23 Aug 2023
Silenced Wings: The Battle for Self-Expression
I was five years old, running down my kindergarten school hallway with other classmates after going to the bathroom.🤪
I remembered the joy, laughter, and children's screams running back to our class. But when I entered the room, I remember feeling it was small and dark, probably because of the emotions it evoked as a child. 🥹
Our teacher was waiting for us — I don't remember her face, her clothes, or the details on the wall of a typical kindergarten classroom.
All I remember is the energy going through my body as I stood before her and my class, feeling as if I was the only one there.😔
She had cut out a piece of tape, placed it over my mouth, and instructed me to stand against a corner for "my bad behavior." 😡
And so the little girl who was happy, bubbly, curious, and creative had her self-expression wings cut out in an instant!
That told me it was not ok to BE myself AND to dime my light 💡 for others to be comfortable around me!
So I hid! 🫣
For a long time!…
Until I had it and chose to chisel away the walls I had built around me!
The reason I am sharing this story with you is because often, in our personal or professional life, people will be uncomfortable with who we are because of:
👉 Being too much when you were being your happy self
👉 too loud when you are using your voice
👉 too opinionated when you are sharing your ideas
👉 Arrogant when you are assertive
👉 Rude when you were stating your truth and setting boundaries!
👉Overthinking or dimming your light so it doesn't blind others!
At some point in your life, perhaps your wings were cut off too by family, friends, bosses, people in "leadership" positions, or society!
And you go through life trying to fit 🧩 to other people's expectations until you abandon who you really are entirely!
Today and hereon, Give yourself permission to spread your wings and be yourself!
🌟 Embrace Your Essence: Let Your Light Shine! 🌟
Let's begin the conversation about the magic of self-expression and fully embracing who we are at our core. 🌟✨
Life's too short to hide behind masks or pretend to be anyone other than ourselves. 🎭 It's time to break free from those self-imposed limitations and let our authentic selves shine through!
💃 Whether you're a quirky artist, a fierce dreamer, a wild adventurer, or anything in between – OWN it because that's what makes you INCREDIBLE! 🚀
Remember, each one of us is a unique masterpiece, a one-of-a-kind blend of passions, quirks, and dreams. 🎨📚 So, let's celebrate our individuality and let our true colors burst forth like a vibrant painting on the canvas of life! 🎉
💖 Rock those funky outfits that reflect your personality.
💬 Speak your mind and share your unique ideas with the world.
🎶 Dance like nobody's watching to your favorite tunes (I do it all the time)!
🌼 Chase your dreams relentlessly and fearlessly.
Let's create a world where authenticity reigns supreme and where we're free to express ourselves without hesitation.
🌍✨ So, my beautiful friends, let's unite in this journey of self-discovery, self-love, and unapologetic self-expression! Let's remind ourselves and others that it's absolutely okay to be ourselves – in fact, it's the most beautiful thing we can be! 🌟
Spread those good vibes, share your stories, and encourage others to let their inner light shine too! 🌞 Because we inspire others to do the same when we embrace our essence.
🌈✨ Let's light up this world with our authenticity!
#EmbraceYourEssence #BeYourself #SelfExpressionMagic #AuthenticityMatters #inwardjourney
