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About unboxedKC

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Publisher

with Wes and Ace

Category

society & culture

Language

en

Explicit

Yes

First episode

16 Feb 2022

Latest episode

15 Oct 2026

Latest episodes

17 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   15 Oct 2026

   Jockstrap Archives, Tent Show History, Unmentionable Acts w/Artist & Queer Historian Joseph Keehn II

   In this episode of Unboxed with Wes & Ace, we sit down with artist, historian, curator, and cultural worker Joseph Keehn II. Blending deep historical inquiry with playful, candid storytelling, Joseph unpacks everything from surviving a life-altering medical crisis to bringing forgotten queer histories out of the shadows and onto the stage.Joseph recounts his journey from growing up in Topeka in a blended family of 11 to his years in New York working with the Brooklyn Museum and the New Museum, before making his way back to the Midwest via Salina, Kansas, and settling in Kansas City, Missouri. He shares the harrowing experience of surviving an ischemic stroke at age 38 during the peak of COVID lockdowns—an event that reshaped his creative priorities, required him to relearn dexterity and typing, and gave him a lasting reminder to protect his peace and step fully into the light.We also dive into Joseph’s work at the intersection of printmaking and archiving, including his iconic conceptual art series that uses Kansas City jockstraps as print media. Joseph gives us an exclusive behind-the-scenes look at Queertauqua and its inaugural traveling production, A Series of Unmentionable Acts. Exploring the history of American Chautauqua traveling tent shows from 1868 to 1930, Joseph explains how queer life was woven throughout that era—from Karl Heinrich Ulrichs’ historic 1867 speech to the staging of early American plays with puppets, camp, and interactive audience plushies.Along the way, the trio tackles the pressing question: Whose stories from Kansas City’s queer history are we in danger of losing? They reflect on honoring community elders, treating everyday conversations and podcasts as living archives, and stepping out from behind the scenes to wear our identities with zero shame.Connect with Joseph & Support the Production:Website: queertauqua.org (https://queertauqua.org/)Check out dates, venues, and donation links for A Series of Unmentionable Acts touring Kansas City this October!Support the Relaunch:Catch up on past episodes, explore our community directory, and submit your story to be a future guest at unboxedkc.org.

2. 

   5 Aug 2026

   Dixie Bell Rejections, a Courthouse Wedding, and a 30-year Pride Love Story: Unboxing DJ Santi (Part 2)

   Picking up right where Part 1 left off, we return to our deep dive with Kansas City mixer, urban planner, and community connector James "Jim" Hubbell—better known as DJ Santi. In this conclusion to our two-part interview, Santi delivers his full, unfiltered love story with his husband of 30 years, Sean. He walks us through their meeting in 1996—from a Pride weekend rejection in the Dixie Bell DJ booth to a modern art gallery tour at Grand Arts and long-distance Sprint phone cards while studying abroad in Spain. Santi also recounts their "shotgun courthouse marriage" in 2014, when they met an officiant in an empty office building next to Union Station and got married in business casual by a minister affectionately nicknamed Mr. Haney from Green Acres. Beyond his personal journey, Santi and the hosts dive into the heart of modern queer community building. He explores the creation and evolution of the Queer House Collective alongside local icons Sir Queen and Amanda Pate, the importance of sex-positive spaces, and the art of moving a dance floor. Finally, the trio tackles the realities of political burnout, choosing love every single day, and the fact that true connection requires leaving behind small talk. Connect with DJ Santi: Instagram: @santi2120 Support the Relaunch: Stream Part 1 and Part 2 seamlessly, check out local KC safe space directories, and catch up on community updates at unboxedkc.org.

3. 

