The conversation on human potential is incomplete without erotic intelligence. The Sexology Lab is where intimacy meets science, and where curiosity replaces shame. Each week, we step inside The Lab with the most compelling minds in modern sexology: pioneering researchers, visionary clinicians, sextech innovators, cultural disruptors, and leading educators. Together, we explore the questions shaping the future of desire, connection, and human wellness. This isn’t a podcast about the physical act. It’s a podcast about being human. Subscribe and join us as redefine wellness.
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The conversation on human potential is incomplete without erotic intelligence. The Sexology Lab is where intimacy meets science, and where curiosity replaces shame. Each week, we step inside The Lab with the most compelling minds in modern sexology: pioneering researchers, visionary clinicians, sextech innovators, cultural disruptors, and leading educators. Together, we explore the questions shaping the future of desire, connection, and human wellness. This isn’t a podcast about the physical act. It’s a podcast about being human. Subscribe and join us as redefine wellness.
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August 6, 2026
Question Everything: How Japan, the Military, and Kink Shaped Midori | Episode 23
<p>Today in <strong>The Sexology Lab</strong>, we sit down with <strong>Midori</strong>—sexologist, educator, author, artist, and one of the pioneering voices in modern kink education. Best known for writing the first English-language instructional book on Japanese rope bondage and for leading Sexual Health Alliance's Kink Informed Certification Program, Midori shares the remarkable story behind the educator so many professionals know today.</p><p>From growing up in Japan and immigrating to the United States at 14 without speaking English, to serving in the U.S. Army, discovering San Francisco's underground sex-positive movement, and helping shape modern kink education, Midori explains how questioning cultural norms became the foundation of her life's work. She also explores how attitudes toward sexuality differ between Japan and North America, why the BDSM community developed many of today's consent practices, and what professionals still get wrong when working with kinky clients.</p><p><strong>KEY TAKEAWAYS:</strong></p><ul><li>Curiosity—not certainty—has driven Midori's career. Constantly questioning assumptions has allowed her to challenge outdated ideas about sexuality and kink.</li></ul><ul><li>Modern BDSM education wasn't built overnight. Many of today's best practices around consent, negotiation, and safety were developed through decades of community learning and activism.</li></ul><ul><li>Professionals can unintentionally harm kinky clients through bias, assumptions, or lack of education. Becoming kink-informed starts with curiosity, humility, and examining our own blind spots.</li></ul><p><strong>SHOW SUMMARY:</strong></p><p>00:00 Introducing Kink Pioneer Midori</p><p>01:23 Midori’s Origin & Early Background</p><p>01:45 Cultural Views on Sex: Japan vs. US</p><p>03:43 Questioning Norms & "Coming Out" Kinky</p><p>05:15 Contextual Shame in Japanese Culture</p><p>07:28 Sensory Sensuality & Eroguro in Japan</p><p>10:34 Negotiation & Communication Gaps in Japan</p><p>12:54 Bringing Consent & Negotiation to Japan</p><p>13:14 Promo: The Sexy Practice Guide</p><p>14:13 Common Mistakes Therapists Make with Kink</p><p>15:56 Trauma Assumptions & Pathologizing Kink</p><p>16:51 Consensual Non-Consent vs. Non-Consensual Kink</p><p>18:33 The Spectrum of Non-Consensual Kink</p><p>20:20 How Therapists Can Signal Kink-Inclusivity</p><p>22:02 Networking & Outing Yourself to Doctors</p><p>23:56 How the DSM-5 Shifted Kink Stigma</p><p>26:26 Lightning Round with Midori</p><p>26:27 BDSM Prevalence & Big Misconceptions</p><p>26:40 Overcoming Biases as Sex Professionals</p><p>27:43 The Book That Shaped Midori’s View on Desire</p><p>28:23 Empathy & Slowing Down for Relationship Safety</p><p>28:51 Why Kink-Informed Certification Matters</p><p>29:46 The Future of Sex Education & Gatekeeping</p><p><strong>RESOURCES MENTIONED THIS EPISODE:</strong></p><p>The Sexology Lab is powered by Sexual Health Alliance, a global hub for world-class certifications, cutting-edge education, and a thriving community of professionals. Many of the show's guests also share their expertise at SHA events and educational programs.