Unavoidable shit is a podcast, that with a sense of lightness and humor journeys through theparadigm of unavoidable conversations!! Join me your favorite truth teller, Jarvis!! As I explore My quirky misadventures with conversations surrounding my experience of being a black queer male, and 30 something!! At the same time navigating my way through the spiritual community. 
Unavoidable Shit with Living Out Loud (The shadow of loud and proud)
Welcome to the Unavoidable Shit Podcast! In this episode, we dive deep into the art of living out loud, tackling the unavoidable challenges that come with it—haters, social media trolls, and the critical role self-awareness plays. Join us for an insightful conversation featuring Mikey Everything, a Chicago native, queer rapper, entertainer, and artist. Get ready to explore the nuances of authenticity and resilience in the face of unavoidable obstacles. Tune in for a candid discussion on embracing your true self in a world that can't be avoided.
1 Dec 2023
Unavoidable Shit With If being single is boring and dating is stressful and being a hoe is risky, then what do you do
In this episode, we delve into the intricate dance of love, loneliness, and the unavoidable messiness that comes with it. Explore the pitfalls of singlehood, the stress of dating, and the risky business of embracing your inner "hoe." Get ready for candid conversations, hilarious anecdotes, and brutally honest insights that will leave you nodding in agreement or questioning your life choices. Because, let's face it, the journey to finding love is a chaotic, unpredictable, and sometimes downright messy rollercoaster. Buckle up!
29 Oct 2023
Unavoidable Shit With The Truth About Allyship
We're delving deep into the unavoidable messiness of allyship. In a world rife with issues of social justice, equity, and diversity, understanding what it truly means to be an ally is more crucial than ever.
Join our insightful host as we navigate the choppy waters of allyship and unveil the stark truths that often go unspoken. We'll tackle questions like: What is genuine allyship? How can we avoid performative gestures and get to the heart of real support? What are the common pitfalls to watch out for on the path to being a better ally?
But that's not all. We'll wrap up this powerful episode with a candid conversation about the challenges people of color face and the critical role that allyship plays in context. Together, we can move towards a more inclusive and equitable world for all by understanding the truth about allyship. Don't miss this eye-opening episode of Unavoidable Shit Podcast, because these are the conversations that truly matter.
8 Sept 2023
Unavoidable Shit With Being A Person Of Color In The Work Place
Welcome to the highly anticipated Season 2 premiere of the Unavoidable Shit Podcast!
In this powerful episode, we dive deep into a topic that resonates with countless individuals across the globe: being a person of color in the workplace. Join us as we embark on a thought-provoking journey, exploring the real-life experiences, challenges, and triumphs of POC professionals striving to make their mark in various industries.
Through candid conversations and compelling narratives, we shed light on the undeniable hurdles faced by people of color in corporate settings. Our guests share their personal stories of navigating a predominantly white workplace, addressing microaggressions, and confronting systemic biases head-on. We'll also explore the impact of cultural identity, imposter syndrome, and the unique resilience that comes from being a part of a marginalized community.
But this isn't just a recounting of struggles; it's a celebration of resilience and determination. Through this conversation, we aim to create an open and honest dialogue about the complexities of fighting for equality in the professional world. We'll emphasize the importance of staying true to the values of social justice and equality, and how these values can be powerful tools in the pursuit of change.
Join us as we dive into the nuances of being a person of color in the workplace and gain a better understanding of the different perspectives at play. Together, we can move towards a more inclusive and equitable world for all. Don't miss this eye-opening season premiere of Unavoidable Shit Podcast, because these are the conversations that truly matter.
28 Mar 2023
Unavoidable Shit with Decolonization! Are we fighting for equal rights or simply fighting for the gain of power to become like the very system that has oppressed us?
Welcome to this thought-provoking episode of our podcast, where we will be exploring a controversial topic that has been stirring up conversations in many communities. As people of color continue to fight for equality, some have raised the question of whether this fight is truly about equal rights or simply about gaining power to become like the very system that has oppressed them.
Drawing from our personal experiences and professional knowledge. We will examine the historical context of this issue, and explore the implications of adopting a "power over" approach in the fight for racial justice.
Through this conversation, we aim to create an open and honest dialogue about the complexities of fighting for equality, and the importance of staying true to the values of social justice and equality. Join us as we explore the nuances of this topic, and gain a better understanding of the different perspectives at play. Together, we can move towards a more inclusive and equitable world for all.
11 Nov 2022
Unavoidable Shit With Being Black And Queer
“Being a Black Queer human is a metaphysical dilemma I haven’t quite conquered yet.”
The original line goes something like:
“Being alive and being a woman is all I got, but being colored is a metaphysical dilemma I haven’t conquered yet…” — ‘Tangie’
"I imagine one of the reasons people cling to their hates so stubbornly is because they sense, once hate is gone, they will be forced to deal with pain. If you’re treated a certain way you become a certain kind of person. If certain things are described to you as being real, they’re real for you whether they’re real or not. It took many years of vomiting up all the filth I’d been taught about myself, and half-believed, before I was able to walk on the earth as though I had a right to be here. Freedom is not something that anybody can be given. Freedom is something people take, and people are as free as they want to be." ~James Baldwin
The intention for this conversation is to create an atmosphere of change around the subject of Being Black And Queer. Also to help share perspectives from A black queer lived experience!
17 Aug 2022
Unavoidable Shit With Religious/ Spiritual Trauma Part 2
Some churches “weaponize scripture and religion to do very deep damage on the psyche,” this also comes and other forms. Some people may call it spiritual bypassing and others might call it spiritual trauma! Spiritual trauma occurs as a result of events that threaten and damage our core spiritual values and goals. This can be a result of either abuse by religious/spiritual figures or being raised with a toxic and overbearing interpretation of that religion or spiritual belief. Join me and my good friend Sarah Noelle Gabriel as we unpack our experience with religious/spiritual trauma!The intention for this conversation is to create an atmosphere of change around the subject of Religious/spiritual Trauma. Also to help share perspectives form different variation of trauma inflected by different spiritual and Religious groups!