   29 Jul 2026

   Technics 1200s, Topeka Gay Bars, and the Birth of the Queer House Collective: Unboxing DJ Santi (Part 1)

   In Part 1 of this two-part episode of Unboxed with Wes & Ace, we sit down with Kansas City DJ, urban planner, and community connector James "Jim" Hubbell, universally known behind the decks as DJ Santi. The trio kicks off the conversation with a trip down memory lane, swapping early Kansas City nightlife stories. Santi breaks down his early days learning to mix on analog Technics 1200 turntables after taking a gamble on a predatory college credit card table, his transition from vinyl purist to digital sets, and the art of reading a dance floor without relying on the sync button. Santi shares intimate stories of growing up in Topeka, Kansas, where his sisters acted as his first "drag mothers," and how his first gay mentor, Charles, snuck him into local gay bars as a teenager. He reflects on coming out at a Catholic high school, navigating the fear and stigma of the AIDS crisis in the '90s, and his 10-year hiatus from music before returning to KC and hatching the Queer House Collective alongside local icons Sir Queen and Amanda Pate. The episode ends on a tantalizing cliffhanger just as Santi begins to reveal how he met his husband, Sean—setting up an unforgettable conclusion in Part 2! Connect with DJ Santi: Instagram: @santi2120 Support the Relaunch: Stream past episodes, check out local KC safe space directories, and catch up on community updates at unboxedkc.org.

4. 

   22 Jul 2026

   Dating App Extortion, The "Scammer’s Playbook," and Academic Redemptions: Unboxing Dr. Chris Conner

   In this intellectually sharp, raw, and fiercely captivating episode of Unboxed with Wes & Ace, we are joined by social scientist, criminologist, and Stephen O. Murray Faculty in Residence at Michigan State University, and Assistant Professor of Sociology at the University of Missouri-Columbia, Dr. Chris Conner. Straddling the line between qualitative research and the lived realities of urban versus rural gay spaces, Chris brings a masterful blend of data-driven depth and stark vulnerability to the pod. We jump straight into nightlife shifts, decoding the exact reality of modern gay spaces—from rituals leaving Missy B's at 1:00 AM for an epic weekend cuddle session to why letting go of the weekly bar grind keeps the "magic" alive. Moving rapidly from the physical dance floor to structural data, Chris gives a powerful masterclass on his groundbreaking research analyzing how dating apps (specifically Grindr) are weaponized to facilitate cybercrime, romance fraud, and sextortion across all 50 states. He lays bare the "Scammer’s Playbook," explaining how closeted, aging gay men in rural, hyper-heteronormative southern and midwestern towns are uniquely targeted for extortion. Chris even shares a personal, badass story of facing down a sextortionist himself by simply declaring, "My family knows I'm a freak, go ahead and tell them." The trio dives deep into darker global and local phenomena—from the horrifying modern history of London's "Grindr Killer" to how law enforcement agencies across the country (including a recent Sniffies bust in New York) use digital entrapment tactics to feed mass-incarceration systems, turning unsuspecting cruisers over to ICE. Chris and the hosts also challenge public sex stigmas, advocating for the Australian approach of boundary-respecting consent while drawing parallels between gay cruising spaces and straight "lovers' lanes" that society continuously romanticizes. Beyond the data, Chris gets extraordinarily vulnerable about his own timeline of trauma and redemption. He exposes the toxicity of his academic exile at Washburn University—situated right in the shadow of the Westboro Baptist Church—including surviving a theft, dealing with department chairs who denied evolution, and surviving a tragic drink-drugging assault at a nightclub. He breaks down how churning out text after text wasn't a choice but a grueling survival mechanism to shield his career, leading to his new email signature: "Publish to have a life worth living." Now standing securely on the precipice of tenure with his upcoming fall text, QAnon, Capitalism, and the Crisis of Meaning (Bloomsbury Academic), Chris explains why our broken political system feeds conspiracy movements. We close out with rapid-fire playlist picks—including Boy on a Leash by Patriarchy, Small Town Boy by Bronski Beat, and Meek’s Fabulous—proving that under the scholar lies a beautifully complex, authentic human who isn't afraid to look down the rabbit hole. Connect with Dr. Chris Conner: Website: chrisconner.net Instagram: @connersociology Look out for his affordable new text, QAnon, Capitalism, and the Crisis of Meaning, hitting Bloomsbury and major outlets this fall! Support the Relaunch: Access the Unboxed volunteer portal to support community-led initiatives, check local safety guidelines for digital dating, and stream every episode at unboxedkc.org.

