You’ve reached The Char Hotline - your modern-day, self-love and confidence hotline. Here’s your direct access to support, honest conversations, relatable moments, and easy actionable tools to cultivate your unshakeable confidence, break unhealthy patterns, and build the dream life you deserve by loving yourself first.
Hosted by your compassionately candid hypewoman, proud Chinese-Canadian, extroverted introvert, and self-love and confidence coach, Char – here to help you tune out the noise of societal expectations, cultural conditioning, and self-doubt.
Whether you’re just discovering your worth or fully embracing it; from overcoming perfectionism to putting an end to people-pleasing, this is your space for heart, humour, and healing. This is where self-love takes the spotlight, confidence struts onto centre stage, and you reclaim the starring role in your life.
Tune in and let’s answer the call together - loving the life you live starts here!
feat. Steph Wong a senior Google leader, mama, and host of In Real Life (IRL) with Steph Wong podcast.
I love my kids...but I don't love being a mom. Loving your kids without losing yourself.
In this episode of The Char Hotline, I’m joined by Steph Wong for a radically honest conversation about the parts of motherhood we’re not supposed to say out loud.
We talk about:
Loving your kids while grieving your autonomy
Ambition, resentment, burnout, and identity loss
Why “you should be grateful” keeps moms silent
How telling the truth doesn’t make you a bad mom — it makes you a real one
This episode is especially for high-achieving, racialized, and deeply thoughtful moms who feel like they’re failing at something they were never meant to do alone.
No fixing. No shaming. No toxic positivity.
Just truth, permission, and space to exhale🫶🏽
✨ Go deeper with Steph:
Listen to her podcast In Real Life (https://linktr.ee/irlpodcast.stephwong?utm_source=ig&utm_medium=social&utm_content=link_in_bio&fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAc3J0YwZhcHBfaWQMMjU2MjgxMDQwNTU4AAGn9dUXXWEnX2xyyF94YFP66mFDrKVy3R-wXypBD9ZCg9CR-Q8-o_KHCJ0EyV0_aem_2fonllX710P19xsVfpVCBg) and follow her on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/stephwong.irl/)for grounded, honest reflections on work, life, and leadership.
@stephwong.irl
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2 Sept 2025
How Deep Is Your Love (for Yourself): Letting Go of the Superwoman Cape feat. Danielle Hawthorne
Let’s talk. How deep is your love… for yourself? This episode is for every woman who’s ever felt like she had to keep it all together, carry the weight, smile through the stress, and never drop the ball. You know, the whole “strong woman” thing… even when you're tired AF. I'm sitting down with my girl Danielle - executive coach, heart-first founder, and real one - to unpack the truth behind that Superwoman cape we’ve been conditioned to wear. And spoiler alert: we weren’t meant to wear it in ...
2 May 2025
Family Affair: Breaking Intergenerational Cycles feat. the Chan sisters (Anita, Alyce, Amy)
🚨 Breaking Generational Cycles, One Mic-Drop at a Time 🚨 What does it really take to break free from family expectations, rewrite your own success story, and step into your power as a woman of colour? In this episode of The Char Hotline, I’m joined by the unstoppable Chan sisters—Anita, Alyce, and Amy—three queens who are each breaking generational cycles in their own right, in their own way. From parenting to taking up space and being seen and being loud to redefining beliefs around love and...
11 Apr 2025
Unpretty: Redefining Beauty and Embracing Our Midsize Asian Bodies feat. Vicky Li
What happens when we stop shrinking ourselves—physically, emotionally, and socially—and start existing loudly? In this episode, I’m joined by the incredible Vicky (@MidsizeAsianQueen), a body positivity advocate whose hilarious and relatable content is helping Asian women embrace their bodies and confidence unapologetically. We dive into: ✨ The unspoken struggles of body image in Asian culture ✨ How to build confidence by doing things that scare you ✨ The power of taking up space and embracin...
1 Apr 2025
Intuition: How To Be Brave Enough to Listen to Yourself
We all have that inner voice—the one that whispers (or yells), "Don’t do it!" But how often do we actually listen? In this episode, we're diving deep into why trusting your intuition feels so hard and how to strengthen that inner knowing so you can make decisions with confidence. 🔥 Why We Struggle to Trust Ourselves: We’ve been conditioned to seek external validation instead of listening to our gut.Fear of making the ‘wrong’ choice or 'failing' keeps us stuck in overthinking (analysis paralys...
10 Mar 2025
Intuition: How to Be Brave Enough to Trust Yourself
Trigger warning: This episode discusses sexual assault and trauma. Please listen with care. --- What if the pain that tried to break you was actually the key to your power? In this deeply raw and empowering episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on my personal journey—from experiencing sexual assault to reclaiming my voice, my body, and my damn life. This is not a story about being broken. This is a story about being reborn and rising up. Turning my trauma into triumph and my pain into purpose...
20 Feb 2025
Real Love: Manifesting Love & Thriving in Relationships feat. Karen Williams
Tired of Swiping Left and Ready to Find Real Love? Join us for a soul-stirring, empowering podcast episode where we unpack the self-love secrets to manifesting a love that lights your fire! We're diving deep with relationship coach, author, and speaker Karen Williams on ditching the dating drama, owning your worth, and becoming the magnetic queen you were born to be. This episode is your guide to finding and keeping lasting love without losing yourself. From attracting and manifesting love wi...
9 Feb 2025
Roar: Self-Love and Break-Ups feat. Ressel Yu Untitled Episode
✨💖 Ready to choose YOU? 💖✨ When do you know when to leave a relationship? And how to deal after a breakup? Join us on this episode of The Char Hotline with our very first guest!!! Ressel shares her powerful journey of leaving a long marriage and rediscovering herself. We dive into: ➡️ When to choose loving yourself first ➡️ Recognizing red flags in a relationship ➡️ Healing after a breakup ➡️ Energy healing, self-love practices & manifestation in love Hit that play button and ...
8 Jan 2025
No Scrubs: Setting Boundaries That Honour You
In this episode of The Char Hotline, we're diving into the art of setting boundaries—because no one has time for scrubs in their personal or professional life! 🚫✨Join Char as we tackle:✔️ Why boundaries are the ultimate form of self-care.✔️ How to say "no" without the guilt trip.✔️ Spotting toxic behaviors and cutting the cord.✔️ Real-life examples of boundaries that protect your peace.Whether it’s a needy friend, an overbearing family member, or a draining client, we’re serving up the tools ...
17 Dec 2024
Quit Playing Games with My Heart: Break Free from Perfectionism and People-Pleasing
Char Hotline host Char reveals how to break free from perfectionism and people-pleasing, reclaiming heart, time, and sanity by ditching unattainable expectations.
11 Dec 2024
Welcome to The Char Hotline – Why We’re Here, Who I Am, and What to Expect
Welcome to The Char Hotline – your go-to space for real talk, connection, and insights to fuel your life and business! In this very first episode, I’m diving into the why behind this podcast: what inspired me to create it and how it’s designed to support YOU.I’ll share a bit about my journey—who I am, what I stand for, and why I’m so passionate about building a community that uplifts, inspires, and keeps it real. You’ll get a sneak peek at what’s coming—raw conversations, expert advice, actio...
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