The Capa Podcast - Understanding Child Against Parent Aggression, from Capa First Response CIC
Capa First Response CIC
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- 2024
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About The Capa Podcast - Understanding Child Against Parent Aggression, from Capa First Response CIC
Conversations about 'CAPA' - commonly known as Child to Parent Abuse, although we prefer Child Against Parent Aggression. We strive to raise awareness and support for those impacted by CAPVA. In season 2 join Matt our Senior Practitioner and a special guest each episode of season 2, sharing their knowledge and insights. The podcast is suitable for families and professionals working closely with families experiencing harmful behaviours from a child. Season 1 is full of valuable resources, such as school refusal, siblings, neurodiversity and more. CapaFirstResponse.org
- Publisher
- Capa First Response CIC
- Category
- business
- Language
- en
- Explicit
- No
- First episode
- 28 Feb 2024
- Latest episode
- 30 Oct 2025
Latest episodes
15 episodes in the feed.
30 Oct 2025
Invites to spend time
Episode 6, Season 2: Invites to spend time Letting your child know that you are thinking of them, and that they're welcome to join you for an activity, a film, a walk - anything, but importantly with no pressure to say yes. Find out how to approach this method to start making changes with your relationship with your child. In this season our hosts Jane and Matt return with all episodes available to watch as well as listen to! This season has been commissioned by East Sussex County Council - so a huge thanks to them for their support. Over the course of this season we'll be sharing a range of strategies that families can use to start making a positive change to their situation, so do tune in each week and see if you can find some useful support. More about Capa First Response CIC: We provides online, compassionate, expert support for both families and professionals navigating child to parent aggression and and/or harmful behaviours. This is often referred to as ‘CAPVA’ – Child or Adolescent to Parent Violence and Abuse. Find out more about us on our website: Capafirstresponse.org (Capafirstresponse.org) Book a FREE drop in session for parents/carers (https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/cc/for-parents-carers-4046513) We already have season one of our podcast live explaining in more depth about 'CAPVA' and these behaviours, as well as talking about how it can effect siblings, education and so much more. Podcast editor: AJ Laas More info: info@capafirstresponse.org
23 Oct 2025
The Parent/Child Game
Episode 5, Season 2: The Parent/Child Game In this episode, we explore The Parent Child Game. This is a powerful strategy you can use to strengthening the bond between parent and child. By allowing children to lead meaningful interactions, this exercise encourage strust, improves communication, and helps reduce challenging behaviours at home. In this season our hosts Jane and Matt return with all episodes available to watch as well as listen to! This season has been commissioned by East Sussex County Council - so a huge thanks to them for their support. Over the course of this season we'll be sharing a range of strategies that families can use to start making a positive change to their situation, so do tune in each week and see if you can find some useful support. More about Capa First Response CIC: We provides online, compassionate, expert support for both families and professionals navigating child to parent aggression and and/or harmful behaviours. This is often referred to as ‘CAPVA’ – Child or Adolescent to Parent Violence and Abuse. Find out more about us on our website: Capafirstresponse.org (Capafirstresponse.org) Book a FREE drop in session for parents/carers (https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/cc/for-parents-carers-4046513) We already have season one of our podcast live explaining in more depth about 'CAPVA' and these behaviours, as well as talking about how it can effect siblings, education and so much more. Podcast editor: AJ Laas More info: info@capafirstresponse.org
16 Oct 2025
The Drama Triangle
Episode 4, Season 2: The Drama Triangle In this episode, we dive into two powerful models that help us understand how we show up in conversations and conflicts. We explore the Drama Triangle, a really useful framework for recognising the roles we slip into when tension rises and the Communication Pie, which breaks down what truly carries weight in how we communicate. Spoiler: it’s not the words! Most of what we “hear” comes from body language and tone. So if someone’s words sound fine but something feels off, you’re probably picking up on the real message beneath the surface. This episode has some great visual prompts so do watch if you can. In this season our hosts Jane and Matt return with all episodes available to watch as well as listen to! This season has been commissioned by East Sussex County Council - so a huge thanks to them for their support. Over the course of this season we'll be sharing a range of strategies that families can use to start making a positive change to their situation, so do tune in each week and see if you can find some useful support. More about Capa First Response CIC: We provides online, compassionate, expert support for both families and professionals navigating child to parent aggression and and/or harmful behaviours. This is often referred to as ‘CAPVA’ – Child or Adolescent to Parent Violence and Abuse. Find out more about us on our website: Capafirstresponse.org (Capafirstresponse.org) Book a FREE drop in session for parents/carers (https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/cc/for-parents-carers-4046513) We already have season one of our podcast live explaining in more depth about 'CAPVA' and these behaviours, as well as talking about how it can effect siblings, education and so much more. Podcast editor: AJ Laas More info: info@capafirstresponse.org
9 Oct 2025
Validation
