely distorted how men and women see themselves and each other?
From celebrity scandals to relationship standards, nothing is off limits.
🔥 Does size matter?🔥 What is a high-value man?🔥 Are friends helping or hurting each other with constant validation?🔥 Is confidence becoming delusion?
Join Nic Nice, SNM Jones, Lasana Smith, and T The Goddess for one of the most provocative Off-Season Conversations yet.
21 May 2026
MPS6: Conversations Married Couples Avoid
What happens when a marriage looks “good” on paper… but something still feels missing? In the SEASON FINALE of Married People Sh*t, Nic Nice, SNM Jones, Delvin The Expert, and Just J tackle some of the deepest conversations of the season: * What parts of your marriage are your kids inheriting? * Why are Black marriage rates at historic lows? * Are couples avoiding the conversations that matter most? * What happens when someone is bored in a “good marriage”? * Is marriage becoming a luxury… or a survival tool? This episode goes beyond hot takes and into legacy, love, economics, communication, conflict resolution, emotional fatigue, and the future of Black relationships. If you’ve ever questioned marriage, fought for marriage, avoided difficult conversations, or wondered where relationships are headed in 2026… this episode is for you.
16 May 2026
S7E13: Liar, Liar. Pants on Fire (Season Finale)
Season 7 ends with pure chaos. What started as a legendary sit-down with radio icon Michael Baisden quickly turned into one of the wildest moments in BLC Pod history. Nic Nice and Michael Baisden go head-to-head LIVE on air after tension builds during a conversation about modern dating, podcast culture, and authenticity. Then things somehow escalate even further after the interview ends.
But that’s only the beginning.
The crew dives deep into the Dr. Cheyenne Bryant controversy, fake relationship experts, charisma vs credentials, Kevin Samuels’ legacy, strategic dating, “catch an athlete before graduation,” soft life culture, modern Black relationships, and whether social media has completely destroyed accountability between men and women.
Featuring Nic Nice, SNM Jones, Delvin the Expert, Lasana Smith, and special guest Michael Baisden in one of the most explosive season finales yet.
Season 7 is officially over… and Season 8 might be even crazier.
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