Under One Roof

About Under One Roof

A podcast about culture and discipleship in the christian home.

Publisher

Andrey and Liya Bulanov

Category

kids & family · society & culture

Language

en

Explicit

No

First episode

8 Aug 2022

Latest episode

21 Nov 2025

Latest episodes

16 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   21 Nov 2025

   How to Have Better Conversations | Ep. 14

   Summary In this episode of Under One Roof, we dive deep into one of the most practical skills for everyday life: how to navigate conversations well. Whether in marriage, friendships, church community, or even business, the ability to have meaningful conversations is essential for relational depth. We explore why conversations matter, the posture of connection, the heart habits that help relationships grow, and several conversation killers we all need to avoid. You’ll learn practical principles for being present, asking better questions, drawing out people’s values, sensing social cues, and cultivating a Christlike posture of love that transforms the way we communicate. If you've ever thought, “I don’t know what to say,” this episode will equip you with clear tools to build stronger, richer, more connected relationships. Keywords: Christian relationships How to have better conversations Christian communication Conversation skills Healthy relationships Communication in marriage Christian discipleship Building deeper friendships How to connect with people Relational wisdom Christian podcast Under One Roof Podcast Social skills for Christians Chapters 00:00 – Welcome + Why Conversations Matter 02:10 – Why We Often Say “I Don’t Know What to Say” 05:30 – Conversations as the Glue of Relationships 10:18 – Why Quality Conversation Deepens Connection 14:40 – The Posture of Connection: Being Present & Interested 20:15 – Talking vs. Connecting: How to Tell the Difference 25:00 – Learning to Sense People & Read Social Cues 31:22 – Becoming a Person Who Values Others’ Stories 36:10 – Asking Better Questions (and the questions to avoid) 40:45 – Conversation Killers: Oversharing, One-Upping, Self-Centeredness 47:55 – Not Overwhelming Introverts & Knowing Your Role in Others’ Lives 52:40 – Openness, Trust & The Ingredients of Relational Growth 57:10 – How to Be Someone People Love Talking To 1:02:00 – Final Thoughts & Practical Takeaways Hashtags #ChristianPodcast #ChristianRelationships #CommunicationSkills #HowToConnect #HealthyRelationships #ChristianLiving #Discipleship #ChristianMarriage #RelationshipAdvice #SocialSkills #ChristianCommunity #UnderOneRoofPodcast #FaithAndLife #GospelLiving #ChristCenteredLife

2. 

   21 Nov 2025

   The Lies that Social Media Tells Us

   Episode Summary In this episode, we unpack several of the most common lies that modern social media—and the broader culture—feeds Christians today. Because we are all “creatures of culture,” ideas around boundaries, self-care, hustle culture, the “slow life,” and all-or-nothing thinking often slip into our minds without scrutiny. Together we explore why these ideas resonate, what partial truths make them appealing, and—more importantly—how Scripture calls us to discernment, wisdom, hospitality, fruitful labor, sacrificial love, and a God-centered view of rest and identity. This is a practical, honest conversation about learning to sift truth from error so our lives are shaped more by Christ than by the algorithm. Key Themes & Keywords Christian discipleship, Social media influence, Cultural discernment, Saying “no” wisely, Boundaries vs. selfishness, Self-care culture, Hustle culture & masculinity, Quiet life vs. productive life, Hospitality & fruitful labor, Biblical rest & Sabbath, Overstimulation & digital consumption, All-or-nothing thinking, Wisdom and vocation, Parenting, marriage, Christian home life, Contentment & calling Chapters 00:00 – Intro: Why We’re Talking About Cultural Lies Setting the stage: how culture subtly shapes our habits, expectations, and values. 03:10 – Lie #1: “Learning to Say No” / The Self-Care Obsession The partial truth of boundaries, but the danger of self-protection, flakiness, and refusing to be inconvenienced in love. 10:45 – A Biblical Vision of Time, Calling, and Stewardship Numbering our days, embracing God-given limits, and avoiding overload we create for ourselves. 17:20 – Hospitality, Hard Work & Fruitful Labor Why Scripture presents a life of generosity, availability, and action—not self-preservation—as the norm for believers. 23:00 – Lie #2: The “Slow Life” Aesthetic The Pinterest-perfect home, cottage-core mothering, and the myth of serene domesticity. 28:15 – Quiet Moments vs. Quiet Lifestyle Why moms feel discouraged, and what real spiritual quiet looks like (prayer, Scripture, contemplation). 33:40 – Lie #3: Crunchy/Off-Grid/Organic = Godliness How natural living can subtly become a point of pride or self-righteousness. 38:55 – Lie #4: Hustle Culture & Hyper-Masculinity Why men today feel crushed under unrealistic expectations—and what biblical manhood really looks like. 46:30 – Faithful Ordinary Men Redefining success: showing up, loving your family, fighting sin, and embracing your actual calling. 51:50 – Lie #5: All-or-Nothing Thinking Oversimplifying complex issues, choosing sides, and demonizing other Christians in a polarized age. 58:00 – Disagreement, Discernment & Christian Unity Learning to engage critically without shutting people out. 01:02:00 – Closing Encouragement A call to wisdom: look to Christ, not culture, for identity, rest, and direction. Hashtags #UnderOneRoofPodcast #ChristianHome #ChristianDiscipleship #BiblicalWisdom #ChristianCulture #CounterculturalLiving #ChristianParents #FaithAndCulture #SocialMediaLies #BiblicalManhood #BiblicalWomanhood #ChristCenteredLiving #GospelLife #RestInChrist #ChristianPodcast