Episode 3, Season 2: Validation Why Validation is important, and how to validate without affirming unwanted behaviour and language. In this season our hosts Jane and Matt return with all episodes available to watch as well as listen to! This season has been commissioned by East Sussex County Council - so a huge thanks to them for their support. Over the course of this season we'll be sharing a range of strategies that families can use to start making a positive change to their situation, so do tune in each week and see if you can find some useful support. More about Capa First Response CIC: We provides online, compassionate, expert support for both families and professionals navigating child to parent aggression and and/or harmful behaviours. This is often referred to as ‘CAPVA’ – Child or Adolescent to Parent Violence and Abuse. Find out more about us on our website: Capafirstresponse.org (Capafirstresponse.org) Book a FREE drop in session for parents/carers (https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/cc/for-parents-carers-4046513) We already have season one of our podcast live explaining in more depth about 'CAPVA' and these behaviours, as well as talking about how it can effect siblings, education and so much more. Podcast editor: AJ Laas More info: info@capafirstresponse.org
2 Oct 2025
Safety Planning and Calling the Police
Episode 2, Season 2: Safety Planning and Calling the Police Strategies for families, with handy visuals to support understanding. In this season our hosts Jane and Matt return with all episodes available to watch as well as listen to! This season has been commissioned by East Sussex County Council - so a huge thanks to them for their support. Over the course of this season we'll be sharing a range of strategies that families can use to start making a positive change to their situation, so do tune in each week and see if you can find some useful support. More about Capa First Response CIC: We provides online, compassionate, expert support for both families and professionals navigating child to parent aggression and and/or harmful behaviours. This is often referred to as ‘CAPVA’ – Child or Adolescent to Parent Violence and Abuse. Find out more about us on our website: Capafirstresponse.org (Capafirstresponse.org) Book a FREE drop in session for parents/carers (https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/cc/for-parents-carers-4046513) We already have season one of our podcast live explaining in more depth about 'CAPVA' and these behaviours, as well as talking about how it can effect siblings, education and so much more. Podcast editor: AJ Laas More info: info@capafirstresponse.org
25 Sept 2025
Three faces & Dysregulation
Episode 1, Season 2: Dysregulation and Three Faces. Strategies for families, with handy visuals to support understanding. In this season our hosts Jane and Matt return with all episodes available to watch as well as listen to! This season has been commissioned by East Sussex County Council - so a huge thanks to them for their support. Over the course of this season we'll be sharing a range of strategies that families can use to start making a positive change to their situation, so do tune in each week and see if you can find some useful support. More about Capa First Response CIC: We provides online, compassionate, expert support for both families and professionals navigating child to parent aggression and and/or harmful behaviours. This is often referred to as ‘CAPVA’ – Child or Adolescent to Parent Violence and Abuse. Find out more about us on our website: Capafirstresponse.org (Capafirstresponse.org) Book a FREE drop in session for parents/carers (https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/cc/for-parents-carers-4046513) We already have season one of our podcast explaining in more depth about 'CAPVA' and these behaviours, as well as talking about how it can effect siblings, education and so much more. Podcast editor: AJ Laas More info: info@capafirstresponse.org
13 Sept 2025
An Introduction to Season 2 of The Capa Podcast
Season 2 of The Capa First Response Podcast is here! In this season our hosts Jane and Matt return with all episodes available to watch as well as listen to! This season has been commissioned by East Sussex County Council - so a huge thanks to them for their support. Over the course of this season we'll be sharing a range of strategies that families can use to start making a positive change to their situation, so do tune in each week and see if you can find some useful support. More about Capa First Response CIC: We provides online, compassionate, expert support for both families and professionals navigating child to parent aggression and and/or harmful behaviours. This is often referred to as ‘CAPVA’ – Child or Adolescent to Parent Violence and Abuse. Find out more about us on our website: Capafirstresponse.org (Capafirstresponse.org) Book a FREE drop in session for parents/carers (https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/cc/for-parents-carers-4046513) We already have season one of our podcast explaining in more depth about 'CAPVA' and these behaviours, as well as talking about how it can effect siblings, education and so much more. Podcast editor: AJ Laas More info: info@capafirstresponse.org
26 Feb 2025
Season 2 trailer
The Capa First Response Podcast is back for a second season. This season welcomes a host of special guest to share their knowledge and insight with us around 'Child Against Parent Aggression and Harmful behaviour' - and every episode will be available to watch in video format too. Here's just a teaser of what's to come this season. Subscribe for new episodes! You can find out more about us, what we do and get in touch via the links below: Capafirstresponse.org (www.capafirstresponse.org) Youtube (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC0G19yh9cvgYz7WSoEKQY9A) Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/SupportingFamilyCrisis) Instagram (instagram.com/capa1stresponse) Our Vision:To stop harmful and/or aggressive behaviour in the home from a child or adolescent towards a parent or caregiver; For no parent or caregiver to feel alone in their experience and for whole families to have access to the support they need to improve their family situation.Our mission:To facilitate development of a nation-wide network of consistent, accessible, quality support for families, and to raise awareness amongst families and professionals around children/adolescents who use harmful and/or aggressive behaviour towards a parent/carer.