5. 

   15 Jul 2026

   The Sassy’s Baptism, Seminary Closets, and why ABBA is NOT Disco: Unboxing DJ Sir Queen

   In this legendary, laugh-out-loud, and deeply soulful episode of Unboxed with Wes & Ace, we sit down with Kansas City's own premier curator of vibe and space, Adam—better known behind the decks as DJ Sir Queen. In a sweeping conversation that effortlessly bridges the gap between strict religious conformity and the absolute freedom of the underground dance floor, Adam shares the hilarious, profound, and beautifully complex story of how he found his sound and reclaimed his identity. The journey starts back in the early '90s with an unlikely hero: Jump Rope for Heart. Adam recounts how he jumped his second-grade heart out to win a mini boombox tape recorder, using his prize to microdose late-night hip-hop and R&B in his closet, safely out of his strict Catholic family's radar. That childhood musical encyclopedia set the stage for his senior year of high school in Amarillo, Texas, when a rebellious classmate named Lauren used him as the ultimate "good boy" alibi to sneak out. Instead of hitting the movie theater, Adam was whisked away to a gay burger joint called Furby's, run by bear daddies, and then to his very first step into a gay nightclub called Sassy's. Adam shares the exact, hilarious split-second moment he realized where he was—courtesy of a massive "ranch paw" grabbing his left butt cheek on the way out the door. Despite discovering a space where he felt an intense, liberating energy, Adam’s path took a sharp turn into a formal seminary and monastery. For six years (2007–2013), his brain was "locked in a bunker" of strict dogmatic conditioning, complete with a hyper-vigilant "tattletale culture" where church peers ratted each other out. He walks us through what it felt like to step out of that bubble in 2013, completely missing years of popular culture, and how a bedroom DJ controller in Maryville, Missouri, ultimately became his tool for healing and self-exploration. True to the show's unapologetic nature, Adam sets the record straight on the hill he is absolutely willing to die on: ABBA is European pop, NOT disco. He drops a heavy masterclass on music history, reminding the world that disco is inherently Black and brown queer music rooted in soul, jazz, and Caribbean rhythms, birthed in sanctuaries like David Mancuso's The Loft and Larry Levan’s Paradise Garage long before it was commercialized by corporate elites. From his first mind-blowing trip to Chicago's iconic Smartbar to throwing his own beloved monthly queer dance night, THICC, at Woody’s KC, Adam delivers a powerful message on modern club culture. He issues a passionate plea to the younger generation to put down the phones, stop chasing the "next hot bar," step out of the curated aesthetic, and learn to be messy, vulnerable, and fully present on a sweaty dance floor. It is an hour-plus full of storytelling, deep music history, and a beautiful reminder that when the right music hits your body, you are exactly where you belong. Connect with Sir Queen: Instagram: @theSirQueen (DM for bookings, track IDs, and residency schedules) Catch him spinning exclusive vinyl cuts at Nighthawk, or headline his signature queer dance party, THICC, running every second Friday at Woody’s KC (9:00 PM to close). Support the Relaunch: Keep the underground alive, check out our local KC safe space directory, and stream every episode at unboxedkc.org.

6. 

   8 Jul 2026

   Protecting Your Peace, Living the Blueprint, and the Power of the "Most Bottom Bottom": Unboxing Vivian Taylor