</p><p><br></p><p>Learn more at:</p><ul><li>Sexual Health Alliance: <a href="https://sexualhealthalliance.com/" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">https://sexualhealthalliance.com/</a> </li></ul><ul><li>Midori: <a href="https://planetmidori.com/" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">https://planetmidori.com/</a> </li></ul><ul><li>Sexual Health Alliance Kink Informed Certification: <a href="https://sexualhealthalliance.com/kink-informed-certification-program" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">https://sexualhealthalliance.com/kink-informed-certification-program</a> </li></ul><ul><li>The Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage by Midori: <a href="https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/seductive-art-of-japanese-bondage-midori/1004747883" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/seductive-art-of-japanese-bondage-midori/1004747883</a> </li></ul><ul><li>San Francisco Sex Information (SFSI): <a href="https://www.sfsi.org/" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">https://www.sfsi.org/</a> </li></ul><ul><li>The Kinsey Institute: <a href="https://kinseyinstitute.org/index.html" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">https://kinseyinstitute.org/index.html</a> </li></ul><ul><li>Leather Archives & Museum: <a href="https://leatherarchives.org/" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">https://leatherarchives.org/</a> </li></ul><ul><li>Carol Queen: <a href="https://carolqueen.com/" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">https://carolqueen.com/</a> </li></ul><ul><li>Annie Sprinkle: <a href="https://anniesprinkle.org/" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">https://anniesprinkle.org/</a> </li></ul><ul><li>Patrick Califia: <a href="https://www.hachettebookgroup.com/contributor/patrick-califia/" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">https://www.hachettebookgroup.com/contributor/patrick-califia/</a> </li></ul><p><strong>SUBSCRIBE AND REVIEW:</strong></p><p>If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to subscribe and leave a review! Your support helps us continue bringing thoughtful conversations about sexuality, relationships, and human behavior to listeners around the world.</p><p>🎙️ Thanks for listening to <strong>The Sexology Lab</strong>. We'll see you next week. <a href="https://www.sexologylab.com/" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">https://www.sexologylab.com/</a> </p>
July 30, 2026
The Camera Has a Point of View: Arthur Brun from Erika Lust on Indie Adult Cinema | Episode 22
<p>Today in The Lab, we sit down with Arthur Brun, Chief Growth Officer at Erika Lust, one of the world's leading independent adult film studios. Arthur takes us behind the scenes of ethical production, cinematic storytelling, and the future of adult media, sharing how every creative decision—from who's behind the camera to how performers are supported on set—shapes the stories audiences ultimately see.</p><p>This conversation explores why Erika Lust has shifted from the label "ethical porn" to "indie adult cinema," how explicit media influences culture and sex education, and the unique challenges of building a values-driven business in one of the world's most restricted industries. Whether you're interested in filmmaking, sexuality, ethics, or media, this episode offers a fascinating look inside a world few people ever get to see.</p><p><br /></p><ul><li>Every film reflects the perspective of the people creating it—who is behind the camera matters just as much as who appears on screen.</li></ul><ul><li>Ethical production extends far beyond performer consent; it includes communication, collaboration, representation, and creating psychologically safe working environments.</li></ul><ul><li>Building an independent adult media company requires creativity not only in filmmaking but also in marketing, technology, and community building because traditional platforms often restrict adult content.</li></ul><p><strong>SHOW SUMMARY:</strong></p><p>01:35 – Arthur Brun Origin Story & Professional Background</p><p>02:48 – Industry Misconceptions & The Realities of Sex Work</p><p>03:58 – Core Principles of Erica Lust Films</p><p>05:14 – Shifting from "Ethical Porn" to an "Indie Adult Studio"</p><p>07:27 – Concrete Realities of Ethical Film Production</p><p>11:53 – Performers' Agency & Authenticity of Pleasure</p><p>13:40 – Set Dynamics & Inclusive Technical Crews</p><p>14:21 – Authenticity and Intimacy on Screen</p><p>15:24 – Ethics of Representation & The Camera's Point of View</p><p>17:58 – De-centering Heteronormative Frameworks</p><p>19:13 – Mid-Roll Break: Sexology Lab Advertisement</p><p>19:53 – Adult Media as Modern Sex Education</p><p>23:25 – Responsible Platform UX & Resisting Misogynistic SEO</p><p>26:28 – Creative Content Discoverability Without Objectification</p><p>28:07 – Leveraging Extensive Customer Surveys & Feedback</p><p>29:15 – Navigating Digital Censorship & The Return to Physical Events</p><p>32:25 – The "House of Lust" VR & Immersive Exhibition</p><p>33:44 – Global Demographics & The Strategic Power of PR</p><p>35:55 – Providing Platform Accessibility for Marginalized Groups</p><p>36:19 – Lightning Round: Success, Kindness, and Workplace Culture</p><p>37:27 – On the Desk: Previewing Erica Lust's Upcoming Memoir</p><p>38:13 – Future Guest Recommendations & Film Festival Culture</p><p><strong>RESOURCES MENTIONED THIS EPISODE:</strong></p><p>The Sexology Lab is powered by Sexual Health Alliance, a global hub for world-class certifications, cutting-edge education, and a thriving community of professionals. Many of the show's guests also share their expertise at their events.