3 Apr 2024
Q&A: More about Child Against Parent Aggression
For our final episode of our first series we're chatting about lots of different things related to 'Child Against Parent Aggression', including talking more about the terms and language we use; validation, regulation, the difference between rules and boundaries etc. A massive thanks to everyone who has tuned in, we hope to be back in your ears with a second series soon - we're planning on inviting guests who are experts in their field to join us so watch (or rather, listen!) to this space! Any feedback would be very welcome too, you can leave a comment/rating or email us at info@capafirstresponse.org with PODCAST in the subject! You can find out more about us, what we do and get in touch via the links below: Capafirstresponse.org (www.capafirstresponse.org) Youtube (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC0G19yh9cvgYz7WSoEKQY9A) X/Twitter (twitter.com/capa1stresponse/) Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/SupportingFamilyCrisis) Instagram (instagram.com/capa1stresponse) Our Vision: To stop harmful and/or aggressive behaviour in the home from a child or adolescent towards a parent or caregiver; For no parent or caregiver to feel alone in their experience and for whole families to have access to the support they need to improve their family situation. Our mission: To facilitate development of a nation-wide network of consistent, accessible, quality support for families, and to raise awareness amongst families and professionals around children/adolescents who use harmful and/or aggressive behaviour towards a parent/carer.
27 Mar 2024
DEFINITION OF CAPA: How do we define this behaviour?
Today we're talking about HOW we describe these behaviours, the actions themselves and the words we use when talking about this area to both families and professionals. Aggression, abuse, violence, harmful... we discuss these and more! As an organisation we prefer to avoid using the word 'Abuse' even though this is typically a commonly used phrase, and we explain WHY this is. You can find out more about us, what we do and get in touch via the links below: Capafirstresponse.org (www.capafirstresponse.org) Youtube (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC0G19yh9cvgYz7WSoEKQY9A) X/Twitter (twitter.com/capa1stresponse/) Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/SupportingFamilyCrisis) Instagram (instagram.com/capa1stresponse) Our Vision: To stop harmful and/or aggressive behaviour in the home from a child or adolescent towards a parent or caregiver; For no parent or caregiver to feel alone in their experience and for whole families to have access to the support they need to improve their family situation. Our mission: To facilitate development of a nation-wide network of consistent, accessible, quality support for families, and to raise awareness amongst families and professionals around children/adolescents who use harmful and/or aggressive behaviour towards a parent/carer.
20 Mar 2024
EDUCATION & CAPA: How does schooling affect behaviour?
This episode focusses on Education, which is a massive part of a child's life. Often issues experienced with children using aggressive behaviours can start with problems experienced at school. We discuss the typical school set up and how it might not work for all children, how it can cause issues and struggles for many students. We touch on how schools and parents can work in partnership with each other for a better result for the child. You can find out more about us, what we do and get in touch via the links below: Capafirstresponse.org (www.capafirstresponse.org) Youtube (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC0G19yh9cvgYz7WSoEKQY9A) X/Twitter (twitter.com/capa1stresponse/) Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/SupportingFamilyCrisis) Instagram (instagram.com/capa1stresponse) Our Vision: To stop harmful and/or aggressive behaviour in the home from a child or adolescent towards a parent or caregiver; For no parent or caregiver to feel alone in their experience and for whole families to have access to the support they need to improve their family situation. Our mission: To facilitate development of a nation-wide network of consistent, accessible, quality support for families, and to raise awareness amongst families and professionals around children/adolescents who use harmful and/or aggressive behaviour towards a parent/carer.