   In this deeply personal, fast-paced, and unfiltered episode of Unboxed with Wes & Ace, we are joined by the stunning Vivian Taylor (formerly known to the local scene as Florence Faye). A full-time physical therapy student, server, bartender, and entertainer at Hamburger Mary’s Kansas City, Vivian breaks down the relentless hustle of balancing three jobs with higher education while staying flawlessly grounded in her truth. We dive straight into Vivian’s roots, tracing her journey from growing up half-Mexican in a deeply traditional, strict Catholic household—where she was once pegged as a future priest—to her medical and social transition that began in 2022. Vivian opens up about setting fierce boundaries with a narcissistic parent, navigating the early stages of transitioning in a public dance major program, and the comical, effective methods she used to get her mom adjusted to her name. She pulls back the curtain on the exact reality of dating straight men as a trans woman, the "ick" of encountering fetishizing chasers, and her identity as a self-proclaimed "most bottom bottom" who prefers deep communication and a movie-night cuddle over empty situationships. As a brilliant, scholarship-trained dancer and gymnast, Vivian explains how her physical background supports her career in sports medicine and her art on stage. She walks us through her incredible run at the Miss Gay America Femme pageant in Little Rock, where she placed 6th overall nationwide despite suffering a literal stress fracture in her foot on prelim night. Vivian details her emotional talent routine—a tribute to the historical tragic love story of trans icon Calpernia Addams and soldier Barry Winchell—and how the legendary Lana Luxxx became her unexpected blueprint, resource, and sister in activism. Closing out with a heavy debate on modern wokeness, identity boxing, and why not everyone belongs in every space, Vivian delivers a powerful message on what true activism looks like. It’s not always about screaming in the streets; sometimes, the ultimate form of resistance is simply choosing to wake up, get an education, and live an authentic life with zero shame. Connect with Vivian: Instagram: @xviviantaylor Catch her live at Hamburger Mary’s KC (Wednesday–Sunday) or at Body Euphoria, a gender-inclusive showcase running every fourth Friday at Woody’s KC (9:00 PM to close). Support the Relaunch: Explore more local trans history archives, view community health resource links, and catch every unfiltered episode at unboxedkc.org.

7. 

   1 Jul 2026

   Empathy as a Weapon, Radical Transparency, and the Sidewalk Chalk Manifesto with Eric Thomas

   In this moving, hilarious, and unapologetic episode of Unboxed with Wes & Ace, the pod welcomes a Kansas City advocate and a lifelong friend of the hosts, Eric. With a friendship spanning decades, the trio leaves absolutely nothing tucked away as they dive straight into the messy, beautiful, and sometimes chaotic reality of living a life centered on community leadership, radical empathy, and mutual support. The conversation kicks off with some nostalgic, laugh-out-loud history—including a legendary pool-party food fight involving a tub of potato salad—before anchoring in the serious, ongoing battle against HIV/AIDS. Wearing their values on their sleeves, Wes, Ace, and Eric discuss the vital history of the phrase Silence = Death, confronting the misconception that the epidemic is a thing of the past. Eric breaks down how white privilege historically shifted the narrative of the crisis and how systemic healthcare inequities continue to disproportionately impact Black, brown, and trans communities today. As a former driving force behind the AIDS Service Foundation’s Millennial League and the Heartland Queer Project, Eric speaks candidly about the exhausting reality of grassroots fundraising, board burnout, and the desperate need to mobilize a younger generation of Gen Z and millennial volunteers. The trio tackles the complex layers of modern "cancel culture" and performance-based activism, with Eric calling for a return to radical transparency and trust-building among local nonprofit organizations. Rather than hiding behind curated social media feeds or weaponized buzzwords, they challenge the community to get their hands dirty, show up for the emotional labor, and step up to help set up tables and chairs when local movements need it most. But it’s the quiet, deeply personal moments that define the heart of this episode. Eric shares his story of how a box of sidewalk chalk during the COVID-19 isolation turned his home into a neighborhood beacon of sunshine and mutual care. In response, Ace delivers an unforgettable tribute to his late father, sharing a profound memory from southwest Kansas that teaches us how to choose love, maintain human connection, and find the golden sun even in the face of blatant ignorance and systemic oppression. From analyzing Miley Cyrus tracks and Ts Madison Vine culture to the emotional weight of processing the loss of a family pet, this episode unboxes the raw, unfiltered human connection society is starving for. Eric’s Recommended KC Organizations: KC CARE Health Center (Healthcare, dental, and behavioral health services) SAVE Inc. (Housing as healthcare initiatives) AIDS Service Foundation / Blackout KC (HIV/AIDS education and destigmatization) Pete’s Garden & Kanbe's Markets (Combating local food insecurity and food waste) Support the Relaunch: Explore our community resource directory, read up on local advocacy updates, and listen to past episodes at unboxedkc.org.

