Two brothers—one gay, one not—accidentally discover they’re both part of the kink community. What begins as an awkward revelation becomes an intimate, funny, and surprisingly educational exploration of desire, identity, masculinity, and the bonds that survive our most vulnerable truths.
Hosts The Kinky Bros interview authors Jaime M. Grant and Jack Harrison-Quintana about embracing diverse approaches to consent, community, and kink exploration.
30 Sept 2026TRANSCRIPT
S2E10: But Why?! The Kink Consultant Analyzes The Kinky Bros
The Kinky Bros interview Kink Consultant Amanda Dames as she analyzes the psychology behind their personal kinks, revealing deeper insights into desire and self-exploration.
23 Sept 2026TRANSCRIPT
S2Ep9: Play With Me - Toys, Ego & Exploration
Gryff and Jason explore the world of sex toys, sharing personal experiences and advice on introducing them into relationships without ego damage.
16 Sept 2026TRANSCRIPT
S2Ep8: Who's Really in Control - Dominance & Submission
Hosts Gryff and Jason interview Dominants Miss Lace and Sir Patrick about the nuanced realities of power exchange beyond stereotypes, revealing communication and trust as key.
9 Sept 2026TRANSCRIPT
S2Ep7: Tied Up To Let Go - Rope, Shibari & Bondage
Gryff and Jason interview rigger Travis and rope bunny Carson about how Shibari and bondage foster trust, art, meditation, and intimacy through surrendering control.
2 Sept 2026TRANSCRIPT
S2Ep6: Pup Play - It's SO Much More Than the Hood
Hosts Gryff and Jason interview Pups Varken and Deek to explore the multifaceted world of pup play, revealing its depth beyond simple roleplay.
26 Aug 2026TRANSCRIPT
S2Ep5: Hotwife - Sex, Trust & Jealousy
Host Jason and guest Darling Nik Dallas explore the complexities of hotwifing, discussing sex, trust, jealousy, and ethical non-monogamy.
19 Aug 2026TRANSCRIPT
S2Ep4: Sex After 50- Getting Older, Getting Kinkier
Hosts Jason and Gryff explore how aging can enhance sexual exploration and confidence, sharing insights on health, kink, and pleasure after fifty.
12 Aug 2026TRANSCRIPT
S2Ep3: Taking It Like A Man- Pegging, Pleasure & the P-Spot
Brothers Gryff and Jason explore the realities and misconceptions of pegging, sharing personal experiences to expand understanding of pleasure and vulnerability in this interview.
5 Aug 2026
S2Ep2: Getting Into Rubber- Why is it SO HOT?!
Getting Into Rubber: Why is it SO DAMN HOT!?
Why rubber?
It’s shiny. It’s tight. It squeaks. And, according to Gryff, it can make you feel absolutely untouchable. Metaphorically, at least. He’s actually very touchable in rubber.
This week, Jason finally asks the question Gryff has been answering for years: What is it about rubber that turns him on so much? They talk about the first catsuit that caught Gryff’s attention, the sensory experience of wearing latex, the confidence it gives him and how slipping into a suit helps him become Gryff.
But rubber has given him something even bigger than a very shiny ass: a welcoming, worldwide kink community.
In This Episode
Why rubber feels—and sounds—so damn sexy
How gear can unlock confidence and a different side of yourself
The surprisingly welcoming community surrounding rubber and latex
Finding kink friends online and attending your first gear event
Why you don’t have to own or wear rubber to belong
Choosing your first rubber piece without spending a fortune
Off-the-rack sizing versus custom-made gear
The basics of washing, shining and storing latex
Lube people versus talc people
Gryff’s favorite suits—and Jason’s growing interest in transparent rubber
The time Gryff secretly wore a full rubber suit around their parents
Rubber may be what brought Gryff through the door, but confidence and community are what made him stay.
And Jason may be closer than ever to buying his first piece.
Send Us Your Kink Confessions
Have a kinky story, secret, question or discovery you’ve been dying to get off your chest?
DM us on social media or email info@thekinkybros.com (mailto:info@thekinkybros.com). Your confession may be featured in a future episode—anonymously, unless you tell us otherwise.
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Enjoying the show? Please follow, rate and review The Kinky Bros Podcast wherever you listen. Yes, we are shamelessly begging. It helps new listeners find us—and it reassures our parents that this whole thing wasn’t a terrible idea.