3. 

   12 Nov 2025

   Becoming Parents | Ep. 16

4. 

   2 Jul 2025

   The Power of Affection

   This episode explores the crucial role of affection in marriage, examining how childhood experiences shape expressions of love and offering insights on communicating needs for greater intimacy.

5. 

   17 Jun 2025

   Identifying Envy

   This episode explores the biblical perspective on envy, its spiritual dangers, and its impact on emotional and social well-being, providing practical steps to combat it with truth and faith.

6. 

   12 Jun 2025

   Dealing with Tantrums

   This episode explores practical tools for Christian parents to handle toddler tantrums with patience and biblical wisdom, offering strategies for navigating meltdowns and emotional outbursts.

7. 

   2 Jun 2025

   Taking Ownership

   Hosts Andrey Bulanov and Leah Bulanov examine the importance of taking ownership in relationships, especially during conflict, to foster trust and promote healthier communication, offering steps for navigating disagreements in this interview.

8. 

   27 May 2025

   How to Deepen Your Relationships and Love Others Better

   This episode explores strategies for enhancing relationships and fostering deeper connections with others.

9. 

   22 Feb 2023

   Going Deeper in Conflict Resolution

   This episode explores conflict resolution, emphasizing the need to understand underlying desires and expectations beyond a simple apology for healthier relationships.

10. 

    13 Feb 2023

    Are your kids good people?

    This episode explores how parents actively shape their children into becoming good and pleasant individuals, fostering positive character traits.

11. 

    7 Feb 2023

    You family needs your healing

    This episode explores how addressing past pain and trauma promotes healing within families, leading to stronger familial bonds.

12. 

    4 Oct 2022

    Being Known in Marriage

    This episode explores how marriages empowered by Jesus can foster genuine understanding and love, moving beyond clichéd communication to achieve deep connection.

13. 

    17 Sept 2022

    Two Pillars of Daily Parenting

    This episode explores how parents can use grace and instruction as foundational pillars for navigating the complexities of daily family life.

14. 

    24 Aug 2022

    What do you REALLY think of your spouse?

    This episode explores the hidden thoughts and perspectives spouses hold about each other, even after many years of marriage, encouraging a more honest and accepting view of their partner.

15. 

    19 Aug 2022

    Living in Fellowship

    This episode explores how to cultivate fellowship and unity within the home by grounding behaviors and dispositions in God's love, ultimately creating a home filled with divine fellowship.

16. 

    8 Aug 2022

    Welcome to Under One Roof!

    Hosts Andrey and Liya introduce their podcast, Under One Roof, discussing the importance of encouragement for families navigating the challenges of daily life.

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5 ratings

Podcast Authority Score: 8 / 100

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2

Social presence

0

YouTube

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Engagement

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