8. 

   24 Jun 2026

   The Chappell Roan Tea, Club Legacy, and the Chicago Manifestation: Unboxing DJ Amanda (Part 2)

   The box stays wide open for part two of our deep dive with Kansas City music royalty, DJ Amanda. We left you on a massive cliffhanger in part one, and in this episode, Amanda delivers the full, unfiltered story behind the viral Chappell Roan gig she was forced to turn down—unpacking the industry double standards, late-night panic texts, and the realities of less-than-24-hour booking notices. Picking up right where the trust left off, Wes, Ace, and Amanda move from industry "tea" to a masterclass in community accountability. Amanda breaks down her professional double life as a Director of Inclusion and Belonging, confronting the performative nature of corporate allyship, the tokenization of queer artists during Pride month, and the critical need to protect the dance floor as a true sanctuary. As she prepares to pack up her vinyl and leave the Midwest "red sea" for her next big chapter in Chicago, Amanda shares the emotional reality of leaving behind a 25-year legacy in Kansas City. From hilarious trips down memory lane—including how Wes and Ace actually met on Scruff a decade ago—to navigating Amanda and Ace's parallel grief of losing a father, this final hour is a celebration of resilience, therapy, and learning to proudly take up space. Turn the volume up for the conclusion of our most raw conversation yet. Connect with Amanda: Instagram: @AmandaFromKC / @QueerHouseCollective SoundCloud: Search "DJ Amanda" for 25 years of live archival club mixes. Support the Relaunch: Stream Part 1 and Part 2 seamlessly, check out our community partners, and grab official merch at unboxedkc.org.

9. 

   17 Jun 2026

   Manifesting the Vibe: 25 Years of House Music, Corporate Double Lives, and Escaping the Red Sea with DJ Amanda Part 1

   In this two-parter episode of Unboxed with Wes & Ace, the studio fills up with pure Kansas City music royalty as we sit down with local legend DJ Amanda. Approaching a massive milestone of 25 years behind the decks, Amanda joins us for a beautifully raw, hilarious, and deeply personal conversation about what it means to build a legacy, navigate major life shifts, and stay entirely true to your own sound. We track Amanda’s journey from growing up in the Northland to discovering her soul’s home at her first rave at 18. Amanda speaks passionately about the true origins of house music—born from Black, brown, and queer cultures in Chicago and New York—and the struggles of carving out a niche space for that music in a predominantly white-centered, pop-heavy Midwest club scene in the early 2000s. She pulls back the curtain on some major local music "tea," the industry's double standards, and how she helped pave the way for a flourishing collective of local women and queer DJs through the Queer House Collective. But this chat goes way deeper than the tracklists. Amanda opens up about the "double life" she leads, balancing her late-night artistry with a corporate career as a Director of Inclusion and Belonging. We dive headfirst into the psychology of change, the necessity of unpacking our own fragility, and how moving past personal shame—a journey sparked by the painful, parallel losses of Amanda's and Ace's fathers—can entirely redefine a life. With Amanda preparing to pack up her vinyl and manifest her ultimate dream of playing the legendary Smartbar in Chicago, this episode serves as a bittersweet love letter and a grand farewell to Kansas City. We tackle the heavy realities of being a queer person in a red state, the performative nature of corporate allyship, and why it is so critical to protect the safe sanctuaries of the dance floor. It’s an hour of deep belly laughs, shared grief, high-fives over bedroom dynamics, and a masterclass in community connection. Connect with Amanda: Instagram: @AmandaFromKC (Updated!) / @QueerHouseCollective SoundCloud: Search "DJ Amanda" for 60+ hours of live vinyl and club mixes. Support the Relaunch: Keep the conversation going and explore our community archive at unboxedkc.org.