The Kinky Bros Podcast is intended for adults only. Gryff and Jason are not therapists, medical professionals or kink experts. They are two real-life brothers sharing their own experiences, asking questions and figuring out the kink world one conversation at a time.
29 Jul 2026
S2Ep1: The Art of Almost- Why We Love Edging
The Art of Almost- Why We Love Edging
The Kinky Bros are back—and it takes them roughly eleven minutes to embarrass each other.
Season 2 begins with a topic Gryff and Jason both know very well: edging. What starts as a conversation about lasting longer quickly becomes a much bigger discussion about anticipation, self-control, headspace, communication and why the buildup can sometimes feel even better than the finish.
The brothers compare techniques, talk about learning your body’s signals and reveal just how long their longest sessions have lasted.
Spoiler: one of them measures his record in minutes. The other measures his in work shifts.
In This Episode
What edging actually is—and why people do it
Jason’s “practice how you play” approach to lasting longer
How rubber led Gryff deeper into edging and sensory play
Using breathing, focus and meditation to control arousal
Why edging is as mental as it is physical
Learning where your edge is—and the disappointment of going one stroke too far
Gryff’s personal record
A five-hour edging scene involving rubber, restraints, ice and a vacuum cube
Jason’s experiments with cages, toys and hands-free orgasms
The surprising gamification of edging
Giving control to a partner versus maintaining control yourself
Recognizing someone’s physical “tell”
The emotional release that can follow a prolonged orgasm
Whether edging counts as sex
Sensory deprivation, blindfolds and heightened awareness
How beginners can start exploring edging safely and gradually
Why anticipation may be the most powerful part of pleasure
Edging may be about stopping before the finish line—but for Gryff and Jason, the real appeal is everything that happens along the way.
Send Us Your Kink Confessions
Have a kinky story, secret, question or discovery you’ve been dying to get off your chest?
DM us on social media or email info@thekinkybros.com (mailto:info@thekinkybros.com). Your confession may be featured in a future episode—anonymously, unless you tell us otherwise.
Follow The Kinky Bros Podcast
Website: thekinkybros.com
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Enjoying the show? Please follow, rate and review The Kinky Bros Podcast wherever you listen. Yes, we are shamelessly begging. It helps new listeners find us—and it reassures our parents that this whole thing wasn’t a terrible idea.
The Kinky Bros Podcast is intended for adults only. Gryff and Jason are not therapists, medical professionals or kink experts. They are two real-life brothers sharing their own experiences, asking questions and figuring out the kink world one conversation at a time.
3 Jun 2026
Ep7: So, We Actually Did This… (And You Actually Listened)
Can we just take a second to acknowledge that we actually did this?
Seven episodes.
One podcast.
Countless unexpected conversations.
And somehow… people actually listened.
In this season one finale, we look back on everything that surprised us, challenged us, made us laugh, and brought us closer—from awkward first recordings and “plugged” confessions to hard conversations about spouses, friendships, and vulnerability.
We talk about the feedback that genuinely moved us, what we learned about each other, and how this podcast changed our relationship in ways we didn’t expect.
And yes… we’re talking about what’s next.
Season 2? Oh, we have ideas.
In This Episode:
What surprised us most about each other
The funniest moment of the entire season (spoiler: plugs were involved)
The conversations that were hardest to have—and why
YOUR feedback that genuinely hit us in the feels
How this podcast changed our relationship as brothers
What we learned about vulnerability, openness, and trust
Season 2 ideas we’re very excited about
A Real Note Before You Listen:
What started as a wild idea between brothers became something way more meaningful than either of us expected. Whether you listened to one episode or all seven… thank you.
Seriously.
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Follow Us:
Gryff: @Gryffinrubber (https://www.instagram.com/gryffinrubber) (Instagram & BlueSky)
Jason: @PlaysBothSides.bsky.social (http://PlaysBothSides.bsky.social) (Instagram, BlueSky & X)
Resources:
Don’t forget to check out the Kinky Bros Resource Guide at:
thekinkybros.com (http://thekinkybros.com)
Books, communities, podcasts, subreddits, and resources we referenced throughout the season—all in one place.
Season 2?
Let’s just say… we’ve got thoughts.
More guests.
More specific kink deep-dives.
More honest conversations.
Definitely edging.
You’ve been warned.
Disclaimer:
This podcast is intended for adult audiences only.
27 May 2026
Ep6: 2 Kinky Bros Walk Into a Therapist’s Office (with Dr. Ty Lerman)
This week, we brought in an actual expert. Like… a real doctor.
