Sue McGarvie is best known as "Sex With Sue!" A sex therapist, relationship expert, coach, author and speaker. Her Sunday night call-in radio show took Canada by storm in 1993.
John is a freelance radio host heard across North America, and a champion for mental health, knowing all too well how fears about revealing our sexual kinks, desires and orientations can affect us. He has normalized conversations about sex on his show for years!
Together, these longtime friends now bring you an outrageously fun, weekly, immersive, grown up sex education course that is unique in the world of podcast.
This is Turned On With Sue & John.
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Porn. We know it's theater and yet... We seem to forget that it is. This week remind you why sex is, in fact, better than porn.
Today, Sue and John will give you some tips so that you can make sex as good as, or even better that what you're seeing online.
Beginning with recognizing that porn movies are not instruction manuals.
Sue will share what the research on porn actually revealed. How can you find the fantasy within the fantasy? Sue asks John to weigh in on this from his experience in the kink community and he shares his approach and thought processes before playing as a Dom and before playing as a submissive.
And we offer some insight on what you can do to make the real-life version better.
Sue's Sassy Sex Secret this week.., The thigh tease. Holy shit! And for our swinger friends... Can jealousy actually be part of the turn-on?
Let's find out! It's time to get turned on with Sue And John!
Website: www.turnedonpodcast.com
Sue's Newsletter: www.turnedonpodcast.com/newsletter
Email Sue: sue@sexwithsue.com
Email John: funwithmilkman@gmail.com
Fetlife links:
Show: TurnedOnPodcast
Sue: MistressInCharge
John: Megahurts
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12 Oct 2026
What Women Want In Bed
Today you get to find out exactly what it is that her clitoris wishes you knew... And by the end of this episode you WILL know!
Including:
The clitoris: what science is finally discovering—and what to do with that information.
How do you turn her on before touching her clitoris?
How should you touch her—and what about oral sex?
How do you help her orgasm without chasing it away?
Does she want less sex—or better sex?
How do you become the lover she can actually guide?
SUE’S SASSY SEX SECRET: Three ways to bring the clitoris into intercourse.
SO YOU’RE A SWINGER: The awkward morning-after review.’
And... We have two AMAZING questions from listeners this week that are all about this topic. One from a husband wondering how to get her to open up about fantasies, because he really wants to please her... And another from someone in a new relationship looking for ways to help her husband become more comfortable exploring so they can both experience incredible sex together!
We're online at www.turnedonpodcast.com
Questions for Sue: sue@sexwithsue.com
John's email: funwithmilkman@gmail.com
Fetlife:
Turned On = @ TurnedOnPodcast
John = @ Megahurts
Sue = @ Mistress In Charge
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6 Oct 2026
Why Doesn't My Partner Want Me?
What happens when one partner keeps reaching, the other keeps retreating, and both end up feeling rejected?
And... How do you talk about it? Well today, we do talk about it. Everything from the loneliest six inches in a relationship to when "not tonight" starts to mean "not you."
Sue helps you navigate the differences between what different people need to get in the mood. For some it's spontaneous desire, but for others, desire is more responsive.
Have you ever felt like every touch is a demand? We talk about it. And we dive into the real reasons WHY desire disappears. We also offer some tips on breaking that rejection "pressure loop."
This week, Sue's Sassy Sex Secret is an incredible plan that she calls "the 10 minute maybe."
And for our swingers, we get into how being desired in the lifestyle, while hot, it doesn't fix what's happening at home.
Plus - don't miss Sue's heart to heart conversation with Charla Hathaway - a self proclaimed "whore since 50" who now, at the age of 80 is receiving rave reviews for her stage show "Naked At My Age." https://charlahathaway.com
We're online at www.turnedonpodcast.com
Sue's Newsletter: www.turnedonpodcast.com/newsletter
Questions For Sue: sue@sexwithsue.com
John: funwithmilkman@gmail.com
And on Fetlife:
@ TurnedOnPodcast
@ MistressInCharge
@ Megahurts
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YouTube views
14,091
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Apple Podcasts (US)
4.7 / 5
10 ratings
Spotify
3.9 / 5
47 ratings
Podcast Authority Score: 83 / 100
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83
Social presence
91
YouTube
76
Engagement
84
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