</p><ul><li>Join them at: <a href="http://sexualhealthalliance.com" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">SexualHealthAlliance.com</a> </li></ul><p>More from this episode's guest at:</p><ul><li>Arthur Brun: <a href="https://es.linkedin.com/in/arthur-brun-barcelona" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://es.linkedin.com/in/arthur-brun-barcelona</a> </li></ul><ul><li>Erika Lust: https://es.linkedin.com/company/erikalust</li></ul><ul><li>Lust by Erika Lust (forthcoming memoir): <a href="https://us.macmillan.com/books/9781250472304/lust/" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://us.macmillan.com/books/9781250472304/lust/</a> </li></ul><ul><li>House of Erika Lust immersive exhibition: <a href="https://www.standard.co.uk/lifestyle/house-of-erikalust-exhibition-first-immersive-erotic-experience-b1218464.html" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://www.standard.co.uk/lifestyle/house-of-erikalust-exhibition-first-immersive-erotic-experience-b1218464.html</a> </li></ul><p><br /></p><p>If you loved this episode, please take a moment to subscribe and leave a review! Your support helps us reach more people who need these insights.</p><p>🎙 Thanks for tuning in to The Sexology Lab. See you next week!</p><p><a href="https://www.sexologylab.com/" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://www.sexologylab.com/</a> </p>
July 23, 2026
Five Minutes Is Not Premature: Dr. Joshua Gonzalez on How Long Men Should Last In Bed | Episode 21
<p>Today in The Lab, we sit down with Dr. Joshua Gonzalez, board-certified urologist, men's sexual health expert, and co-founder of Popstar Labs, to unpack the most common concerns men have about sex—and why so many suffer in silence. From erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation to fertility, testosterone, and body image, Dr. Gonzalez explains what men are actually experiencing versus what they think they should be experiencing.</p><p>This conversation explores how anxiety, pornography, social media, and unrealistic expectations shape men's sexual confidence, why communication is often the most important sexual skill, and why taking a proactive approach to sexual wellness in your twenties can have lifelong benefits. We also discuss male fertility, environmental health, supplements, and why sexual health is best approached as a collaborative effort between medical providers, therapists, and other specialists.</p><p><strong>KEY TAKEAWAYS:</strong></p><ul><li>Most sexual performance concerns are far more common than men realize, and many stem from unrealistic expectations rather than serious medical problems.</li></ul><ul><li>Sexual wellness is deeply connected to overall health, including sleep, exercise, mental health, hormone balance, and lifestyle habits.</li></ul><ul><li>The best time to start thinking about sexual health isn't when something goes wrong—it's before problems begin.</li></ul><p><br>00:00 – Global Fertility Trends and Joshua Gonzalez Introduction</p><p>01:25 – Misconceptions and Sexual Anxiety</p><p>03:32 – Primary Sexual Health Concerns</p><p>04:18 – Breaking the Communication Barrier</p><p>05:21 – Mind-Body Connection and Confidence</p><p>07:06 – Understanding Premature Ejaculation (PE)</p><p>08:25 – Treating PE and Lasting Longer</p><p>11:41 – The Other Extreme: Delayed Ejaculation</p><p>12:59 – Men's Health Culture and Redefining Masculinity</p><p>14:54 – Mid-Show Break: Sexology Practice Guide</p><p>15:22 – Proactive Healthcare for Younger Men</p><p>17:03 – The Impact of Sexual Confidence</p><p>17:58 – The Story Behind Pop Star</p><p>20:12 – Pop Star Product Lineup</p><p>22:27 – Collaborative Care in Fertility and Proactive Testing</p><p>27:02 – Lightning Round</p><p>28:14 – Crossover and Collaborative Medical Care</p><p><br><br>The Sexology Lab is powered by Sexual Health Alliance, a global hub for world-class certifications, cutting-edge education, and a thriving community of professionals. Many of the show's guests also share their expertise at their events.</p><p>Join them at: <a href="http://sexualhealthalliance.com" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">SexualHealthAlliance.com</a> </p><p>More from this episode's guest at:</p><ul><li>Dr. Joshua Gonzalez: <a href="https://joshuagonzalezmd.com/" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">https://joshuagonzalezmd.com/</a> </li></ul><ul><li>Popstar Labs: <a href="https://www.popstarlabs.com/" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">https://www.popstarlabs.com/</a> </li></ul><p><strong>SUBSCRIBE AND REVIEW:</strong></p><p>If you loved this episode, please take a moment to subscribe and leave a review! Your support helps us reach more people who need these insights.</p><p>🎙 Thanks for tuning in to The Sexology Lab. See you next week!</p><p><a href="https://www.sexologylab.com/" target="_blank" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer">https://www.sexologylab.com/</a> </p>
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