After five episodes of two brothers oversharing about kink, relationships, communication, and discovery, it was time to bring in someone who actually knows what they’re talking about.
Enter Dr. Ty Lerman—clinical sexologist, certified sex therapist.
Together, we tackle some of the biggest questions listeners have been asking:
Is kink “normal”?
What’s the difference between a kink and a fetish?
Is jealousy inevitable?
Can open relationships actually work?
And why are conversations about sex still so damn hard?
This episode is honest, educational, validating, and probably the one you’ll want to send to someone else.
In This Episode:
Is it actually weird that two brothers talk openly about kink?
The surprising stats on how many people are kinky (hint: way more than you think)
Kink vs. fetish: what’s the actual difference?
Why sex conversations still feel so taboo
Open relationships: what people get wrong before they start
Compersion: the word more people need to know
Jealousy vs. envy (and why they’re NOT the same thing)
Dr. Ty’s advice for anyone exploring kink for the first time
A Real Note Before You Listen:
This conversation is packed with information—but it’s still just that: a conversation.
Not therapy. Not medical advice. Just honest discussion with someone who’s spent years helping people navigate these exact topics.
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Follow Us:
Gryff: @Gryffinrubber (https://www.instagram.com/gryffinrubber) (Instagram & BlueSky)
Jason: @PlaysBothSides.bsky.social (http://PlaysBothSides.bsky.social) (Instagram, BlueSky & X)
Connect with Dr. Ty:
Instagram: @tdlcounseling
(https://www.instagram.com/tdlcounseling) Website: https://tdlcounseling.com (https://tdlcounseling.com)
Next Episode:
We wrap this first chapter of the Kinky Bros journey by talking about how to make these conversations easier—for couples, families, friends… and honestly, for all of us.
Disclaimer:
This podcast is intended for adult audiences only. This episode discusses sexuality, relationships, and kink in an educational and conversational context.
20 May 2026
Why Is This Easier To Tell Strangers?
Who knows this side of you… and who doesn’t?
In Episode 5, we shift the conversation beyond partners and into the wider world—friends, social circles, and the different “buckets” we keep our lives in.
Why is it so hard to talk about this with the people we’ve known the longest?
What do we gain—or lose—by keeping parts of ourselves separate?
From “bro code” silence to unexpected support, we explore what it really looks like to navigate kink, identity, and curiosity in everyday life.
In This Episode:
Why some friendships never go there—and others surprise you
The “straight bro code” and why certain conversations don’t happen
Keeping separate worlds: kink life vs. “vanilla” life
How stigma shapes what we share (and what we don’t)
Finding community in unexpected places
What happens when your identity starts to shift—and not everyone comes with you
The question we all face: is there a cost to staying quiet?
A Real Note Before You Listen:
This episode might make you think about your own friendships—and what you choose to share (or keep hidden).
We’re not here to tell you what’s right. Just what’s been real for us.
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Follow Us:
Gryff: @Gryffinrubber (https://www.instagram.com/gryffinrubber) (Instagram & BlueSky)
Jason: @PlaysBothSides.bsky.social (http://PlaysBothSides.bsky.social) (Instagram, BlueSky & X)
Next Episode:
We’re calling in back-up, and we’re get psych-y! Certified sex therapist & clinical sexologist (& kinkster) Dr. Ty, joins the Kinky Bros podcast to answer all sorts of questions!
⚠️ Disclaimer:
This podcast is intended for adult audiences only.
13 May 2026
Love, Kink, and the Things We Don’t Say
What happens when your personal journey doesn’t just affect you… but the person you love?
In this episode, we open up about our partners, the conversations we’ve struggled to have, and what it really takes to navigate kink, curiosity, and identity inside a relationship.
From awkward moments and miscommunication to growth, boundaries, and hard truths—this is about figuring it out in real time.
In This Episode:
Why communication is the hardest (and most important) part of all of this
The reality of introducing kink into a relationship
Moments we got it wrong—and what we learned from it
The difference between rules vs. boundaries
How partners react (support, hesitation, and everything in between)
Why ego, fear, and timing play such a huge role
A Real Note Before You Listen:
These are real relationships and real conversations.
We’re only speaking from our own experiences—not giving advice, just sharing what we’ve lived.
