Hey y’all! Welcome to Under The Dryer where we keep it real, raw, and unfiltered. This is the space where we talk about everything, from business and beauty to life, relationships, and those everyday moments that shape us.
I’m your host, Abby, a hairstylist, mom, and entrepreneur just figuring it out like everybody else.
So grab your coffee, your glass of wine, or whatever you need, it’s time to go Under The Dryer.
Sponsored by Hair on Ten & Undivided Attention LLC
In this episode of Under the Dryer, Abs gets real about what self-love actually looks like and why so many people misunderstand it.
Self-love is not just getting your hair done, going out, or treating yourself. That is self-care. Real self-love comes from setting boundaries, choosing yourself, and walking away from people, environments, and situations that no longer serve you.
In this episode, Abs talks about:• The difference between self-care and self-love• How social media creates a false idea of love and success• Why boundaries are necessary for growth• The reality of outgrowing people and feeling alone• Learning yourself and doing the inner work
This is a raw and honest conversation about choosing yourself, even when it is uncomfortable.
Sometimes loving yourself means letting go.
🎙 Hosted by Abs
Exclusively Sponsored by Interstate 80
16 Mar 2026
Teen Truths Parents Need to Hear | Yanniie Speaks
In this episode of Under the Dryer, Abs sits down with a very special guest, Yanniie, for a real and honest conversation about what it’s like being a teenager today.
From social media pressure and school stress to dating, curfews, and the things parents just don’t seem to understand, Yanniie gives a raw perspective on the challenges teens face growing up in today’s world.
The conversation also dives into trust between parents and children, why teenagers sometimes feel misunderstood, and how both sides can learn to communicate better.
Sometimes the best way to understand the next generation is to simply listen.
🎙 Hosted by Abs👤 Guest: YanniieSponsored by Hair on 10 and Undivided Attention LLC
9 Mar 2026
Living in Your Truth Is a Boss Move
In this episode from Under the Dryer, Abs and guest Taylor talk about what it really means to live in your truth and step into your power.
Taylor shares her perspective on accountability, learning from mentors, and why becoming a boss requires honesty with yourself first. Growth does not happen when you avoid the truth. It happens when you face it, learn from the people who guide you, and move with intention.
The conversation touches on mentorship, personal development, and the mindset shift required to truly level up in life.
Living in your truth is not always easy, but it is a boss move.
🎙 Hosted by Abs👤 Guest: Taylor
Sponsored by Hair on Ten and Undivided Attention LLC
2 Mar 2026
Men Are Simple, Do Women Complicate it?
The conversation continues with Izzo, and the energy shifts in Part 2.
This half goes deeper into accountability, desire, provision vs nurturing, and why so many relationships miss the mark.
We talk about:
Why men say women overcomplicate relationships
Why women feel unheard
Matching frequency and sexual energy
Accountability on both sides
Why people stay too long in situations that don’t work
What men actually mean when they say “we’re simple”
Is it really that simple? Are women asking for too much? Or are men avoiding emotional responsibility?
This one is raw, layered, and guaranteed to spark conversation.
Hosted by Abs
Sponsored by Hair on 10 and Undivided Attention LLC
23 Feb 2026
Men & Women Can’t Be Friends – A Male Perspective
We brought a man to the mic… and he did not hold back.
In this episode of Under the Dryer, Abs sits down with Izzo to get a real male perspective on relationships, cheating, red flags, good morning texts, and whether men and women can actually be just friends.
Why do men cheat?Is it insecurity or logic?Are women selfish in relationships?And do men really think your “male best friend” secretly likes you?
This conversation gets honest, controversial, and a little heated. If you ever wanted to hear what men say when they’re comfortable speaking freely… this is it.
Hosted by AbsSponsored by Hair on 10 and Undivided Attention LLC
16 Feb 2026
Love Doesn’t Pay Bills… So What Are You Choosing? (Part 2)
Love Doesn’t Pay Bills… So What Are You Choosing?
We’re back with Taylor, and this conversation gets real.
In Part 2, we move past the wild stories and get into grown woman truth. We talk about stability vs love, cheating and what women tolerate, dating trauma, daddy issues, being equally yoked, and why some women stay even when they know better.
Is security more important than passion?Would you stay with a man who provides but cheats?Are you building a man… or meeting one who’s already built?
We also dive into interracial parenting, culture shock, boy mom attachment, and how childhood shapes the partners we choose.
This episode is honest, layered, and not for surface-level thinkers. It’s messy, mature, and necessary.
If Part 1 was wild, Part 2 is the wake-up call.
Hosted by AbsSponsored by Hair on 10 and Undivided Attention LLC
9 Feb 2026
Sneaky Links and Doing Whatever You Want (Part 1)
In Episode 2, Part 1, Abs sits down with Taylor for an unfiltered, no-shame conversation about dating, desire, side pieces, sneaky links, and doing exactly what you want while figuring life out. Taylor gets real about her past, dating in big cities vs small towns, having s*x with more than one person in a day, city girl logic, why nice girls like bad boys, and how chasing men versus letting them chase you changes everything.
This episode is raw, funny, honest, and definitely not for the sensitive. It’s salon talk meets real life with no censor button.
Grab your drink, mind your business, and listen closely because this is just Part 1, and it only gets crazier from here.
🎙 Hosted by Abs
Sponsored by Hair on Ten & Undivided Attention LLC
2 Feb 2026
Boundaries, Energy, and the Audacity of People
In this episode, host Abby sits down with up & coming content creator HB for an honest, unfiltered conversation about boundaries, energy, relationships, and the audacity people move with these days.
Let's talk about protecting your peace, to healing versus accountability, soft life versus hustle life, and why saying “I’m busy” is often just avoiding the truth, this episode feels like real salon talk mixed with real-life lessons.
HB opens up about her energy, her mindset, and why accountability matters just as much as growth. No sugarcoating. No pretending. Just real conversation, laughs, and perspective you didn’t know you needed.
Grab your wine, grab your blunt, and get comfortable. This is one you’ll be replaying.
🎙 Hosted by Abs
Sponsored by Hair on Ten & Undivided Attention LLC
29 Jan 2026
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Hey, my beautiful people! Welcome to Under the Dryer, where the hair is set, and the tea is hot, okay? And the truth don’t need no permission!
From salon talk to real-life talk, we’re just keeping it fun, honest, and just a little deep.
Sponsored by Hair on Ten & Undivided Attention LLC.
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