10. 

    10 Jun 2026

    Viral Murals, City Hall Politics, and Living Authentically: Unboxing Art, Poly Life, and Legacy with Jared Horman

    In this episode of Unboxed with Wes & Ace, we sit down with a close friend, acclaimed muralist, visual artist, and the former Creative Director for the City of Kansas City, Jared Horman. This conversation is a beautiful, nostalgic, and deeply honest look at what happens when art, queer identity, and public service intersect in the heart of the Midwest. Wes, Ace, and Jared trace a rich, decade-long friendship that began on the fields of local queer sports leagues and evolved through the halls of local government and major public art installations. Jared pulls back the curtain on his creative process, sharing the stories behind some of his most impactful work—including the inspiration that birthed his viral Chappell Roan mural, and the deeply emotional weight of creating the KC CARE Health Center and AIDS Service Foundation's World AIDS Day legacy mural, an installation that captures the resilient history of our community's healthcare advocacy. The trio also dives into the realities of working from the inside out. Jared speaks candidly about navigating his identity as a queer creative inside city government, balancing bureaucratic expectations with authentic self-expression. But staying true to the core of Unboxed, the conversation moves beyond the resume to explore what it truly means to live life on your own terms. Jared shares his personal journey of navigating the beautiful complexities of polyamory, and finding his rhythm as an independent creative. And Wes shares about his oddest role of all—being a goat dad. It’s an episode packed with local Kansas City pride, deep friendship, creative inspiration, and the reminder that living out loud is the ultimate masterpiece. Support the Relaunch: Explore more stories, connect with local KC creators, and listen to full episodes at unboxedkc.org.

11. 

    3 Jun 2026

    Political Pandering, Queer Safe Spaces, and Body-Positive Comedy with Brittany Tilander (@BTfromKC)

    In this episode of Unboxed with Wes & Ace, we are joined by Kansas City’s own comedian, producer, and digital creator, Brittany Tilander (widely known as @BTfromKC). True to the Unboxed mission, this conversation starts with accountability and dives straight into the heavy-hitting issues affecting our local LGBTQ+ community before shifting into comedy, culture, and bedroom boundaries. We kick off the episode with a critical, no-holds-barred look at the political landscape in Kansas City. The trio analyzes Mayor Quinton Lucas's record on LGBTQ+ issues, specifically unpacking the implications of a city council vote to repeal a conversion therapy ban. Brittany helps us break down the frustration of political pandering and what happens when elected leaders cater to centrist voters at the direct expense of their most marginalized constituents. From there, we address left-leaning political accountability, shine a light on the grassroots KC community organizations doing the actual heavy lifting, and confront systemic local issues—including the chronic lack of queer safe spaces and the impact of food deserts on Kansas City's east side. Then, we transition the energy into a space of joy, art, and entertainment. Brittany shares her comedy origins in Madison, Wisconsin, and the inspiration behind creating her body-positive burlesque and comedy showcase, Body Language. We also indulge in a bit of pop-culture obsession, breaking down our favorite reality TV shows, including The Traitors, Survivor, and RuPaul’s Drag Race. To wrap up, we get into the deeply personal and unfiltered territory Unboxed is famous for. Brittany opens up about navigating pansexuality and the communication required in open relationships, leading into a raw conversation about the queer switch community, the realities of Fist Fest, and how to book Brittany for your next event. It is a beautiful mix of Kansas City advocacy, deep laughs, and zero shame. Connect with Brittany: Instagram: @BTfromKC Support the Relaunch: Head over to unboxedkc.org to learn more about the pod, catch up on past episodes, or find out how you can get involved in our growing community.

12. 