9 Aug 2022
Unavoidable Shit with Toxic Positivity
Toxic positivity or sometimes positive toxicity is a dysfunctional approach to emotional management that happens when people do not fully acknowledge negative emotions, particularly anger and sadness. It is a "pressure to stay upbeat no matter how dire one's circumstance is", and this pressure may prevent a person from coping emotionally with such circumstances by feeling otherwise natural emotions. Toxic positivity happens when people believe that negative thoughts about anything should be avoided. Even in response to events which normally would evoke sadness, such as loss or hardships, positivity is encouraged as a means to cope, but tends to overlook and dismiss true expression.
The intention for this conversation is to create and promote healthy views and conversations around Toxic Positivity , removing the obstacles of untold truths and learning to be transparent humans and create genuine experiences!
8 Jul 2022
Unavoidable Shit With the New Age Of Success
I think there is going to be a large paradigm shift in a few years, and it could either be to a new age of enlightenment and unity and we’ll be raised to a new level of consciousness, or it could be a return to a dark age of kings and mass, open oppression followed by a die-off of human culture. “I know it sounds new age-y, but what I’ve truly come up with is that you really need to trust that you’re on your own path, as long as you stay true to it and you show up, which is 99% of it.” ~ Jane Lynch
The intention for this conversation is to create and promote healthy views and conversations around The New Age Of Success , removing the obstacles of untold truths and learning to be transparent humans and create genuine experiences!
21 Jun 2022
Unavoidable Shit With Social Distortion
If you refuse to develop in the dark, you create a distorted picture of your life! Somewhere in the things humans make, I want to see scars, failure, disorder, distortion. It is useless to attempt to reason a man out of a thing he was never reasoned into.” “The most dangerous of all falsehoods is a slightly distorted truth. “Society cannot function if it is every man for himself."
The intention for this conversation is to create and promote healthy views and conversations around societal Distortion, removing the obstacles of untold truths and learning to be transparent humans and create genuine experiences!
13 Jun 2022
Unavoidable Shit With Friends after 30
"Friends
How many of us have them?
Friends
Ones we can depend on
Friends
How many of us have them?
Friends
Before we go any further, let's be
Friends
Is a word we use everyday
Most the time we use it in the wrong way
Now you can look the word up, again and again
But the dictionary doesn't know the meaning of friends
And if you ask me, you know, I couldn't be much help
Because a friend's somebody you judge for yourself
Some are okay, and they treat you real cool
And some mistake your kindness for being a fool
We like to be with some, because they're funny
Others come around when they need some money
Some you grew up with, around the way
And you're still real close to this very day
Homeboys through the Summer, Winter, Spring and Fall
And then there's some we wish we never knew at all
And this list goes on, again and again
But these are the people that we call friends"
~ Whodini
The intention for this conversation is to create and promote healthy views and conversations around forming authentic friendships in our lives, Ones that support and nurture us to be the best version of ourselves!
29 Apr 2022
Unavoidable Shit With Being Comfortable With Your Sexuality
To experience the most profound levels of sexual ecstasy, we must be willing to release, even if only temporarily, the drive for explosive orgasms and surrender to a quest for self-discovery and healing.Your soul is your connection to the Divine. Sacred sex is an activity of joining souls in holy, celestial creation, expressing your appreciation, for the gift of life. Sharing your body’s vitality with one another.Aligning with yourself, then another and you both aligning yourselves together further in harmony will summon source energy in ways you couldn’t imagine. The intention for this conversation is to create an atmosphere of comfort around the subject of sexuality and to Promote The idea of exploring sexuality through conversations and safe spaces!
16 Apr 2022
Unavoidable Shit With Religious Trauma Part 1
When Religion Leads to Trauma
Some churches “weaponize scripture and religion to do very deep damage on the psyche,” Gay, lesbian and trans people are told that God condemns them, unwed mothers that they are living in sin, and many natural human desires are deemed evil.Even after people leave religions where they have suffered abuse, they can still harbor the emotional conviction that they are “basically sinful and wrong,” says Marlene Winell, a human development expert who coined the term “religious trauma syndrome” in a series of articles in 2011.The intention for this conversation is to create an atmosphere of change around the subject of Religious Trauma. Also to help share perspectives form different variation of trauma inflected by different spiritual and Religious groups!
19 Mar 2022
Unavoidable Shit With Growth Coming From The Uncomfortable Places
Peter McWilliams once said, “Comfort zones are most often expanded through discomfort.” Discomfort is a catalyst for growth. It makes you yearn for something more. It forces you to change, stretch, and adapt. The intention for this conversation is to create an atmosphere of change via the spaces that makes us most uncomfortable!
22 Jul 2020
Greetings Earthlings!!!(Im The Shit You Can't Avoid)
Unavoidable shit is a podcast, that with a sense of lightness and humor journeys through the paradigm of unavoidable conversations!! Join me your favorite truth teller, Jarvis!! As I explore my quirky misadventures with conversations surrounding my experience of being a black queer male, and 30 something!! At the same time navigating my way through the spiritual community. The streams of consciousness heard on this podcast are meant to... create, provoke and awaken the unconscious behavior we experience along the way to self discovery! This show will feature hilarious and thought provoking interviews along with personal conversations that I sometimes tend to have with myself. I’m giving the world the opportunity to share my experience and to gain a deeper perspective on life through conversation and healing!!
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