Unbox Yourself™ with Samantha Fox®

About Unbox Yourself™ with Samantha Fox®

Unbox Yourself: Sexual Identity and Coming Out Later in Life with Samantha Fox® A podcast about sexual identity, coming out later in life, and breaking free from compulsory heterosexuality. Unbox Yourself with Samantha Fox® is your weekly dose of real, raw conversations to help you break free from heteronormative limitations and step into a life of full authenticity. Each episode navigates real life stories of self-discovery—especially those who have come out later in life or are questioning their sexuality after believing they were straight or bisexual. From struggles with shame, people-pleasing, and religious conditioning, to breaking free from compulsory heterosexuality, this podcast opens up honest dialogues about what it takes to live authentically. As you listen, you’ll not only find yourself feeling less alone in your struggles, but you’ll also gain the tools, compassion, and curiosity to start your own journey toward self-acceptance and alignment. You’ll hear stories that inspire and encourage you to take your next steps toward the life you truly deserve. And if you’re someone who’s navigating these challenges, we want to hear your story too! Unbox Yourself isn’t just a podcast; it’s a conversation—and you can apply to be a guest. Come share your experiences with Samantha, get support, and leave with new tools, insights, and a sense of empowerment to continue your journey. Tune in weekly, and let’s unbox ourselves together. Your story could inspire others—and you may just find that your struggles are the keys to your own freedom. Looking for help Unboxing Yourself? Apply to be on the show HERE (https://unboxyoursexuality.com) Tired of feeling alone with your later in life blooming sexuality? Learn more about The Bi Life HERE (https://unboxyoursexuality.com/bi-life) where all sexualities that are not straight are embraced , explored and supported in community 🌈 You realize you are not as straight as you thought you were and have no idea what the next step is...The Answer? Unbox Your Sexuality®: A Sexuality Liberation Program. Learn more HERE (https://unboxyoursexuality.com/cohort-1) Follow Samantha @lesbiancuriositycoach on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/lesbiancuriositycoach/) Follow Samantha on TikTok (https://www.tiktok.com/@lesbiancuriositycoach?_r=1&_t=ZP-91n9zneJkSN)

Publisher

Samantha Fox

Category

health & fitness · society & culture

Language

en

Explicit

Yes

First episode

7 Mar 2025

Latest episode

1 Mar 2026

Latest episodes

52 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   1 Mar 2026

   52 Weeks of Unboxing: What I Learned in a Year of Podcasting

   Episode 52 is the year-one finale of Unbox Yourself with Samantha Fox®. One year ago, Samantha set a bold goal...release one episode every week for a full year. In this closing chapter of season one, she reflects on what the commitment taught her about courage, grief, uncertainty, and becoming. Samantha shares the behind-the-scenes reality of starting a podcast with no technical knowledge, the power of choosing progress over perfection, and how giving herself longer-form space expanded her voice beyond short social clips. She also speaks openly about women’s conditioning, the lasting impact of hetero-patriarchy and religious constructs, and the high stakes of making life-altering choices before true self-awareness is online. This episode is for anyone navigating late-in-life coming out, questioning their sexuality, rebuilding after an identity shift, or feeling the tension between who they’ve been and who they’re becoming. Follow the show to stay tuned for what’s next, and connect with Samantha at unboxyoursexuality.com (http://unboxyoursexuality.com). compulsory heterosexuality, questioning my sexualtiy, am I gay, am I lesbian, am I bisexual, late-in-life coming out, coming out later in life, sexuality coach, lesbian curiosity, questioning sexuality, women’s empowerment, authenticity, self-trust, patriarchy, religious conditioning, hypervigilance, highly sensitive person, introvert, grief, loss, healing journey, imperfect action, personal growth, identity shift, unboxing yourself, women and relationships, midlife awakening, queer stories

2. 

   22 Feb 2026

   She's Attractive But I'm Not Attracted- Unboxing the Conditioning of Desire

   In this episode, “She’s Attractive but I’m Not Attracted: Unboxing Desire and Conditioning,” Samantha Fox explores how society, religion, culture, heteronormativity, and the male gaze condition us to confuse being desired with genuine attraction. She unpacks the difference between recognizing someone’s beauty and feeling real sensual desire, and shares how many women experience attraction through emotional safety, energetic fit, and connection over time (including demisexuality). This episode is an invitation to step off the “conveyor belt” of approval, question mainstream rules about sex and romance, and compassionately discover what attraction and intimacy actually mean for you. Keywords: attractive vs attracted, demisexual, demisexuality, lesbian attraction, queer desire, late bloomer lesbian, coming out later in life, heteronormativity, compulsory heterosexuality, comphet, male gaze, patriarchy, women and desire, emotional safety, intimacy, sensuality, sexuality spectrum, asexual spectrum, internal family systems, IFS, self-acceptance, unlearning conditioning, romantic spark, queer relationships

3. 

   15 Feb 2026

   When Healing Changes Your Marriage: Trauma, Sexuality, and Self-Trust

   TRIGGER WARNING- Traumatic topics discussed in this episode In this episode of Unbox Yourself with Samantha Fox®, Samantha talks with Mandy about trauma, complex PTSD (CPTSD), and sexuality, and what it can look like to be coming out later in life (as bisexual/queer) inside a long-term marriage. Mandy shares her story of starting therapy in 2020, coming out in 2022, and navigating the nervous system reality of healing: codependency, fight-or-flight, feeling “too much,” internalized homophobia, and the grief that can come when a partner can’t fully accept your identity. They also discuss the stigma and complexity of divorce, co-parenting after separation, and why sexuality is about more than sex, it’s about self-trust, belonging, and being seen. If you’re navigating CPTSD, a mixed-orientation marriage, late-in-life coming out, or rebuilding after divorce, this conversation will help you feel less alone.

Who has been a guest on Unbox Yourself™ with Samantha Fox®

Names identified in recent episode analyses. Showing up to five guests.

• Heidi Savell
• Nikki
• Buffy
• MJ Eldridge
• Alyssa

Reach and audience

Public platform figures. Ratings count people who left a rating, not total listeners.

Apple Podcasts (US)

4.9 / 5

13 ratings

Podcast Authority Score: 36 / 100

A composite of feed quality, social presence, YouTube performance and engagement. Read the methodology.

Quality

58

Social presence

0

YouTube

0

Engagement

32

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