    27 May 2026

    Ropes, Rules, and Raw Conversations: Navigating Bondage, Consent, and Hookup Safety with Travis @ropes_whatknots

    In this episode of Unboxed with Wes & Ace, we sit down with a longtime friend and a member of the kink community, Travis (known to many as @ropes_whatknots). This conversation embodies our mission: creating a safe, unfiltered space to discuss the "taboo" topics that society often brushes under the rug. We kick things off with a candid (and often hilarious) debate on the ambiguity of sexual boundaries—specifically navigating "Lent rules" and the gray areas of edging, pre-cum, and partner assistance. From there, the conversation shifts into the practical and often overlooked world of hookup culture safety. We discuss the logistics of using motels to avoid awkward lobbies, the speed of encounters on apps like Scruff and Grindr, and the critical importance of vetting partners in a landscape where substance use and misrepresentation are real risks. Travis opens up about his professional and personal journey within the bondage community. From launching a dedicated bondage site to his transition to OnlyFans, Travis explains the appeal of ropes and the power of control. Central to his work is a commitment to body inclusivity, challenging the narrow aesthetic standards often seen in the kink world. The episode takes a serious turn as we discuss the weight of consent. Travis shares personal experiences with consent violations within the bondage community, his time in the military, and during travel-based sessions. We explore how he and his husband, Blane, navigate the complexities of their relationship with honesty and clear communication. Finally, we zoom out to the "big picture." The trio reflects on the current state of human justice and on a political climate that often feels as if society is regressing. It’s 100% raw, 100% Unboxed. Connect with Travis: Instagram: @ropes_whatknots Support the Relaunch: Visit unboxedkc.org to learn more about our mission, shop with our community partners, or find out how you can be a guest on a future episode.

13. 

    20 May 2026

    Authentic Resilience with Beau Gostomsky

    In this episode, we sit down with Beau Gostomsky to celebrate a journey of personal courage. Beau takes us through his path of self-discovery, proving that taking the leap to be yourself is always worth the risk. In this episode, we discuss: Midwest Pride & Coming Out: Why a supportive environment doesn't always make taking the leap any less daunting. Overcoming Fear: Navigating the very real threat of being disowned and finding the strength to push forward anyway. The Power of Persistence: How finishing a nursing degree became a symbol of survival and ultimate self-acceptance. Whether you are navigating your own coming-out journey or just need a reminder of human resilience, Beau’s story is a testament to the power of living authentically.

14. 

    19 Feb 2026

    Colton Dowling Unboxed

    After a two-year hiatus, Wes and Ace are back to unbox the taboo, the stigmatized, and the hilariously raw. Joining them for this reunion is comedian and podcaster Colton Dowling for an unfiltered deep dive into the stories we usually keep hidden. From the evolution of the Unboxed mission to a candid exploration of the fisting community and sexual health, no topic is off-limits. The trio balances humor with heavy-hitting vulnerability as they discuss navigating grief, the dissolution of creative partnerships, and the complex boundaries of open relationships. Whether it’s reclaiming mental health or discussing the logistics of kink, this episode is a reminder that every story is valid when told without shame.

15. 

    13 Apr 2022

    Phyllis Hardwick with Show Me Change and Ellie Grace with the "=VOTE" project S1 Ep3

    Join Wes and Ace as they discuss ways to be an informed voter with special guests Phyllis Hardwick with Show Me Change and Ellie Grace with the "=VOTE" project, part of The Voter Network. Show Me Change is focused on electing Democrats up & down on the Missouri ballot. The Voter Network is a nonpartisan organization focused on creating stronger communities in Kansas through voter education and engagement. https://thevoternetwork.org/ (https://thevoternetwork.org/)

16. 

    6 Apr 2022

    Black Pockets with CiCi Glasgow Brown S1 EP2

    Wes and Ace chat with CiCi Glasgow Brown of Black Pockets LLC an organization rooted in Black "Wellth" services that support the overall wellness; financial, physical, emotional, and spiritual of Black LGBTQIA+ individuals, communities, businesses, and organizations.

17. 

    16 Feb 2022

    One condom One penis S1 EP1

    S1 EP1 Wes and Ace chat with Milla from My One Condom about their custom-made condoms. You can get 15% off your order today with code “UNBOXED” at myonecondoms.com

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