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(https://www.instagram.com/kinkybrospodcast)BlueSky: @kinkybrospodcast.bsky.social (http://kinkybrospodcast.bsky.social)
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Follow Us:
Gryff: @Gryffinrubber (https://www.instagram.com/gryffinrubber) (Instagram & BlueSky)
Jason: @PlaysBothSides.bsky.social (http://PlaysBothSides.bsky.social) (BlueSky & X)
Next Episode:
Next time, the OTHER relationships we have… our friendships outside of kink. Why is it so hard to talk about this with the people who’ve known us the longest?
8 May 2026
Kink Discoveries: Wait, You're Into That, Too??
We FINALLY get down & dirty about what we’re actually into.
From rubber and leather to toys, sensation play, edging, and everything in between—we put it all on the table and uncover way more than we expected.
What starts as a fun comparison quickly turns into real moments of surprise, connection, and a few “wait… you’re into that too?” realizations.
In This Episode:
The gear we’re wearing (yes, we recorded this one in gear)
Toys, plugs, cock rings, and how we actually use them
Sensation play, electro play, and pushing boundaries
The truth about edging—and why it’s a game changer
Kinks we align on… and where we wildly differ
The concept of compersion and shared pleasure
Group dynamics, exhibitionism, and voyeurism
Follow the Show:
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(https://www.instagram.com/kinkybrospodcast)BlueSky: @kinkybrospodcast.bsky.social (http://kinkybrospodcast.bsky.social)
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Follow Us:
Gryff: @Gryffinrubber (https://www.instagram.com/gryffinrubber) (Instagram & BlueSky)
Jason: @PlaysBothSides.bsky.social (http://PlaysBothSides.bsky.social) (Instagram, BlueSky & X)
Next Episode:
We take things in a very different direction—what happens love meets kink...?
Spoiler: it’s not always easy.
6 May 2026
Childhood, Shame, & Revelations
In this episode, we go back to childhood—how we were raised, what we were (and definitely weren’t) taught about sex, and the very different paths that led us to where we are today.
From secret magazine discoveries to early internet chat rooms, we unpack the moments, influences, and silence that shaped our understanding of identity, pleasure, and shame.
This episode explores how childhood, sex education, and early experiences shape our understanding of kink, sexuality, and identity.
In This Episode:
Why sex was never talked about growing up
The unexpected “education” we actually got
Early exposure: magazines, internet, and curiosity
Growing up with (and without) shame
How our experiences as kids shaped who we are now
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Jason: @PlaysBothSides.bsky.social (https://bsky.app/profile/playsbothsides.bsky.social) (BlueSky & X)
Next Episode:
We finally get into it—our kinks. What they are, how we discovered them, and why they’re not as strange as you might think.
6 May 2026
Two brothers. One secret.
Two brothers. One unexpected discovery. A whole new conversation.
In our very first episode, we share the unexpected moment we realized we’d both been exploring the world of kink—separately—and how that discovery completely changed our relationship.
We’re not experts—just two brothers having real, honest (and sometimes hilarious) conversations about things most people never say out loud.
In This Episode:
How a random TV show sparked everything
The first time we opened up to each other
Our very different “origin stories” into kink
Why this actually brought us closer
Follow the Show:
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X: @KinkyBrosPod (https://x.com/KinkyBrosPod)
Follow Us:
Gryff: @Gryffinrubber (https://www.instagram.com/gryffinrubber) (Instagram & BlueSky)
Jason: @PlaysBothSides.bsky.social (https://bsky.app/profile/playsbothsides.bsky.social) (BlueSky & X)
Next Episode:
We go back to where it all started—growing up in the same house, but learning very different lessons about identity, masculinity, and the things nobody talked about.
13 Apr 2026
The Kinky Bros Podcast: Trailer
Two brothers. One unexpected discovery. A whole new conversation.
You think you know your sibling… until you don’t.
What happens when the biggest secret you’ve both been keeping turns out to be the one thing that brings you closer?
From awkward first moments to full-on honesty, the Kinky Bros Podcast dives into identity, curiosity, and the things most people never say out loud.
Follow the Show:
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Inside a recent episode
S2Ep11: Kink For Dummies
Published 7 Oct 2026 · Transcript excerpt
[…] What do people misunderstand about the whole concept of aftercare, particularly newbies getting into the kink scene? Well, I think one thing we did a good job of in the aftercare chapter was just giving you a wide range of people's actual needs, as stated, right? And I do think that one of the problems with the term aftercare, as I hear it in the community, is that it feels like people are somewhat attached to it having a fairly specific meaning, like that it means massage and hot tea and cuddling or something. And obviously, that does apply to many people. And I think it's fantastic. And I'm happy for those people to have what they need. […]
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