In this episode, we discuss lobola - what is our understanding of lobola? Is it outdated or misunderstood? Why are sisters contributing to their own roora? And it gets lowkey heated when we start discussing “self-sustainability” and “partnership”.
26 Nov 2020
Ask the Brothers
In this episode, we’re joined by Jay and Fairo for our “ask the brothers” episode. We engage with them from the purview of trying to understand men folk behaviour. We touch on consistency in relationships, selling people’s children dreams, “mens training”, prenups, setting and stating expectations, establishing friendship with your partner, as well as the dynamics of shared finances.
4 Nov 2020
Toxic Relationships
In this episode, we discuss surviving toxic relationships, heeding the warning signs, the appendages to stockholm syndrome, breaking free from abusers, gender-based violence and rape.
21 Oct 2020
Performing Whiteness P2
In this episode, we continue our discussion on performing whiteness, moving away from the language debate, and delving into behaviours, interests, interracial relationships, and the awkwardness that comes with having to carry the responsibility for all black folk.
8 Oct 2020
Promiscuity
In this episode we discuss promiscuity, diving into what it means to be “loose” in different parts of the continent, and stereotypes about the place of women in society.
23 Sept 2020
Performing Whiteness
In this episode, we discuss performing whiteness. Steve Biko once said, “double consciousness is knowing the particularity of the white world in the face of its enforced claim to universality...Double consciousness, in other words, is knowing a lie while living its contradiction”. In this boma we try to make sense of the contradiction, exploring our positionality in a society where the black experience often exists on the fringes.
9 Sept 2020
Black Representation
In this episode, we discuss black representation in the media, the impact the lack of representation has on those who are excluded from dominant narratives, the complexities of “colourism” in the black community, and we also take a moment to celebrate the life and times of Chadwick Boseman.
26 Aug 2020
Unpopular Opinions
In this episode, we discuss unpopular opinions, words and perceived ways of being in the world - everything from notions of promiscuity, blue ticking, the LGBTQIA community, weaves and dating while broke.
19 Aug 2020
Adulting
In this episode, we discuss our experiences navigating “adulting”, we were never ready, but we are out here doing the things. We touch on expectations met and unmet, and what keeps us afloat even on the hardest days.
12 Aug 2020
Friendship?
In this episode, we muse about friendships - the highs and the lows, the originals and the ones that went astray, mutual friends in relationships, and those who are not of your bloodline that become family.
5 Aug 2020
Cancel “Woke” Culture
In this episode, we muse about cancel, “woke” culture and consider whether it’s a deterrent to freedom of expression or an effective mechanism to draw attention to social injustices.
29 Jul 2020
Entanglement Boys
In this episode, we candidly muse about dealing with “entanglement boys''; those brothers who just won’t commit, but still expect all the girlfriend privileges. They’re often emotionally unavailable, stay finessing you with their lies, couldn’t care less about your feelings, and unbeknown to you often have other “partners”.
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