13 Mar 2024
NEURODIVERSITY & CAPA: Does it change the strategies for support?
Today we tackle the subject of Neurodiversity in relation to 'child against parent aggression'. We discuss some of the common things that come up, including how hard it is for a neurodivergent person living in a neurotypical world. We talk about adapting strategies and finding out the root cause for behaviour and how the struggles can be even wider for someone who is neurodiverse. You can find out more about us, what we do and get in touch via the links below: Capafirstresponse.org (www.capafirstresponse.org) Youtube (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC0G19yh9cvgYz7WSoEKQY9A) X/Twitter (twitter.com/capa1stresponse/) Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/SupportingFamilyCrisis) Instagram (instagram.com/capa1stresponse) Our Vision: To stop harmful and/or aggressive behaviour in the home from a child or adolescent towards a parent or caregiver; For no parent or caregiver to feel alone in their experience and for whole families to have access to the support they need to improve their family situation. Our mission: To facilitate development of a nation-wide network of consistent, accessible, quality support for families, and to raise awareness amongst families and professionals around children/adolescents who use harmful and/or aggressive behaviour towards a parent/carer.
5 Mar 2024
SIBLINGS & CAPA: How are siblings affected?
In this episode we discuss the impact this behaviour can have on siblings both directly and indirectly. We talk about differences between children and expectations that they may deal with similar challenges in similar ways, and the problems this can cause when they don't. We also discuss labels and narratives within families, the impact new siblings can have, confirmation bias, the 'window of tolerance' and lots more. You can find out more about us, what we do and get in touch via the links below: Capafirstresponse.org (www.capafirstresponse.org) Youtube (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC0G19yh9cvgYz7WSoEKQY9A) X/Twitter (twitter.com/capa1stresponse/) Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/SupportingFamilyCrisis) Instagram (instagram.com/capa1stresponse) Our Vision: To stop harmful and/or aggressive behaviour in the home from a child or adolescent towards a parent or caregiver; For no parent or caregiver to feel alone in their experience and for whole families to have access to the support they need to improve their family situation. Our mission: To facilitate development of a nation-wide network of consistent, accessible, quality support for families, and to raise awareness amongst families and professionals around children/adolescents who use harmful and/or aggressive behaviour towards a parent/carer.
3 Mar 2024
AGE & CAPA: Is there a peak age? Does it change the support we offer?
In episode two we're talking about age. How does the age of a child influence how we think about their behaviour? Is there a peak age for behaviour to start, when does behaviour veer away from 'normal' child behaviour? We discuss the importance of early intervention, amongst other topics. You can find out more about us, what we do and get in touch via the links below: Capafirstresponse.org (www.capafirstresponse.org) Youtube (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC0G19yh9cvgYz7WSoEKQY9A) X/Twitter (twitter.com/capa1stresponse/) Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/SupportingFamilyCrisis) Instagram (instagram.com/capa1stresponse) Our Vision: To stop harmful and/or aggressive behaviour in the home from a child or adolescent towards a parent or caregiver; For no parent or caregiver to feel alone in their experience and for whole families to have access to the support they need to improve their family situation. Our mission: To facilitate development of a nation-wide network of consistent, accessible, quality support for families, and to raise awareness amongst families and professionals around children/adolescents who use harmful and/or aggressive behaviour towards a parent/carer.
28 Feb 2024
An Introduction to CAPA - Child Against Parent Aggression
Join Jane, Matt & Helen for an introduction to Capa First Response CIC, where we explain what 'CAPA' means. In the first episode of The Capa Podcast we introduce you to your hosts Jane, Matt & Helen. We discuss the types of behaviours we'll be looking at and some of the themes we'll be tackling in Series 1 of The Capa Podcast. You can find out more about us, what we do and get in touch via the links below: Capafirstresponse.org (www.capafirstresponse.org) Youtube (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC0G19yh9cvgYz7WSoEKQY9A) X/Twitter (twitter.com/capa1stresponse/) Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/SupportingFamilyCrisis) Instagram (instagram.com/capa1stresponse) Our Vision: To stop harmful and/or aggressive behaviour in the home from a child or adolescent towards a parent or caregiver; For no parent or caregiver to feel alone in their experience and for whole families to have access to the support they need to improve their family situation. Our mission: To facilitate development of a nation-wide network of consistent, accessible, quality support for families, and to raise awareness amongst families and professionals around children/adolescents who use harmful and/or aggressive behaviour towards a parent/carer.
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